Shutting down and not being of who you truly are……..

writing

This journey through life will throw many curve balls and trip you up if you do not adapt and change correctly. The paths we walk may differ, but the journey is all the same, we view everything differently from one another and when we look at something, someone else will see different of the thing we are looking at. throughout this journey, there will be many life events that will come before us, some we may bring on ourselves with others coming to us from another. With these events will come much pain and hurt and will hurt us deeply if we never take care of them properly, without hiding within and becoming someone for who we truly are not.

Within this picture, we all will see very different all that is within the frame of the picture, some may not see anything but green and say this is boring? But only because you yourself are hiding within and not truly feeling your true feelings deep within, you may see the rocks in the path and just see them as rocks, but just like in this journey, the paths will have obstacles to get around or climb over. When we hide within and never truly feel the true feelings within, we will then isolate ourselves from everything, in order to keep further harm from bringing us more pain.

Isolation is something we do to hide from reality especially when that reality brings us much pain and hurt. The life events that come to us along this journey, are some from our own actions but a lot comes from the actions of others toward us as we walk our paths, even when we do not ask for whatever the event that may come to us. There are a wide range of events that will affect us, these events will control every fiber of our being as well if we let it, true they may not be something we can control, but when we stay true to who we are, then we can fix what we need to fix, to move forward better and stronger, instead of hiding within and escaping all the pain and hurt from the events.

When we hide within we then become isolated from everything around us, we bury our true feelings so deep within our souls, we then try to move forward with no feelings to actually feel anything around us, when we trip and fall on the obstacles and instead of picking ourselves up properly, we then get engulfed in the self-pity to the point, we then become numb from the true pain and hurt we may feel and never let it scar and heal properly. ” The scars may let us know where we have been, but they do not have to dictate where we are going”. Procrastination is a big part of life events throughout this journey when we procrastinate we then do not properly heal in a healthy time frame, which has us do anything to relieve ourselves from all the pain and hurt.

When we become isolated from all that is around us, we then shutdown to try to escape the real pain, when we shutdown we then pay no attention to what may lie around us, which we will never see any of the true beauty that is right in front of us. Some may look at this picture and see nothing, while others will see all the true beauty of mother nature, plus the small critter that may be lurking within the high grass in the picture? Life events can and will control every fiber of your being, real pain and hurt will come from the life events, but when we take care properly of the life events, we then can minimize the pain, let our true feelings have us feel less hurt, while our love from within takes care of the hurt, so we all can move forward along our paths of this journey and be better and stronger, while we smile a real smile, out of true happiness always.

 

” When we shut down to escape all that is around us, we will never truly feel anything and never see any true beauty that may be in front of us”

 

” When we isolate ourselves from all that is around us, we then will be hiding in plain sight throughout this journey of life”

 

 

Advertisements