The path of a Bully is the path of much hidden pain………

” We all walk a path through this journey of life, some may try to take advantage of others as they walk their paths along their journey they walk”

A Bully is a Human being just like you and me, only these types that take to Bullying, have great hidden pain that they hide deep within and instead of understanding this pain and fixing themselves, they take to inflicting fear in those around them, in order to try to seem more powerful then all others.

A Bully can come from anyone of us, any kind of action you take that has others fear to cross your path is a form of Bullying. A Bully can be a school teacher to their students, a Boss to their employee’s, a Classmate that you think is your friend? A Bully can be anyone of us that seek power over another.

When you are a Victim of a Bully you are ashamed to communicate to anybody of your fear, you become like this tree in the middle of the picture and seem very alone, with what you think is no where to turn? Just as the Bully has great pain hidden deep within their sole, the Victim also now has great pain hidden deep within their sole and now you have many Individuals that are spinning out of control, instead of understanding their issues better, fixing them so they can be better and stronger moving forward, along their paths of this journey of life.

All those Terrorists we see and hear about, whether abroad or here within our Country, they to are simply a Bully, only this is the modern day Bully that uses violence in order to inflict fear on a larger scale, or to a greater amount of Victims than a Bully that terrorizes an Individual. This idea a Terrorist has that, the more they kill or terrorize the better place they go when they die? This is crap and God sees right through this theory as they to meet their maker at the Pearly Gates. When a Bully inflicts their fear on each of us, there are no winners and losers here, only we all lose as this Society becomes a broken Society, with each one of us looking over our shoulder at each turn of the path.

We all make fun of the idea that the Kid in school puts fear in another classmate, so they can get their lunch money? What we are truly doing is fueling this small time Bully to become a big time Bully later in their lives. Everything we do starts somewhere no matter what it is we do, even all this hate of each other started somewhere and became learned by each of us. God did not create Mankind to be this way, this is all on us as we have learned this from somewhere, so we can put ourselves above each other, as we all walk our paths along this journey of life.

Hatred is something we have learned from somewhere along our paths of this journey, a Bully only inflicts fear on others, so they can seem more powerful to others as they hide deeply within their sole, their own hurt and pain and not seem weak to those around them. instead of truly understanding their pain and hurt so they can truly fix themselves. Only if we all better understand everything that may happen to us, better understand all the pain and hurt that may happen to us, not suppress and bury all this pain and hurt deep within our soles, just maybe we all can walk our paths of this journey through life safely and in peace, as we all share our love of one another (which is within us all), instead of learning to hate one another, so we all fear each other to the point we then learn to hate one another.

” Hate is something we learn from somewhere, love is natural and within us all”

” A Bully is a person that has hidden deep within their sole all their pain and hurt, so they can then terrorize and put fear within the rest of us”

” We are all Children of God and he did not create Mankind for us to hate each other, as he put his love within all our hearts, for us to spread to each other”

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The Hardest of Hearts……….

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I chose this picture once again cause it is of young eight year old Martin Richard, a young boy who was tragically taken from us, by two Individuals with the hardest of hearts. This  young boy was an innocent Victim of a senseless tragedy and this sign he holds here, is a symbol of what might of come from this young boy.

We all grow from a young age and as a child we are all precious in our own ways. When we are little we have no hate of anything and everything us around is an equal, we play with other children within our communities and welcome everybody no matter what their background, skin color, or where they are from. Our children are true gifts from God to us and we all can learn from these children, as much as we teach them to grow within Society.

With all this hate and ugliness around us today ( which the Media like to make bigger than it really is) and the fact that we as a child have none of this, shows that we as people learn and create this hate and ugliness from somewhere as our hearts become hardened and cold. Children are a sponge and soak up everything around them as they grow into Society, as innocent as a child is, they become a product of what is around them and when they are raised with hate of everything around them, they then get filled with it and the hardened heart syndrome then begins, with the coldness yet to come.

Children are a product of the love between a loving Man and a Woman, that are showing their love of one another to all that is around them. Children are not something that helps you get more free money from the Government, so you don’t have to go out and earn a living. When you raise a precious child for all the wrong reasons, this is where all the hatred is then learned from the child and starts the hardening and coldness of the heart. All this hatred, racism and ugliness is learned from somewhere, it is not in any way a part of us, as God did not create Mankind to be this way.

“When God created Mankind he did so out of love and filled our hearts with the warmth of this love, everything else is learned as we grow within Society. Our hearts only become hardened and cold, when we don’t acknowledge the love of God within our hearts”.

We as children learn everything that is around us at a young age, if that is a world of hate, then this is what we learn and take with us as we grow into Society. When we suffer through some Life events as a child and we think we have no where to turn, then these events teaches us to be hateful of everything around, as we try to keep ourselves safe from further events that may cross our paths. Quite simply we as children become a product of what is around us and when that is a world of hate, then it snow balls as these children are grown up into Society with the Hardest of Hearts, as there heart is full of coldness, instead of the warmth of God’s love. We all walk a path through this journey of life, we all learn from a young age how to walk these paths, so we can try to walk these journey’s as safely as we think safe is, what we need to do more of is, trust in God and Jesus more, as their love for us never leaves us, trust, have faith and forgive ourselves, so we then can do the same of each other, so our hearts will be filled with the warmth of true love and not hardened with the coldest of hearts, which does nothing but spread more hatred and ugliness around us further.

” A cold and hardened heart is learned from a young age, the warmth of God’s love is always within our hearts, all we need to do is accept and acknowledge it”

” A Child is precious and pure full of love of everything around them, the hate and ugliness is learned from what is around them as they grow into Society”

” When a heart becomes hardened and cold, it is because of what is around it, as we grow from a young age it forces us to become someone for which we truly are not”

” God’s love never fails us, it is us that fails ourselves”

Political Correct is not truly who we are

“We in this Society try to be political correct to each other, cause we simply are afraid to be real with each other, for fear of offending one another”.

What these two words of ” Political Correct” really mean is, a way for us to bring a form of fake self to others around us. We have this notion that if we don’t be 100% true and honest toward each other, we think we are protecting others and ourselves from further harm? What we are truly doing with this political correction is, putting off further harm for a later time.

We are so consumed in not offending each other, that we have created this fear that shouldn’t even be an issue for any of us. The way we learn to be better, so we can be stronger as we walk our journey of life, is to make mistakes and learn from them, it is also for us to be 100% honest with each other, so we can learn from each other, and then we can limit the amount of mistakes we make in our lives.

When someone is physically or mentally challenged, we then become afraid to help or be associated with these Individuals, because we think others will look at us as the same, We let this fear control us to the point that, we become someone we truly are not. Being Political Correct is not who we really are, it takes away from us being compassionate of, not only ourselves, but of one another.

The Political Correction within our Society today, is what’s killing us and our Society right before our eyes. ” Honesty is the best policy”, this is a quote that has been around before a lot of us were born here on Earth, just that we in this Society and because we are afraid to offend each other, only think we are making all our lives better, as we walk our paths along our journey of life.

Sometimes in life we need to hear the truth, we need to be honest with each other, yes it’s true honesty and truth brings some pain, but when this pain comes to us in a way of healing, then it is pain we can deal with to fix what is wrong, so we all can move forward on our paths of our journey of life, to be better and stronger and live in peace, instead of walking on eggshells around each other.

To be Political Correct of each other is only procrastinating of one another, it is a way for us to be less honest of each other, so we can avoid any confrontation with one another, we would rather hide from each other, than look each other in the eye and be totally honest or truthful with each other. I understand that some things are better left unsaid, but when we use Political Correction to hide from one another and not be real with ourselves or each other, then this will bring greater pain to all of us as we walk our paths along our journey of life.

When we use Political Correction to hide and not be honest with ourselves or one another, all we are doing is not being true to who we really are. With Social Media in our lives today, it makes it even more harder to be real with each other, as we are now hiding behind our techy devices, instead of interacting face to face. I am not saying we should fight with each other, what I am saying is, we should interact more with each other face to face, be more honest and true towards each other, so this can help us be better as Individuals and more capable of handling, whatever life throws at us, when we are true to who we are, we will not have to use any kind of Political Correction at all, as our Society will be much better for it, which will help us be at peace with ourselves and all that is around us, as we walk our paths along our journey of life.

” life is about being true to who we are, not being Political correct and putting forth a fake self to hide who we really are”

To walk many journeys inside one big journey called life.

We all throughout Mankind walk many journeys, with the biggest journey being the one we all walk from the time we are born, til the time we take our last breathe here on Earth.

Everyday is a journey for each of us, we wake up every morning just to make the journey to work, so we can survive and live comfortable here on earth, as we are children, we wake up in the morning, so we can take our journey to school, so we can learn all the tools needed, to survive when we are older and on our own from our Parents, after school we need some fun time, so we journey with out friends, to a game of neighborhood baseball or hockey, or maybe we journey with them, just to hang out and just simply be a child, to explore many things that will help us understand many things within life.

Most of these journeys within the journey, we all overlook cause we take things for granted, we think these things are suppose to be there for us, of which we don’t look at them as a journey, these many journeys are put in place, so we can learn and be better and stronger throughout our big journey we walk through life and also so we can live in peace and love, not just of ourselves, but peace and love of each other.

There are many times as we grow from a child, that life events happens to us and we don’t see the many journeys within the journey, we don’t see life as we should as a child and then as we get older, we just are not ready for what life throws at us within our Society, we get stepped on, taken advantage of, and simply looked at as weird throughout Society, these things do happen and you don’t have to look very far, as the news reminds us everyday, we see daily all the “Mentally Deranged” Individuals and what they have done to others, but are they really “Mentally Deranged”? Or is it the fact that they didn’t see the journey within the journey, because of the life event that may have happened to them? We all go through some kind of life event, but we can’t let them control us, or we will never see the journey within the journey.

Life’s journey is given to us from God, he wanted us to walk our journey out of love for ourselves, so we can share this love with each other, to truly see the journeys within the journey, it is this feeling of love that warms our hearts and souls, when we don’t feel this warmth we simply are cold and walk our journey of life, without truly finding our purpose in life, which we end up doing a lot of wandering, instead of walking through life, those that do find their purpose, are not just at peace with themselves, but are at peace with all Mankind that is around them, so they are a lot more happier, than those that have no purpose, which makes them become something they are truly not, we all throughout Mankind really need to see the journeys within the journey, so we all can walk our paths along our journey of life, in peace and love of ourselves, to share with each other, so Society can be better and stronger for all.

” The journeys within the journey is something we all throughout Mankind walk everyday of our existence”

” The many daily journeys help us learn and be better and stronger throughout our journey of life”