The Hater’s will always be hateful of everything.

All this talk of Tom Brady and the New England Patriots with “deflate gate”, has been so over blown that nobody can talk about any sport, without bringing up Tom Brady in a negative way.

” The Hater’s are going to always hate”, simply because they are too lazy, to even try to be like the ones with great success. When ever you hate on something, or even chat negatively about something/someone, only shows one thing and that is you yourself has a very low self esteem, that maybe if you worked hard at increasing the esteem, than maybe you as well can have great success, like those you chose to hate on.

We all within this Society have our favorite teams throughout all the pro sports, some of these teams have a very low budget and can’t get the big name stars of that particular sport, simply because in the sports world and the Athlete endorsements, some of these player’s demand the ultimate highest dollar that they can get, there is nothing wrong with that except, it ruins the fun part of sports for all of us to enjoy.

Lets look back in time, when the New York Yankees were always winning games and championships, or the Montreal Canadians were winning games and championships, the Yankees nickname became the ” evil empire” and the Canadians were known as the ” dreaded Habs”. Everybody hated on them so much, simply because they were always winning and the Hater’s team couldn’t beat them, I say to the Hater’s, ” if you want to be a champion and win, then step up to the plate, put in the hard work so you can have great success, like those you hate”.

The New England Patriots today, are very much like the Yankees and Canadians of the past, because they always win and the other players and fans instead of stepping up to the plate, take the easy way out and simply hate on them. Tom Brady is the Quarterback of this team the Patriots, he has become the face of the Patriots, for his longevity and tenure with the team, but what is not talked enough about Tom is, the fact that he is always the first one to practice before any of his teammates, it is this practice that makes him so good and if we all practice in life like Tom in football, than just maybe all our lives will be 100% better, as we all become stronger in all we do. The other thing of Tom that is never chatted about is, the fact he restructured his contracted twice for less money, so the Patriots can put a better team around him, true that Tom still makes good money and his endorsements more than make up for the restructuring, but Tom Brady plays the game of football cause he loves the game that much and enjoys what he does.

When we all as Human beings, walk our paths along this journey of life, practice everything to the point we get great at it, then yes we to can have great success like Tom Brady, the New England Patriots, Yankees, or the Canadians and just maybe all this hate that has consumed us all, will disappear from all our lives.   That old cliche of ” practice makes perfect”, okay maybe we won’t be perfect, as there is no one that is perfect, but we can come pretty close as the practice will make us so much better and stronger as we walk our paths along this journey of life.

” I believe in and will always stay true to Tom Brady, as he should be a true role model for all of us to follow and strive to be like him”

” Practice may not make you be perfect, but it will make you better and stronger at what ever you want to do”

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When you love yourself, you like who you are and all that is around you………

Our lives along our paths of our Journey of life, will never be perfect nor will we as Humans as well, we all suffer some kind of life event and we all have been bullied at some point in our lives also, being bullied doesn’t only mean to be physically attacked,, as the worst kind of bullying happens mentally, with the scars lasting the rest of our journey of our lives.

Bullying is more common than we want to believe, only because the ones that have been the victim, hide deep within themselves in order to minimize the pain and harm that has come to them, as the victim hides their true feelings and emotions, they become isolated from everything around them, they lose their feeling of self worth and their self esteem seems like it was never there, they don’t want to admit to anybody of their weakness, so they than live a fantasy world and become something that they truly are not, being a victim is the saddest thing we as Humans will ever have to entail, but the scary thing is, there are a lot more victims than Bullies out there, just that the victim stays within themselves with no signs of reaching out to anybody for help.

Reaching out to anybody for help is easier said than done, cause in this Society where weakness is ridiculed and frowned upon, plus the victim of the abuse or Bullying are suffering from low self esteem and self worth, their trust in everything around them has been taken from them, when your trust is taken from you, it is very hard to get it back, yes it can come back, but you need trust in yourself to truly love yourself, so you then can be truly happy with who you are, the Human body and the Human spirit are so complex, only we don’t take the time to understand them and we take action, before we think of the ramifications of our actions.

The Bully always takes action without thinking of the ramifications of his/her actions, they have no feelings of remorse or empathy, or otherwise they wouldn’t try to control whatever they are trying to control, all they think about is the power they try to achieve, by Bullying their victim, the Bully thinks that the more victims they have, the more powerful they are? A Bully can only operate when the victim shows fear for the Bully, fear is another powerful feeling within us all, but the Bully uses this fear to his/her advantage, fear can only be used effectively when you have no feeling of remorse or empathy, a good percentage of the Bullies out there, have been bullied themselves, this is their way of trying to make sense of their own victimization.

For the Victim, being bullied is never easy, for the Bully it is about inflicting fear to achieve power, either way it shows nothing but, we as a Society need to better understand the Human body and the Human spirit, so we all can walk our paths along our Journey of life in peace while we all love ourselves deeply, so we can truly love one another and all this hate in our Society will disappear once and for all, true love of ourselves and of each other, is what God wanted for us when he created us and to show him we appreciate his creation, we all need to work together to achieve this true love, so we all can walk our Journey’s of life in peace.

” A Bully is nothing more than someone who is hurting deeply inside and even more than the Victim that he/she has victimized”

” Being a victim of a Bully is never easy, so we need to stand up to the Bully, so the fear factor will never come into play”

” To truly love yourself, means you totally love who you are and all that is around you”