Standing Alone……

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Within this society of today and with the all the social media platforms, most may think having the most followers might make you better than the rest? Just because you get a lot of likes of your status on a platform really does not mean, others care who you are, what people tend to forget is, you are posting a status from behind the screen of your device and it is very easy to portray strength or be someone you really are not. Since the creation of Facebook and Twitter, we all have totally forgotten of who we are, instead we post a status that makes us out to be better than the rest, we hide behind our devices and use them as a crutch, to keep from simply being ourselves, only because for some reason, we totally think we have to put forth this fake identity in order for others to accept us.

Nobody knows how to stand on their own anymore, as all the real ” Social” interaction is gone from this society today. Without real interaction, we simply can not heal in a healthy way from what has hurt us with real pain. Somewhere along this journey through life we all have been hurt with real pain, whether that hurt comes self inflicted, or whether that hurt comes from another around us? The pain still hurts, but we can not truly heal on our own and yes, we do need interaction of others to help us heal in a healthy way.

Now don’t get me wrong The social media platforms can be good when used in the proper way, family members who move away we can still stay in touch like they are still right here with us. Friends we have found in school or college and when those days end, we all go our separate ways, well now we can still stay in touch, for one day when we plan a get together or reunite, to catch up and keep the friendship alive. Throughout this society and with all the drama already within it, these platforms just simply bring even more drama, with some of the ridiculous posts some may place on their status? Most of the posts out their do not even come close to being true, as we have lost that part of the journey and we do not know how to be true, not just to ourselves, but to one another.

What’s in a status you say? Really nothing as being in front of the one you want to chat with, goes a heck of a longer way than what any status can say. Respect and Dignity are gone from this society only because we do not truly interact with each other face to face, It is the true face to face interactions that makes us better and stronger moving forward, between the fake interactions and the posting to a status, we have created this political correctness, which now we become easily offended and the thick skin we used to have is gone, leaving behind all the scars from what brings us pain and hurt, so now we all have become weak and damaged and will do whatever we can to protect ourselves, like hiding deep within just to minimize the pain.

Within today’s society and all the so called friends on our platforms, we really have become a lonely society, lonely because some do not have that one true friend to confide in and vice versa, when the going gets tough, when we talk deeply of ourselves that is when the true healing starts and within all these platforms and the hiding behind a device, this keeps us from being as open as we should, so we than can truly heal ourselves from all the pain and hurt.  In order to be stronger and better as we walk our paths through this journey of life, we always need that face to face interaction, so we than can heal as healthy as we can from whatever keeps us down, hiding behind a device teaches us nothing, the only thing the device may teach us is, make our typing skills that much better, but other than that it really does nothing for us. We can’t even walk within society today without the device in our hands, nor even drive our cars with the device glued to our ears, when we walk down the street we don’t even know where we are going half the time, as we walk with our heads down within our device, instead of looking at where we are going, some have become so addicted to the device, that they can not put it down even for a second. The sad part is, we can change this if we wanted, but these devices have become so convenient, that we do not want to change anything and just keep walking our paths through this journey of life, the way we want so we can keep this fake reality in front of us, so we can hide behind it to keep the pain and hurt hidden deep within ourselves.

 

” Standing alone comes true peace and strength, without hiding behind any device”

” When you stand tall on your own two feet with no crutch, you will always move forward better and stronger”

” A status is nothing really except a bunch of make believe on a platform”

” Social media can be a good thing when used correctly, but like everything touched by man, it has become old and worn out as also we have become the same way”

Life is not about buying your way into a status………….

I get the fact that each generation through this society, should be better than the one of the past, but at what cost are we really paying, when we buy our way into anything, without working hard and paying the dues as we should? With this latest scandal of the paying big money to get your child into an elite college, who are the ones really being hurt here? It’s the ones that were rejected because someone paid big dollars to get their child in, without even working hard to be accepted into that college. The ones that were rejected may have just done everything right and everything as they should, but because someone has money, doesn’t give them the right to jump ahead of the pack, just to give their child the prestige, or the right to claim a higher status over their Peers.

Going to college wherever that may be, should be respectful and full of knowledge, for whom ever the person is that is going. College should yes be a fun time for any student, as well as teach our children, just how to work hard and when you work hard, life will reward you with big rewards. You think those children whose Parents bought their way into the elite college, will work hard for their knowledge? Exactly!!! They are going to think that you can buy anything in life, plus they are going to party everyday, instead of working hard to achieve great things, as they walk their paths through this journey of life.

I agree we all deserve some breaks from time to time, but only because you have worked hard for what you have, or for where you are? But when you buy your way into something only means one thing and one thing only, you simply have cheated the system and robbed someone else, for trying to help themselves and move forward, so they to can live the dream and earn respect with every step. We all have dreams, we all have hopes, but when you buy into something, now your shattering all hope and destroying any dreams away from another, while you are only thinking of yourself and no other.

Life doesn’t have to be about any status, nor does it have to be about money, although………… Yes you need money to pay the bills and live, but really now, life really is about being happy, peaceful and sharing your love and compassion with each other. the money is only extracurricular and by no means do we truly need it, just that in this society full of greed, we have come to attached to it, which has divided us, instead of bringing us together within the love and joy, that Jesus Christ brought to each of us everyday. Money may buy us material things, money may help us cheat and jump ahead of each other, but money will never buy true happiness, money will never buy us love, as love is already within each of us, we can’t take the money with us when we depart this journey, so why are we so hell bent on trying to acquire all the money?

” The only status in life that should matter, is your status with Jesus Christ, to keep the faith with great hope always”

” Instead of trying to show off to others with our wealth, may we try showing off Jesus Christ , for the true love and happiness always”

” College is good to be there for the right reasons, but not just to achieve a status”

The Road to the White House………..

GEDSC DIGITAL CAMERA          This may be 2015 but the 2016 Presidential elections are starting to heat up and if you look in the eyes of the propaganda Media, they will make this race out to be a three ring circus. The President of the United States is supposed to be a very hard job and a 24/7 job at that, plus it is also suppose to be a job that not just we here in the United States have much respect for, but all others throughout the globe and their leaders respect as well, right now with how this office is held and with the views of the propaganda media, our Country is the laughing stock throughout the World. I hate to say it but we the people don’t elect the President anymore, it is the propaganda Media that does this for us, by all the stupid questions in the debates and reporting on things that have absolutely nothing to do with electing a solid President, that will bring this Country forward instead of down.

Seriously!!! Where do the ring leaders of the Circus, or the Propaganda Media come up with these questions for the debate, or do they simply only ask dumb questions to the Candidates of which they don’t support? All these left wing Media  nut cases will report everything bad of the Candidates they don’t support, then say nothing of the ones they do support, even if those Candidates are dirty and only want to be president to give favors to those who support them. Another thing that is killing this Society is all the Political Correction and people afraid to say anything, for the fear of offending others, this is exactly why Donald Trump is doing so well, because he is saying what all others want to say and are afraid to say it. What I say about Political Correction is, ” you can’t handle the truth”. There is a way around the Political Correction problem and that is, constructive criticism, this is a way to help each other be better and stronger moving forward. We are all so wrapped up in the political correct game that we won’t help each other anymore, When someone is hurting and in need of help, we are all guilty of turning the cheek and walking away, simply because we are afraid to not only offend someone, but we are greatly afraid of any bad ramifications that may come back to us.

” We all live in a shell, the shell of political Correction”

With the way that the economies of the United States and the World are shaping up, you would think we need a President that is financially sound in his/her ways? And even a very charismatic person so they can be a great diplomat towards other Countries? These are just a couple of the many real issues that need to be addressed by all the Candidates involved, no matter if your a Republican or a Democrat? Than why doesn’t the Propaganda Media ask the real questions, instead of asking the stupid and any other question but the real issue questions? I have no clue to the why, but my guess to why the propaganda Media is this way, simply for the ratings which brings more money within their pockets and I wouldn’t be surprised if there is big kick backs from the funds of certain Candidates to the Executives of this Propaganda Media. Now don’t get me started of the Elected Officials that are already in and have their hands out to the special interest groups, that want them to push their agendas before the real issues that need addressing, that’s for another blog.

The road to the White House should be full of respect and dignity, but it is far from that now and is totally all about being a Celebrity and famous. The current President we have now is more worried about his Celebrity status, than rolling up his sleeves and getting his hands dirty while fixing the real issues that this Country desperately needs. Instead of adding to the Trillion dollar debt, maybe it might be a good idea to start reducing this debt down? Maybe it would be a good idea to create real jobs and stop fudging the numbers to make it look like you are bringing the  unemployment down? True their are jobs out there but, they are not the same quality job that were once here in this Country, as a lot of them went over seas, because it is cheaper for them to operate, maybe we should fix this problem? So we can create more tax payer’s, which will help you bring down the debt, as long as “ALL” of the elected officials stay within their budgets? Budgets are made so you don’t over spend, pay down debt and actually save money for a rainy day, I don’t know……… If i can think of this than why can’t our elected officials? ” Oh wait….there are no budgets made within the White house I forget”. We all walk a path throughout this journey of life, the paths may be different but the journey is the same. I think we all need to show more empathy of each other, instead of stepping on each other, so we all can walk our paths within this journey of life, peacefully and in happiness, to be better and stronger moving forward.

” the road to the White House should be that of respect and dignity, not trying to get to a higher celebrity status”

” The Presidential elections should be about the Candidates who have the qualifications to do the job, not about doing favors for the ones who put them in the office”

” the propaganda Media should be reporting the facts, not twisting the facts that best suits them and the ratings, so they can get rich and live their plush lifestyles”