The reality of life as we walk our paths along this journey

1398913762364” The words of little Martin Richards as he was tragically taken from this Society, in a senseless act”

We within this Society of today are so consumed with hatred, that we totally have forgotten just how to truly love anything anymore. We all have our issues and we all have these life events that happen to us, it is how we deal with these that strip us of the ability to truly love anything including ourselves.

This word of love is a deep passionate word we all feel deep within our soul, but in Today’s Society we throw it around like a baseball in a field. When we go in search of a new car and like a vehicle we see, we then say ” i love that car”? Or when we go to the movies and see a film that intrigues us, instead of liking that film we say ” i love that film, this word love is thrown around so much that it’s true meaning is lost, like our judgements are lost within the clouds deep within us. The clouds within our judgements comes from our issues and life events, that stop us from truly being who we are,

Love is a lot harder than hate and too most who take the easy route in life, would rather hate than love, cause it takes less effort and simply they would rather bury everything deep inside, then actually work at being better, so not only to love all that is around us, we could love ourselves also, ” you have too love yourself, before you can love another”.

Life has its way of getting in our way, that is part of all the paths within this journey through life. For us all to be better and stronger along this journey, How we deal with the issues and the events, helps us all to keep the clouds of our judgements, from clouding our vision of each other and ourselves.

There is no book to read or reference when we are struggling and our issues from our life events have become too painful to handle, we then through our clouded judgements lose how too truly love ourselves as well as others around us, we lose the true meaning and feeling of this word love, which we then throw it around like a Quarterback throws the pig skin in the game of football,

The word hate comes only from our laziness to not not feel the word love deep within us, from letting the life events take control of every fiber of our being and from we ourselves not being confident in our abilities to over come anything that may cross our paths. We to often get so consumed with this word hate, that we let it cloud our judgements and become someone we are not, cause quite simply we don’t want others around us to see us as weak. Just like on a sports team you are only as strong as your weakest link, but when you work together to strengthen the link, then you become stronger and better for whatever that may cross your path and as we all become stronger and better, then all our paths of our journey of life, will be out of true love of ourselves towards each other and hatred will no longer exist in our Society.

” just like on a sports team, we in life are only as strong as our weakest link, but if we work together to fix the link, then we all can show more love of ourselves towards each other, with no more hate around us”

” hate only consumes us when we are lazy, if we work hard along our paths of our journey, then love will surround us everywhere we go”

” love is deep within us all and is more than just a word, hate isn’t a real word as it only shows how lazy we all have become”

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Throw the curve ball………

Just as in Baseball when the Pitcher throws a curve ball to get the Batter to swing and miss, Life also throws a curve ball at us from time to time. This curve ball comes to us at every cross road we come to at our paths of our journey of life.

When we come to these cross roads and we have these life events happening to us, we become clouded in our judgements and can’t see the movement of the ball as it gets closer to us, we become out of focus and can’t seem to regain it, so we can swing and make contact with the ball, when the life events are in control then we are in control and can see every rotation of the curve ball.

In the game of Baseball when a player is in a slump, usually means there is something wrong with his approach to the game, or the way he is swinging at the baseball, then the player tries to do too much in order to get out of the slump, than all he is really doing is hurting his game more so, because he is not focusing on the things he needs to focus on, like watching and seeing the rotation of the curve ball, that is about to get into range for a good swing and good contact on the ball, so he can give his team a chance to win the game.

Life for all of us as we walk our paths of our journey, is kind of similar to a Ball Player, only that to a ball player it is a game, to us it is reality and who we become along our journey through life. The concept is similar, just that one has a huge effect on us as a person. These life events are what gets us out of focus, so when the curve ball of life comes to us, we can’t see the spin or the rotation of the ball as it approaches us, which makes us swing and miss all the time.

With these life events and us not handling them correctly, makes for very rough paths along our journey of life. These events will always be there, it is us that have to deal with them properly, when we do deal with them properly, not only will our paths along our journey be smoother, but we will always see the spin and the rotation of the curve ball, to which we will always swing and hit the curve ball, out of this park called life.

” A curve ball before it reaches the plate, will have a spin and a rotation to it, you have to focus on the ball in order to hit the ball for a great length”

” Life’s curve ball is a bit different, but the concept of to focus on whats in front of you, is very much the same, as we all walk this journey through life”

Long term -vs- short term in today’s Society

” We within this this Society of today, have gone the other way in the form of attachment to anything/ anyone, cause we try to protect ourselves from any harm that may come to us”.

Let’s look at relationships of a man and a woman, back in the day of our forefathers and theirs before them, they knew how to communicate correctly with each other to make their lives better and stronger, they didn’t even have the latest technology as we do today, but yet they knew everything of what was happening around them everyday, when the husband said he he was going to town for supplies, the wife knew it would be an all day event by horseback and would take care of the homestead and have dinner ready on his return, dinner time was a time to talk face to face on the daily happenings of the days events and there were no beating around the bush, as there was complete honesty and trustworthy between each other, unlike married couples of today who do not know how to truly communicate, with many secrets being held between each other everyday.

This lack of attachment in today’s Society, has divided each one of us into a Society of Individualism, when we are alone it is very hard to trust and be honest with everybody around us, especially the one or ones we are close with, but in the end the only one that loses out on all the fun is we ourselves, as we learn that we are truly alone with nobody to turn to in the time of our need.

Sometimes this lack of attachment is not our fault, but we think in our minds that it is totally our fault and don’t share with anybody our troubles, then proceed further on our journey while hiding in plain sight and portraying this fake side of ourselves, this makes it hard for us to accept trust and honesty with ourselves, let alone the trust and honesty of those around us.

Life Events happen to all of us, sometimes they are small and easily fixable, but most of the times they are great and affect us in ways we don’t understand, when we don’t understand something, we than proceed to bury how we feel inside so others won’t see us in a state of hurt or something less than we are, Life events are part of all our lives on our Journey’s of life, we just need to better understand them, so we can move forward better and stronger, with the confidence to to overcome anything that may cross our paths along our Journey of life.

Life for all of us is full of many twists and turns, but with true communications of each other, with true honesty and trusting of each other, showing our true attachments of each other, without being in a lonely Individual state of mind, we can all live our lives in peace, while we show our true selves and be happy in everything we do, when we get involved with another person it is not cool to be with them while you think of being with another person, this is what’s hurting all the attachments in our Society, this is what makes our Society become a Society of short term, instead of a Society of long term, when we live for the short term we easily become bored and want to move on from what we have, regardless if what we have is solid and right, not to mention all the other crap that comes with living for the short term, sometimes it’s better to be the Tortoise than the Hare, so you can enjoy what you have and think of all your options before you react, cause sometimes it is the reaction that turns us into something we are not, if we all just simply be ourselves and not this fake reality self we put forth, we will find all of us in this Society will be much better for it and Society itself will be much stronger, as we walk our paths along our Journey of life.

” The lack of attachment in our society, has made us into a society of Individualism”

”  living life as an individual makes you feel alone, as living life with attachments makes you truly feel alive with a stronger feeling of self worth”

” Sometimes the lack of attachment is not our fault, but in our own minds we think it is totally our fault, so we move forward without it and become lonely in our own world”

The Weather events in our lives

We all have been seeing alot of Weather events all around us lately no matter where you live, severe flooding, thunderstorms tornados and tropical storms, these are all weather events that can affect each and every one of us.
When you research back in time even before Mankind, these events have been happening all over this Planet, yes they have made great strides with technology, to be able to give us better warnings of these events, just imagine back in time before technology ever exsisted, when people had to always look to the sky to see what it had in store for the day? Or even the storms that hit with no warning and crippled an entire area? We have come a long way to predict these events, but in this “all about me” Society, we have gone backwards in thinking, that everything revolves around me.
When we walk our paths, along our Journey’s of life, there will always be things that happen we can’t explain? Why does a Storm just pop up without warning? Why can’t the Meteorologists get the forecast right? No matter how good the technology you can’t predict exactly where the storm will touch down, you can give an area just not an accurate location, Mother Nature is a sign from God to us, we need to change, fix what is wrong so we can move forward along our Journey.
Life for all of us is full of these signs from God, it is us as Humans that determine if we want to see these signs or not, like the weather events, we all also have life events that happen to us as well, some extreme and some not so extreme, it is these life events that determine whether or not we actually feel God within our hearts and souls? When these life events happen, we try to protect ourselves from any harm that may come to us, in this process we than suppress our true feelings and emotions, which than leads to us not feeling God within our hearts and souls, God is always there no matter of our misfortunes, he always forgives when we need forgiving, just that we have to acknowledge and feel him, deep within our hearts and souls.
God reacts in many ways, weather events are one of those ways and a sign for us to see, that what we are doing needs to change, so our Society can change and when change happens for the right reasons, we all can walk our paths, along our Journey of life with strength, to be better with happiness in a World of beauty.

” Weather events is one way God gives us signs, we need to acknowledge and feel him deep within our hearts and souls, so we can see the signs he sends us”

” The technology of the weather service has come along way from the past, but it is still hard to accurately predict what Mother Nature wants to do”