Aggression……Hate……….My way or nothing???

            These words of, Aggression, Hate and My way or nothing, are simply that……just words, but these words are learned by all of us within this Society, these words are not part of who we are, from the time of our first breathe here on Earth. These words come to us from somewhere, we learn of them from someone/somewhere? These words are not part of who we are, as God did not create Mankind to be this way. We are the ones that are responsible for these words, now is the time to accept our responsibility, know who we truly are, so we can fix our issues, fix all our mistakes, so we can then walk our paths of this journey of life in peace, while we all share our love of ourselves with each other, instead of stepping on each other, just to make ourselves out to be better then all those around us.

All the drugs within this Society, whether of the illegal or legal kind, have us all medicated to the point, we have lost who we truly are. When you go to the Doctor and today there are some of them, that simply prescribe drugs to you, because they are too lazy, to find out what is truly causing your pain, so they give you a temporary fix to subside your pain, but this pain never goes away and now you are addicted to these drugs, so now you take to the illegal drugs just to keep the pain away? This is one big vicious circle that is spinning way out of control, this also could be the true answer to where we learned to Hate, show aggression towards others and it’s my way or nothing attitudes we have towards each other.

In order to truly fix and know who we are, we need first to get to the root of the problem, so we then can truly fix all our issues, then we can move forward stronger and better than we are now. We can move forward learning to love one another, have more patience of one another and be more open with one another, instead of being aggressive, hateful and it’s my way or nothing attitudes we have now. The journey of life we all travel together, but when we travel it with aggression, hate and my way or nothing attitudes, the journey than becomes a journey we all hate and we all get lost within the clouds of our judgements.

We all walk this journey of life together, the paths we take may be different, but there are no wrong paths, the only wrong part of our paths are, what we learn and take with us along our journey through life. We need to be more responsible and accept that there are bad life Teacher’s out there, who will teach us these words of Hate…aggression…and my way or nothing attitudes, simply because they have learned wrongfully also, this vicious circle has to stop somewhere? This circle has turned us all into someone we truly are not, to stop this circle and break the links of the chain, simply lies on each one of us who walk a path along this journey of life.

” We all learn what we do from somewhere we are not born to hate, show aggression, or simply my way or nothing attitude”

” We all walk this journey of life together, we may take different paths, but we all need to learn the good in each other and not exploit the bad, which does nothing but make this a broken Society”

” To truly fix any issues you first need to get to the root of the issue, then take the corrective action to make it better”

The Bartering way is a way to help each other

           Back in the day before America was even named “America”, You had the Natives that lived here and the ones that came here to start a new. This was a time before they even knew what the word Corporation was or meant. Back within this time they didn’t know what a Society was and had no idea of what luxury was, these people back then truly worked for everything they had, with no clue of what the green paper we have today was. When people back then needed help to cultivate their crops, or maybe build a shack in which to have a roof over their heads, they sought out the ones around them and instead of transferring money from one hand to another, they used this Barter method, which quite simply is you help me now and I will help you at a later time, whenever you need.

This way of the Barter method truly worked, but what it did even more was, we communicated with each other, helped each other and knew each other like a family knows each other. Just look across the street and asked yourself, do I truly know who is that living across from me? This is the World and Society we live today, this has become our reality today and have no clue what this word Barter means, You wonder why we have all this ugliness around us today, all the hatred and the Terrorist groups trying to end all that don’t side with their ways and views, then you add in the Corporate way of life which has nothing but greed in the for front of everything they do, now you have a Society that knows nothing of each other, a Society that steps on each other instead of helping each other, plus a Society that can’t communicate properly with each other anymore.

When God created Mankind this was not the vision he had from his creation, these problems within our Society are not his fault and lie solely on us, the people within this Society. We are our own worst enemies, simply because when we try to change what is around us, we do so without understanding what true change is, then change for all the wrong reasons, which starts the process of all the ugliness we see around us today. When we do not help and communicate properly with each other, this is where the distrust of each other begins and without trust, we lose sight of who we really are.

The system of the Barter is what truly made America into the strong Country that it became. Not just of building up this once uncharted land, but it is what made all of us within Mankind stronger and better as we walked our paths through this journey of life. We can go back to this way of living with the Barter way of life, just that we all have to come together as one, stop the stepping of all over each other just for personal gain and simply trust each other once again, yes I said trust and we can trust each other, when we communicate properly and help each other to move forward stronger and better than those that walked their journey’s before us.

” The Barter way of life might of been a lot of work, but the rewards from the work out weighed anything from our Society of today”

” You need no money to Barter with another person, as this will help us all help each other and communicate better with each other as well”

” the Barter method was the strong foundation that built America, getting away from it for greed, has cracked the foundation which now needs some repair”

That was a Whale of a “tale”………….

         This journey of life for so many of us, is such a collector of many Tale’s and a lot of them over the years, get added on to little by little. Just like when a Fisherman catches a fish out at Sea, then when he returns to port the same fish he caught is a bit bigger, then as the story gets told time and time again it becomes even bigger, than the actual fish that was caught.

We all walk our own paths through this journey of life, we experience many things along the way, with these experiences comes many tales that we tell, most being true, some being made up, they usually start out in fact, then over time they go from truth to fiction, with what used to be a small story, to something full of drama, bigger than it once was, so we all can seem to each other bigger than we really are. This has been going on since before I can remember and throughout this drama ridden Society, it goes on further everywhere you turn.

We are all guilty of painting this picture of ourselves towards others, much brighter than the actual colors themselves, when we do this we don’t realize that we are becoming some one we truly are not, then find out that we can’t even live up to our own expectations. As we struggle to live up to our own expectations, we then become lost within the clouds of our judgements and everything in front of us becomes out of focus, when we make mistakes we then don’t own up to them and try to sweep them under the rug, before anybody notices them. While we struggle with our own expectations and others around us are living up to theirs, we then try to bring them down, to keep them from moving forward further than ourselves and left behind. We spread false rumors just to make it seems like others around us are doing it wrong and we ourselves are right in all we do? You see this a lot in sports also, when one team is always winning and the teams can’t beat them, they then spread false rumors, just to make it like they are cheating the system within that sport. If we only walked our paths along this journey of life in peace, without stretching the facts out to be bigger than they are, just maybe we all could be much happier and enjoy this journey everyday we wake up, so we all can be better and stronger moving forward together, instead of being against each other, causing great friction between us.

” We all have struggles in life, it is how we deal with them that keeps us moving forward in life”

” A tall tale starts out small, then over time becomes much bigger than it really is”

The Society that once was…………….

Desert Landscape          It was a warm Summer day and the streets within the City were filled with people and much noise, as everybody smiled for what they were doing. The City was so vibrant this day, that the hustle was shaking the sidewalks.   There was once a time before the City was established, that the City was desolate and quiet, not a sole to be found as all the People were migrating some where else, until they got bored and wanted a change from the comfy zone they were in.

The City had shops, restaurants and a movie theater, which at one time it showed four films a day and now sits idle in the darkness with no bright lights, from the screen, to light your path to the snack-bar, heck!!! you can’t even get inside as the doors have closed forever. Just as everything on our journey through life changes, the Cities where we all  live change as well and sometimes all we can do is move from point A to point B.

Each City that dies and loses their Population, are known today as a Ghost Town and there are quite a few around us today, we just have to look around us in order to see where they are, but do the Ghosts really live there? and Are they the new Society to come  within our future here on Earth?

Before the City was established it might of looked a bit dry and flat, with maybe a few hills and stone structures around, then as Mankind came and built on this land, now the once desolate land  has become busy with skyscrapers, homes and other buildings around. Everything got busy in a big way and just maybe these Ghost Town’s are popping up around us, cause all the resources have all dried up for the people to survive within it? When Mankind came around and bought up all the land around, just to build their homes or businesses on, you think they really thought of the ramifications of their build in the future to come? Okay maybe their future, but not the future of what was to come after their journey has ended. You think they thought of the resources around them and that maybe one day there would be no more resources, for all the Societies to come in the long term future? Or maybe they just expected Mother Earth to keep up with all their demands? We throughout mankind are very demanding and want it all, without thinking of anybody/anything around them, which maybe some day down the road, we just might see many more Ghost Towns popping up all around us.

Back in a time when People wandered this Earth in search of finding riches, there were tumbleweeds flying around the Earth and through the small little Towns that were built, just to mine for Gold. Now these Towns are desolate with no action within them anymore, but are there actually Ghosts living within them? Or are the towns just sitting empty waiting for the next Gold rush times, to come across their paths here on Earth? We throughout this Society of today, are very much the same as those Societies of yesteryear, only the product of getting rich has vastly changed from the Gold of that time. We all want to be rich and we all want it now, the difference between us now and them of yesteryear is, we of today have no empathy and care nothing of anybody/everything that is around them. We all walk our paths within this journey through life, just like those before us, if we keep operating in the way we are, there may be no Society to come, after our journey here is done? The time for true change is now, so we all can walk our journey’s in peace, to be better and stronger moving forward, then the Societies to come can do the same for what comes after them.

” A Society scorned can change so their future can be better, as all within it move forward with peace and harmony throughout”

” A Ghost Town is an old desolate town within our past, maybe there are no actual Ghosts within it”

” Cities and Towns get built up from land that has no action within it, while the city is built maybe we should think of its resources for the many Societies to come, without leaving it a wasteland once again”

Family…The true secret to the Journey of life.

Family is the bond within us as Individuals that brings us together, so we can walk our paths along our journey of life, to be better and stronger within peace, while we share our love of self’s with those around us.

Within each Family you have a Mother and Father, these two Individuals don’t go to school for parenting, there is no books to read, so how do they become parents? It is their love of self’s, which they bring to each other, then share this together as they raise their children into a Society, so they to can become parents and share their love of self’s to form a family of their own.

When building this family bond, it starts first with building a strong foundation, that will stand the test of time and never crumble, no matter what that may try to crumble it. This foundation is stronger than anything that all Mankind can build, it becomes so solid that nothing will penetrate it, not even any life event that may happen to us.

The foundation of family is built out of love, respect and trust of each family member, when any of these components have been violated is when you have broken families. Within this broken Society shows just how broken families affect us all. Families become broken in many ways, but the foundation stays intact, just that we as Individuals don’t look with clear eyes and everything becomes out of focus for us. What starts this foundation for all of us is, you need a Mother and Father together with each of their traits, sharing their love together so the base of the foundation becomes stronger as each layer is laid on top of it.

Families within our Society is the only thing we have, that we can go to, when we need help and are troubled in our own lives. Without families we have nothing and leads us into a life of solitude, we may be lonely and not seeing with clear eyes and everything may seem out of focus, but the foundation of family is always there, solid as it ever was, just that we choose not to acknowledge it and through the clouds of our judgements, we think we can overcome anything alone without family.

With all the broken families within this broken society, shows only one thing and that is there is too much solitude all around us, nobody shares love anymore, which is a lot easier than showing this hate and solitude we see now, instead of turning to the foundation of family when we hurt, we let our clouded judgement turn us in a direction we normally would never turn to, this judgement makes us someone we truly are not, if we only trusted the strength of the foundation, showing the respect of the families love and being who we truly are, just maybe our clouded judgements would clear up enough, so when we hurt and are troubled, the direction we turn would be toward family and not the direction of solitude. We all walk a path along a journey of life, family is the one true direction to turn when we need to the most, so we can be better and stronger and live our lives in peace with others, instead of the chaos of solitude and hate.

” Family is to each of us, like a fish needs water so they can survive in their world”

” When we hurt and have much pain, it is the foundation of family that gives us the strength to move forward along our paths of our journey of life”

The true meaning of Marriage…….

Marriage of today has changed and not what it truly is, or what God has showed us what it is supposed to be, Marriage is the joining of a Man and a Woman that love each other and also have become one, from this marriage you have two loving Individuals that show their love of one another, by giving birth to children as a product of their love, now as the Man and Woman become Mother and Father, they raise their children with the same love of one another and do it every year of their marriage.

A true marriage never ends, these two loving Individuals become one and their love of each other never ends, just like on our paths along our journey of life, true marriage will have its bumps and hurdles in the road, but what makes true marriage work, is the two Individuals work together to make it work and make the road smooth along their path together.

When a Man and a Woman become one in marriage, every year of their marriage is an anniversary and a celebration of their love of one another, the first year for some may be important, but what we take for granted in this Society, is the fact that when a man and a woman have been together for over 50 years, shows just how special that marriage really is.

A wedding Anniversary isn’t just about celebrating a marriage between a man and a woman, it is celebrating the coming together of two Individuals, showing their love of one another and forming a true bond in life, when you form this true bond, you are building this foundation that nothing will penetrate, there is nothing on our paths along our journey of life, that will match the strength of this special bond in marriage between a man and a woman, which is why we have anniversaries to celebrate the coming together two Individuals as one.

Whether a wedding anniversary is 1 year or 100 years, you are celebrating the coming together of a man and a woman who love each other, who have also built this strong bond between them, which has made their foundation together so strong, that nothing will penetrate it, communication is a main ingredient of this marriage lasting over time, especially of 50+ years, within today’s society you may never see a marriage of 50+ years, because the definition of marriage has changed and the true meaning of marriage has changed also, you don’t have this true bond being formed and each member of the marriage only wants what they as an Individual want, instead of two Individuals coming together as one, so when you know of a special couple celebrating 50+ years of marriage, take the time to acknowledge them and wish them many more years, along their journey of life together.

” true marriage is a bond of two Individuals that have come together as one and formed a foundation that nothing can penetrate”

” Wedding Anniversary is a celebration of a man and a woman that have come together as one, til death do them part”

The fire that burns throughout Mankind…….

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Just as this fire has many components to its existence and needs constant maintenance to keep it burning, we to as Human beings have a fire that burns deep within the core of our existence and it also has many components that needs much maintenance to keep it burning.

We all as Mankind are born into this World, to all walk a Journey through life, we all chose a different path with some paths being more successful than others, but none the less all the paths are a part of the same journey through life.

The way we as Humans have evolved through time, we think that our path and our ways are the only way to walk this journey and look at all others as being in the way of where we are going, this is not the vision God had in mind when he created this Earth and all that make up this great planet, as we walk our paths there will always be twists and turns and as we make these turns, we just keep walking to get around them, there will always be change along these paths, as everything doesn’t stay the same forever, it is when we resist these changes that our journey along these paths become full of troubles and sorrows.

When we are born into this World, this is the start of each one of us building a solid foundation, that will help us greatly along our paths of our journey of life, just like the foundation of a house, over time it will develop cracks that will leak if we don’t maintain the foundation regularly, but with us as Humans these cracks are the life events that come to us and sometimes when we least expect them, as these events happen is when we need to start maintaining our foundation, change things that need to be changed, so we can make our foundation stronger and better than it was as we move forward along our journey, but unfortunately we have become resistant to any kind of change, by being stubborn and lazy as we think there is nothing wrong with me and it must be others that are on my path.

Change is good when done correctly, sometimes change comes to us with no surprise and sometimes change comes when we don’t expect it, its when we don’t expect it that makes us resist the change strongly, when we resist change it will always make us bitter and hate everything around us, to which we lose sight of the real love within us, when we resist the change it will also force us into becoming something in which we truly are not, which is why it is very important to except all change, so we can continue along our paths of our journey of life with strength, while being happy and loving towards everything that comes our way and keep our fire burning strongly within the core of our being.

Just as the fire burning within us needs much maintenance, our paths along our journey and our foundation of our being needs the same maintenance, the journey through life is full of work everyday, this work doesn’t have to be hard if we stay up on it with moderation, it only becomes hard, when we stress the work by becoming something we are not, just because our paths may seem smooth one day, doesn’t mean our whole journey will be smooth also, even when the path is smooth we can’t become lazy and neglect the maintenance needed to our core foundation, to keep it from eroding and developing cracks that will force us to becoming something we are not, even when our paths are smooth and everything is great, change will come to us in many ways, we just have to stay true to ourselves and except the change, so we can continue our journey with happiness and strength, stay true to the fire that burns within us and keep it maintained which will help us keep our foundation in tact and as strong as it ever was with no sign of cracking, our journey’s are full of many obstacles that require change to keep us strong, but when we put in the work and stay true to ourselves, our paths of our journey of life, will always make us better and stronger, while we all show love for one another.

” We all have a fire that burns within the core of our being, with maintenance and care this fire will make us stronger and better on our journey of life”

” Change when done correctly is the most beautiful part of our journey of life, when we resist this change it will get ugly real fast”

The close tight knit feelings of Family

Families are our foundation in our lives, as we walk our paths on our Journey’s of life.
Those of us growing up today, do not remember the TV show the Walton’s, or even know who the Walton’s were? This is everything that is wrong with our Society of today.
The Walton’s were everything a Family should be, they created a bond with each other so strong, nothing on this Planet would of broken it, everyday they woke up they ate breakfast together, talked about what the day was to hold for them, they worked their family business together with no excuses, no calling in sick or playing hookey, they each had their daily chores around the house and running errands around town, while picking up their supplies, every meal was together as they chatted of their daily troubles, to help each other overcome what was in front of them, before each meal they said grace and thanked God for everything that was brought to them, even before the last light was turned out in their house, they said good night and sweet dreams to each other, as they went to sleep to rejuvinate for the next days chores.
The Walton’s showed us that, when we and our Families stick together, form a strong bond with each other, have open communication with each other, with no fear of being made fun of, or made out as an outcast, our foundation to life will never crumble, it may develop leaks over time, but with our strong family bond, our foundation will be fixed to be stronger than ever.
Back in the days of yesteryear, families everywhere were like the Walton’s, every meal was presented at the table with all family members present and accounted for, there was never a missing spot as families were excited to be together and talk about their days, so they all together could help each other, overcome what was in front of them on their path of life.
In today’s Society of fast paced and broken homes, we have lost this special bond and the building of a strong family foundation, with each meal we eat it is done in lonliness as we stuff our face, then get up and go to another job, or simply come up with any excuse just to be removed from the table, this is a huge problem for our Society and why we have become a troubled Society, with nothing but pain and anguish throughout this Planet and not to mention all the hatred, or the all about me world in which we live.
In this Corporate world in which we live, we have put the Corporations ahead of our own Families and it shows with all the broken foundations wandering within our Society, with a strong foundation we walk our paths on our journey of life with confidence and strength, with a broken foundation we can’t walk, cause we are wandering with no purpose, our minds are clouded with crap cause we can’t focus on what is truely important, we become lost in a journey that is moving quickly by us, the foundation and bond of a Family is the key to each one of us, walking with confidence and strength, our path in life along our Journey through life.

” A Families bond and a Families foundation, is the key to true happiness along our path of our Journey through life”

” True communication in our lives, starts with the family being all together at the dinner table, helping each other overcome all of life’s obstacles”

A Family’s bond equals a solid foundation

As we live and survive within today’s Society, there is one important factor we all are guilty of taking for granted and that factor is quite simple, the fact that we all take advantage of our own families.
Each one of us are born into a family, it is here we learn the fundamentals of life while we help build a foundation, that will never crack throughout the test of time.
The problem lies within ourselves, as when we grow in our lives and transition into the World around us, depending on how we are brought up, whether it’s a broken home, solid home life, or how ever we have been raised, it is how we interperet our lessons, as to how or what kind of life events have happened to us throughout the beginining of our Journey.
When bad things happen, we then try to hide whatever harmed us to avoid further harm and to protect ourselves, it then clouds our judgements, which leads us to make bad choices in the future and as all these bad choices start to compound, we don’t realize alot of times until it’s too late, that we are hurting ourselves even further.
A Family is a small group of Individuals within a Society, that creates a bond and a solid foundation out of love for one another, when that bond and foundation are created correctly, there is nothing throughout the test of time that will crack or break it, which helps us as Individuals get through anything that may come across our path, so we can be better and stronger moving forward, but unfortunately we as individuals misinterpret and take for granted our own families when life events happen, not only leading to a broken self image, but leaks into a Society as well, causing a Society to become broken.
A Family is the most important part of all our lives, it is important to get it right and form that solid foundation, create a bond so strong that together with the foundation, will help us grow and prosper within a Society, which will help a Society become stronger and better, never under estimate the power of a good family, cause this power will help you overcome anything/everything that may come across your path, on your Journey of life you walk.

” power of family is so strong, nothing will ever defeat it”

” foundation of family will never crack, when the individuals inside it believe in it’s strength”