Newsflash!!! Abuse is not just happening in the Sports world.

Abuse is happening all over this Society and all we need to do is, take the blinders off and look around to see what is truly happening around us.

Abuse doesn’t have to be physical in nature, it is the use of words to each other that hurts even worse and the pain from this type of abuse, lasts a lot longer than the scars of the physical abuse.

Abuse of any kind hurts the victim in ways we don’t even see, because the long term scars are all on the inside of us, in the form of our self esteem, self worth and minds to name a few, in most cases the abuse starts in the form of derogatory words, that do nothing but breaks you of our self worth, gives you a feeling that we are not worthy of the good around us, then as the verbal abuse continues we go into a shell and become numb to everything around us to shut out the pain, we go into deep denial to try to rationalize away what the effects is doing to us, cause we don’t want to show any weakness to anybody, including the one that is abusing us.

The person that is doing the abuse wants to think they have complete control of you, with this control comes the urge to continue the abuse, so they can feel so much power that they think they are invincible, they smother their victim with so much abuse, that the victim feels trapped with no way out, which keeps the abuse going for a longer period of time, during this time of the abuse, it turns from verbal and mental abuse, to physical abuse which makes the pain that’s already there become more real and more painful, then the victim suppresses even further the pain to try to make it go away, while the victim suppresses they lose all sense of reality, they lose all their true feelings and emotions and there self esteem gets so low, that their self worth becomes non-existent, which does nothing but keeps them in the abuse, cause they think it’s the only way, while the Abuser becomes stronger with this power they have over you.

This abuse of one another has been going on since before Jesus came to us and walked his Journey with us, only in this Society of today, with all the “all about me” attitudes out there it has become worse, we show no empathy and remorse towards each other and look at each other as an object, instead of a person or a Human being with feelings, we are all the son or daughter of somebody and in the bigger scheme of our Journey, we are all sons and daughters to the Lord God himself, the reason why it has been raining down on us so much lately, is the fact that God is sad the way we are treating each other down here and he is crying for us, as he wants us to change our ways to the vision he had for us when he created us, this vision was out of love which is a feeling we have lost through time on our paths along our Journey of life.

Abuse is not just happening within the world of sport’s, it is happening within our Society everyday of our lives whether we see it or not, we need to open our eyes to it, better understand the effects it has on us, not just the pain of the victim, but the emotional power game effect it has on the abuser as well, we all hurt in our own way, but when we show no empathy and remorse towards each other, this hurt becomes so strong and gives us so much pain, we do anything to try to rid this pain from us, instead of shutting ourselves down and going into our shells to protect ourselves from the pain, we need to understand better the why? So we can stand up against it and not show “Hate” towards it, but show love, the reason why we don’t show this love, is because its harder to love and easier to hate than move forward on our Journey.

When the Victim of the abuse is in the darkest part of the abuse, it is very hard to reach out cause you don’t know who you can trust, so you stay within your shell and bury all the pain deep within yourself, like all your true feelings and emotions become lost deep inside, this trust becomes lost and now the victim feels helpless within the abuse, all the while the abuser has an even greater feeling of power over you, in both the victim and the abuser, they both have issues that need attention, more so on the victim, but the abuser has issues of a different kind, issues that make them crave more power and will do anything to get it, they than lose all their empathy and remorse, so they can keep creating more victims and the ugly circle just keeps rotating.

This problem of Abuse is not just an Individual or a sports problem, it is a problem we as a Society have to work together to fix, by better understanding what our actions of each other, have on each other, not just our physical actions, but our actions of our mouths and the words we use towards each other, abuse happens in many ways to all of us on our paths along our Journey of life, but when we show more empathy and remorse of each other, the abuse cycle we are in will cease to exist, nobody should have to suffer through any kind of abuse and we all should love one another, as the children of God that we are.

” Abuse is not just happening in the world of sports, it is happening within our Society as we walk our Journey of life”

” Abuse happens in many ways, we need to better understand it and show more empathy and remorse of each other”

” The victim of the abuse may be in the dark, the abuser thinks the light shines on him/her giving them this self proclaimed power”

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Society of today has no “Face”

Our Society of today quite simply has no more face to face interactions anymore.
All the Societies of Mankinds past and our Anchestor’s, was all about face to face interactions, when things needed to get done, or if you needed help with your troubles, you interacted with another Individual face to face, or even if there was a disagreement, you worked it out face to face, now everbody is afraid to interact face to face and just simply hide behind anything they can (like social media), so they won’t be afraid if some kind of action is taken on them.
With all these dating sites, social media sites, or even job sites, we lose the most important part of us as Humans building on our character, we lose out on our social skills and become Individuals of solitude, we don’t learn how to act properly in public settings, we say nothing to anybody cause we are afraid to offend them, NEWSFLASH!!! constructive criticism is an important part of us as an Individual growing with strength to be better, without face to face interactions, we become a troubled Society and it is showing now.
With the troubles in Ferguson, MO. Shows that we are a Society in Ruin, than you have a few that play the “race card”, another NEWSFLASH!!! There is no such thing as “race card” in a God created world, God created all of us as equal, no matter color of skin, or where you are from. It is us as Humans that have created this and it has to be us as Humans to end this. The problem lies within a few that use this so called “race card”, so they can push their views on the rest of us and use it as an excuse to put themselves above all,it is time the rest of us see through their agendas and stop listening to what they are saying.
While a high percentage of Americans are still looking for work, all the companies are hiding behind social media, so they don’t have to meet face to face, they lead on to the people looking for work and making them think they have a chance? You show up to follow up with them, only to find they won’t come out to meet you, instead they send out a subordinate inorder to get rid of you in a nice way, this political correction crap has made us all soft and not knowing how to deal face to face anymore.
Political correct, social media, technology, these are things that could of made our Society better and us as Individuals stronger, but we have gone in the other direction with these and it has made us weaker and worse off then Societies of the past, we all sneak around in order to avoid face to face interaction, than we stab each other in the back, with our actions we think are okay in our own little world, the time is now to wake up to reality, before reality stabs us all in the back, get out from behind your social media’s and look around at what God created for us, look around at life and how all other Societies succeeded from the beginning of Mankind.

” Face to face interaction is a blessing from God, not to hide from it and be someone you are not”

” Instead of being afraid of offending someone, take them aside and chat face to face with them, you just might learn something of yourself also”

The World in which we live

The World we live today has become so distorted, no matter which way you turn, you are bombarded with awful news and from all angles, unlike the times before the media, we the people never knew what was happening anywhere, now with the Media we know when any World leader walks down the street just to get an ice cream? All this just so all in the Media can sell a story and pocket big bucks at our expense.
Everything that is going on in the Middle East now, is nothing new and has been going on, since before Jesus Christ came to us and walked the Earth over there, as he was born in Bethlehem and even before that they were fighting over there, always has been one leader wanting to take over another, to control a bigger area, it’s the Media of today trying to make it seem like its new and inhumane? Just so they can create more drama amongst us, while selling more stories and profiting at our expense.
No matter what other Countries do, to try to change their ways over there and try to make their lives better, they will always go back to what they do, cause that is all they know how to do. Yes maybe there are some over there that want change, but there are far more that just want to keep on “keeping on”, just so they can keep the feeling of having control over others, that is their lifestyle and no matter what we think over here, they could give two (you know what) what we think, the fact is we all in our own Countries, have our lifestyles and who are we to change other’s, just because they seem different than us, God sent his only son Jesus to walk the Earth over there, to help them see the path of rightousness and we can see what that did, as they still are fighting each other over there, if God couldn’t get them to change their ways, what makes you think anybody else will?
The World we live today, with all the technology at our disposal and we still can’t get along as Humans, this is a very sad reality and a reality that will end up destroying this Planet we know and come to love, speaking of love, this is something this Society in all the Countries lack, as for right now there is more hatred than love, you walk down the street and nobody even says a simple hello to each other anymore, they have ear plugs in, while looking at their phones texting or checking the web and within their own thoughts and world, nobody chats face to face anymore, cause it’s easier to chat by text then go somewhere, NEWSFLASH!!! without face to face contact all the coping skills of Mankind will cease to exsist.

” Society has stopped moving forward and has gone backwards”

” our coping skills are in jeopardy, without them we will never unite”