Human Behavior, as complexing as it gets here on Earth

Since the beginning of Mankind, when Humans first set out to walk their path along this journey of life, Human Behavior was then and still is now, the most complexing thing that we will ever try to figure out.

There has been many Individuals that have come and walked their paths along this journey of life, these Individuals have been special in their lives and what they have left for many yet to come along this journey, still stands tall through the test of time. No matter who you are, or where you are? Look around and really look at what you see, everything even us as Humans come from somewhere and have been born into this World.

Things within the past have been invented to make our lives easier, with these inventions there is a lot of change happening around us, with each passing year, there are four seasons that give us different weather conditions, there is winter that brings cold and snow, then there is spring that brings us warmth and new growth and a freshness within the air, next is summer for some it is too hot, yet to others it isn’t hot enough, then you have fall which brings the nip back into the air, before entering back into winter, with fall you also have nice vibrant colors, that soon follows not so vibrant dull and gloomy everywhere around us. You see the trend here? Change is the common denominator, change is something we as Humans and everything around us goes through, then why do we all fear this change? This is a very good question and a question that even the smartest of minds still can’t answer 100%.

Change is it’s own entity and comes to us in many ways. Change can bring great pain if we don’t handle or see the change correctly, all change is good when we do it correctly and for all the right reasons. When change happens to us and our behavior is affected by it in a negative way, this is what creates chaos and hatred of all those around us, including ourselves.

Human Behavior is very different of each other, just as we are unique to each other, our behavior shares that same uniqueness, as much as we try to be like certain others around us, this is impossible as their behavior varies very differently than that of ourselves. Behavior is one of those things we can’t see or feel, but yet we do it unconsciously? We don’t think of this behavior, but yet we do it everyday of our lives, Bingo!!! Behavior is how we act here on Earth, as we walk our paths along this journey of life.

When I say Act, I don’t mean the Hollywood Actors, I totally mean our actions, or how we act as we walk this journey. Hollywood Actors are not what reality is, even though there may be some that think they are really like that in real life, or try to be like that in real life? When I say act, I truly mean our actions within our lives, everyday of our lives as we walk our paths. Some may want to blame others for their actions and they made them do whatever they did? This is because our first instinct is to point the blame away from us and in another direction, cause this may change our behavior and bring pain into our lives? Human Behavior is a very touchy and sensitive subject to each of us, even the smartest of minds have trouble figuring it out, as their own behavior will get in their way at times and shows why ” we think we are smarter than each other, instead of working together for the good of all Mankind”.

When we stay true to ourselves, stay true to Jesus Christ our Savior and the one that died on a cross for us, to show us the true path of righteousness and that this path will lead us to true peace, so we all can be better and stronger in our behavior as we walk our paths along our journey through life.

” Human behavior will always be the most complex thing we deal with, as we all walk our paths along our journey of life”

” With our behavior comes much change, just like all other things around us goes through much change as well”

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The Boston Sports theme……….

Today in the Boston sports scene this day of April 15th 2015, had two huge stories happen, pretty much at almost the same time. Arron Hernandez was convicted of murder in the 1st degree and Peter Chiarelli the general manager of the Boston Bruins was fired from the team.

Arron Hernandez was a gifted athlete and could excel in the sport of football and as we all seen from him on the field, his actions proved he was gifted and could play, the team he played for also seen his gift and awarded him 40 million to play for them, Arron came from nothing and transformed into a very wealthy Individual, who had the world in the palm of his hands and now all has been taken from him, with zero to show for his gift and talent.

The guilty verdict of Arron Hernandez, when you look deeply into the reality of the situation, proves just how troubled a lot of Individuals are within this Society we all live. When you look deeply into Arron’s eyes at the time the verdict was read, you can clearly see he has issues which he buried his true feelings and emotions, as well as his true empathy of himself and those around him. Arron was with out a doubt, living a double life while he was playing professional football.

We all within this Society are guilty of burying our true self’s and our empathy of ourselves and others around us, but this verdict of Hernandez and others like him, only takes it to the next level. When harm comes to us and we don’t acknowledge the harm correctly, we then look to other ways, in order to relieve ourselves of this harm, this includes hiding who we truly are and hiding our true feelings and emotions, which we then become clouded in our judgements and make stupid decisions, without truly thinking of the ramifications of our actions. True Arron received what he deserved, but if he addressed his issues before the pain of the issues became so great, where he did whatever he needed to make the pain go away, then he may not be in the situation he is now and just maybe, he could of lived a very good and plush lifestyle, with the big money he was awarded, from the team he played professional football for. Let this be a wake up call for all of us throughout Society, do we want to go down the same path as Arron Hernandez, or do we want to correctly fix our issues, so we can walk a path along our journey of life that brings us peace and much happiness throughout our lives?

The Boston Bruins has been my favorite hockey team throughout my life, I understand the game of hockey inside and out, the decision to relieve Peter Chiarelli the general manager of his duties, was the correct one by the Bruins, as Peter did nothing to make this team better this season and give coach Claude the necessary tools to do his job better. Peter also subtracted players who were the identity and chemistry of this team without replacing them, when you subtract quality from anything and not add back anything, eventually you end up with zero with nothing to show. I understand to make a decision to release someone of their duties is very hard at any level, with that said my respect for Cam Neely just grew bigger than it was. This decision was the right one to make, so the Bruins can move forward to be better and get back at playing the game of hockey, so they can be successful at bringing the Stanly cup back to the City of Boston, for the organization and fans to enjoy.

” I bleed black and gold, the true colors of a great organization of the Boston Bruins”

” to wear the spoked B on your hockey jersey, is that of pride and passion for a sport of which you love”

” Arron Hernandez was a gifted and talented football player, now with his clouded judgements and bad decisions, will have these talents rot in a jail cell the rest of his life”

Telemarketers and Scammers need to get a real life………..

Telemarketers and Spammers are getting real crafty in the way they get your attention these days, they try to come across as the IRS or even as law enforcement, just to get your attention and force you to give them your hard earned money.

These Individuals most likely make very little money and work for commission on how many people they can scam? Which proves the creativity they come up with, just to get your attention and money.

You get calls like an official IRS agent calling you and threatening you with a lawsuit? Sorry but the real IRS don’t call and threaten you like this, you get calls like, you have papers you need to sign and they will be delivered to your home? Sorry but if someone needs to serve you papers, it is done through the local Sheriff or the Constable, other calls like they are pretending to be a law firm and at the end of the call they say “YOU HAVE BEEN SERVED”? Sorry but a real law firm don’t call you in this fashion.

Buyer Beware, this is an old school term that we all should be aware of, not just for shopping, but for all the telemarketers and spammers out there, that will do anything to get your attention and money, it is really sad that in this society, there will always be some that will stop at nothing, just to screw others out of their hard earned money and scare them into believing the worst or even worse, making you look over your shoulder all the time and who knows, maybe some old timers have become so nervous, that they have had a bad heart attack from these type of scams?

I am sure there are some that have bought into these scams and lost some big money, they worked hard at saving? the majority of us though probably have seen through these scams and just delete, so they won’t worry their fool heads off? But still it is just sad that some will take advantage of others, just for their own personal gain,  we all walk our own paths in life, but we all still have to walk this journey through life, so why not make the journey full of happiness for all, instead taking advantage of each other, which does nothing but further all the hate we have now in this society, there is an old saying in life, “never mess up another persons shoe shine”, meaning if you can walk your path along your journey, without messing up anyone’s shine, then when your journey is done, you will have nothing but peace, serenity and happiness, on your next journey wherever that may be?

God didn’t create this Planet and all Mankind, for us to take advantage of one another, yes he wants us to be better and stronger from each society, but to truly be better and stronger, we all have to work together, show more love of ourselves and each other, when someone is down on their luck and have fallen, reach out and help them, instead of just turning your back and walking away, or taking advantage of them when they are down, we all walk our own paths, but the journey is the same, let’s make the journey fun, with happiness and love of each other, so we all can walk our paths in peace, where ever our paths may take us.

” Never step on another persons shoe shine, as your own shine may be the one that gets scuffed up”

” Taking advantage of someone when they are down, is the lowest form of walking your path along your journey of life”

“Empathy in life goes a lot further than any hatred and it don’t cost anything, as it is inside all of us, we just have to let it out and it will bring much happiness to all our lives, along all our journeys”

Signs within our lives

There are many signs within our lives, whether they have to do with driving in traffic, signs showing a direction along a course we take, maybe a sign of our favorite eating establishment, but there is no sign more important than the ones God sends us along our path, of our Journey of life.
These signs that God sends us can’t be seen with the naked eye, they are felt within our hearts and souls, if we do not feel God within our hearts and in our souls, we will never be made aware of these signs, or their exsistence within us.
These signs are special to only us as Individuals and each one of us share these signs differently, they could range from a wide variety of interesting facts, they could be signs that are completly different from who or what we are now, everything in our lives happens for a reason? It is up to each one of us to find out the reason for why it happened and then figure out how to make it work, as God guides us along our path, but we are the ones to walk this Journey.
We could work a career for most of our lives, then in an instant it can be taken away, to which through the hard times we have found a piece of thyself, like a literary piece and find that you like to write stories or poems? You then pursue this and find that you want to be a writer, well this is a sign from God showing you of your true passion, God works in many ways, he may not talk to us, or be seen by us, but these signs are sent by him and it is up to us to see or feel them, so we can be better and stronger moving forward on our path, as we walk our Journey of life.
Some of us may doubt God exsists cause we don’t see or hear him, this is when we need to look deep within ourselves, to feel God in our hearts and souls, he is there and always will be there, maybe something happened to us that made us not acknowledge him, or made us suppress these feelings? Which makes it that much more important to inventory ourselves, take stock in our lives to date, so we can fix what is wrong with ourselves, so these beautiful feelings of God within us never leave us again, as we do this we then will be a better person, that can see deep within everything, instead of judging everything by it’s outward appearance, plus truely feeling God within us, as we see all his signs he sends us, we will walk our paths, of our Journey’s through life, with much happiness and confidence to overcome anything that may come our way, while we are true to our self’s and show the true passion within us.

” Signs are seen in many ways by all of us, but to feel God’s signs are truely an inspiration to all”

” God never leaves us and is always in our hearts and souls, we just have to acknowledge these feelings, to truely feel the power they have in store”