That true Holiday Season we have since lost…….

The true holiday spirit should be of, we as Humans sharing ourselves with our loved ones and just being simply true to ourselves, it should not be of, competing with others to give someone the best gift?

This dog eat dog Society in which we live today, has made the holiday season become something it should never be and that is, the commercialization and buying a gift for everybody around you, the true holiday season is giving the best gift known to Mankind, which is the gift of self to our loved ones and those that we hold dear to our hearts, I get the fact all the stores need to make money to survive so they stay in business, but not at the expense of taking what is true to the Human Spirit and turning it into a competition of each other, all this does is turn us against each other and breed hate of one another cause we couldn’t buy the best gift this season.

Competition is good for all of us at the right time, it is what keeps us moving forward stronger on our path of our journey of life, but the true holiday spirit and season, should be all of us communicating with those we hold dear and the fact of giving ourselves to them, while showing more love of one another, family is how we started on this journey of life, it is where we learned how to treat our fellow man by showing respect and dignity of each other, it is where we built our foundation of life, which helps us achieve anything we set out to do in life, family is where it all started and where we should always turn to at the holiday season and not at the stores to stress out about buying the right gift.

Life is a journey for all of us, full of twists and turns, but somewhere along time we have turned away from the true holiday season, we have twisted our lives in a way, we have lost what is truly important to us, we have lost who Santa Claus really is and became someone in which we really are not, to be married as a man and wife isn’t like it once was and the sacredness of a man and woman together don’t mean the same today as it once did, which would explain all the broken homes out there today, I understand everything in life changes, but the expense of this change has taken away all our respect and dignity of each other.

The true holiday season is, the giving of yourself to your family and those you hold close and dear, it is not about competing with each other in buying the right gift, some of us may become very successful and be able to afford very expensive gifts, but that does nothing but breed jealousy between the people closest to us, even though we may not admit to that point, when we do become very successful, we forget how we got there then go somewhere exotic, instead of with our families during the holiday’s, this does nothing but break the true communication between us and those we have loved for so long and those who helped build that foundation, which helped us get to where we are, thanksgiving is about being thankful for who we are and what we have in life, like our strong family, Christmas is about being with that family and not only celebrating the birth of Jesus, but celebrating our birth into this life for which we live.

The Holiday season should always warm our heart with love for one another, it should never make us stress out every year, to the point we get sick of the holidays, I understand sometimes the holidays makes us sad, when we think of someone we loved that has been taken from our lives, but it should not make us want to ignore the holiday and the true spirit of the holiday season, this should make us want the holiday season to live on all year, as we show more love and happiness and the fact that we can live as that special someone would of wanted us to, the true holiday season is about sharing ourselves with those we love and hold dear to our heart, when we do this then the true holiday season will always live on everyday of our lives, on our paths of our journey of life.

” the true holiday season is sharing ourselves with those we love and hold dear to our hearts”

” thanksgiving is about being thankful for who we are and those who we love that helped us build that strong foundation that made us into who we are”

” Christmas is about being with those we love and hold dear in our hearts, sharing ourselves instead of stressing over the right gift we buy”

Robin Williams gift, he shared with us all

Robin Williams had a gift, this gift was his way of sharing with us all, so we could laugh and cry, in order for us to heal ourselves, so we could move forward on our paths, of our Journey of life.
Robin Williams was a very funny man, he could make a joke out of anything that crossed his path, he was also very talented as an actor and this showed up huge in the movie Dead Poets Society, I remember watching this movie when it first aired and getting chills at the way he played his part, this proved to me that he was even more talented in a serious role, than in a comedy role.
Robin Williams was more than just an actor/comedian and our troops had a special place in his heart, Robin Williams filled in when the great Bob Hope passed, with the USO and he never looked back, as he went to see the troops every chance he had, he made them laugh and forget for a short time all the bad and innocent killings that was happening around them.
Robin Williams on the exterior was a great man and a man that helped many of us laugh when we needed it most, he was a man that used laughter, to help us all forget our troubles even if it was for a short time? Robin Williams was a special and gifted Human Being, that used his special gift to help so many and he will be missed deeply, by each and every one of us, in our own way.
Robin Williams on the interior was a very troubled person that he never showed to any, except those close to him, he suffered from extreme Depression, this is an Illness that is a chemical imbalence within the brain, each and every one of us also have this chemical imbalence, but we hide it so we won’t show our weakness to others, Robin also has hidden this to try to use his gift, to overcome it, this depression is an Illness that makes us pull back from reality, pull back from others around us, become secluded in our own little world and forces us to do things we normally would never do.
Depression comes to us in many ways, sometimes we don’t even know we are depressed til it’s too late, in this Society we don’t want to admit to this seclusion, cause others around us will look at us in a different way, they will avoid you and the depression like the black plague, so when you are depressed you try to become something you are not, so others will see you in a good way, instead of in a bad way, this chemical imbalence is within all our brains and it can be triggered in many ways, it is so complex that even our smartest of Scientists can’t pinpoint the where’s and the how’s of the Illness, this Depression can make you seem very happy on the outside, but deep inside you are hurting and in so much pain, most people that have this Depression, end up like Robin Williams cause they can’t take it anymore and just want to end the pain, Depression is an Illness and all of us are subject to it, it does not discriminate no matter who you are, this is why we need to understand it better, so we all as Humans can be better and stronger, as we walk our paths along our Journey of life.

” Depression is an Illness, let’s understand it better, in the name of the great Robin Williams”

” Depression is the silent killer, cause nobody wants to admit to it, let’s understand it better, so we can all be better and stronger moving forward”

” Depression forces us to pull back from everything/anything around us, it gives us great pain deep inside ourselves, we don’t want to admit to this pain, so it then eats us up from the inside out”