The hurt makes us better, as the tears makes us stronger

We all as Humans walk a path along our journey of life, all the paths before us and the one we chose to follow are not perfect, they are not straight or even smooth, they all have their twists and turns, bumps and hurdles to over come, then there is the Human factor we have to endure as we walk that path, the Human factor can range from a wide variety of things, all these things when handled in moderation and with confidence, can help us walk our path along our journey of life, to be better and stronger and can be without a doubt a journey full of smiles, with much happiness to share with all that is around us.

The Human factor is probably the hardest thing we will have to deal with on our path of our journey of life, Human behavior is the hardest thing for anybody to understand totally, even the best of the experts can’t even totally understand why the Human does certain things, these experts might understand some things better as time goes by, but struggle to understand human behavior totally, the biggest reason for this is, the human mind…… yes we all have one and the only one to truly understand the mind, is each of us of our own mind, cause nobody on the outside will ever know what is going on, on the inside of our minds, even us ourselves don’t even know the true power of our own minds.

This group ISIS that is creating terror throughout the world, yes they are “mentally deranged” Individuals, yes they need to be stopped, we know they are made up of radicals throughout the world, we know they show no empathy or remorse of anybody, even themselves and their agenda, but what truly is their agenda? What truly is going on deep within their minds? Do they think they can control the world through this terror? or do they really enjoy being a sick deranged Individual? or maybe they are true Saten coming to walk this Earth, much like Jesus did many years ago? No matter how you look at it, they are pure evil and need to be stopped, whatever is going on in their minds? Maybe we really do not want to know? But they to are walking their paths of their journey, just that their sick twisted minds are very different, from all the rest of us that walk our paths of our journey.

We all as Humans go through much hurt and trauma along our journey, we all have these life events that happen to us, we all suffer losses to either our loved ones, or others close to us, as all these things happen to us, we get lost within ourselves cause we don’t know how to truly feel when these things happen, we don’t show emotion or even cry, cause we think others around us will make fun of us and think we are weak? So we then hide our true emotions just to not show weakness to others, as these events happen to us and we become hurt with much trauma, we suppress our true feelings, show no emotion just to show others we are strong, meanwhile deep inside ourselves we are lost within ourselves, our minds become so overwhelmed with our own thoughts, we shut it out just to not listen to our own reality anymore and replace these thoughts with anything we can, just to stop all the hurt and the trauma that consumes us, if we only stopped and listened to that inner child within us, made sense of our thoughts within our minds, showed more emotion to ourselves and others around us, just maybe we all would be stronger and better on our paths of our journey of life, maybe if we all cried more when we needed to most, then we all can be true to ourselves and of each other, life on our paths isn’t perfect, but if we changed the way we did things, just maybe we can come a little closer to making our paths perfect, so we all can be better and stronger with confidence along this journey we walk, here on Earth.

” crying is not a sign of weakness, as each tear brings strength to each and every one of us”

” the human mind is so very complexed, even the greatest minds are perplexed over the mind”

” hurt and trauma comes to each of us, we just have to change the ways we approach them, so we can move forward with confidence and strength”

The real Trauma of our Society, within our Society

We may think of trauma as something that brings us to a hospital emergency room, for emergency medical treatment?

True Trauma of our Society happens in ways we have no clue of truly understanding it, it is what happens within our own bodies from the actions of the life events, that may happen to us throughout our Journey of life, this trauma could be a lot of things including, our very own soldiers that go fight for our freedom, so we here can enjoy our journey through life where we live, these soldiers while fighting the fight where ever they may be, they see a lot of things they normally would never see, they aim a weapon of destruction at another Human being and pull a trigger to kill that human, they see things that mess them up in the Psyche of their heads, then when they come back and we ignore them, tell them get over it there is nothing wrong with you?

You have other Humans within our own neighborhoods, because of the broken homes of which they were raised, think nothing of getting revenge on another, just because that person looked at them the wrong way?

You also have people of authority, that abuse their authority, just to have a feeling of control over others, then expect those people to bow at their every wish?

With all the crap that happens every day of our lives and within our community, no wonder why our Society is broken and in need of a desperate fix, but the way we are trying to fix the problems is the wrong way, we need to better understand the true meaning of trauma and what it is doing to all of our psyche’s.

This Trauma I speak of, is turning all of us against each other and forcing us to move forward full of hate, instead of full of love of one another, the trauma of the ones creating the chaos, will not be fixed by locking them up and keeping them from the rest of us, as this will only make the trauma fester within them stronger than ever, they need to be treated for the trauma by a specialist that will get to the root of the trauma and correct it, so the trauma can’t hurt anybody anywhere forever, this trauma isn’t just a superficial wound, this wound goes deep within the core of all of us as Humans.

Trauma happens to all of us everyday of our lives, we don’t acknowledge this trauma cause we simply don’t understand it, so we than move forward without addressing the trauma, in order to proceed like there is nothing wrong and we don’t want to show others around us we are weak, but when things happen to us, we need to communicate what we don’t understand, so we can be better and stronger moving forward on our paths of our journey of life, when we are better and stronger, then our Society becomes better and stronger, for all that live within that Society.

Trauma isn’t just a visit to the hospital for a superficial wound, trauma is deep within all of us and how we react to a situation that happens to us, that may end up making us do things we normally would never do, cause we don’t take the time to understand the trauma that has happened to us, Trauma could be small, it also could be big, but it is a trauma cause we let it fester inside us, til one day we do things we normally would never do, as we don’t take the time to understand it and communicate better of the trauma, in order to truly fix it, so this trauma won’t affect us or others around us in any way, shape or form.

” Trauma is more than a superficial wound, it affects us deep within the core of our being”

” To truly understand trauma will help us all move forward on our paths of our Journey of life”