Being Emotional and True Emotions

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There are many different bodies of water all through this planet Earth, where we all walk our paths through this journey of life. There are many different emotions that may come to us all, that will affect us different ways, these emotions are within us always and never leave us, these emotions will bring water from within us, in the form of tears, you have tears of joy, as well as tears of sadness, some may think when you cry for whatever reason is a sign of weakness, on the contrary they are just the opposite, they help us heal, and bring us strength, so we can be better moving forward. In this society we have become afraid to cry, because we think others will see us as weak? We then bury these feelings deep within and hide our true selves from each other, it is when we hide within, that we then separate ourselves from one another, which we then get away from being of who we truly are, then as we get away from who we truly are, now we never heal properly, so we can fix the pain and hurt that affects us so much, and with this society of, hatred, and ugliness, we can clearly see all that have deep pain within, that need to heal, so they can move forward better and stronger.

There are many different feelings of emotions within us all, the one that effects us greatly is, passion. When we are passionate about something, we then with all our beliefs, and faith, believe in that passion with all our being. Yes you can be too passionate to the point that, now it affects you in the wrong way, as a leader and being passionate about something, you can lose of how to be a true leader, which then has you become someone for who you truly are not. It is totally okay to be passionate of anything, just be careful of crossing that fine line of believing 100% of the passion, that now your judgments become clouded and you can’t see true facts that are right in front of you. Then there is the fact of the passion being 100% correct, and your beliefs are strong, but others around you may not share that passion and now you try to push this on them, whether true or not, now you risk trying to push them away and then lose of how to be a true leader. We all share this passion and it is within each of us with our emotions, just like we are all unique to each other, we also will have differences in what we become passionate on.

Just like there are many different bodies of water around us, there are many feelings of emotions within us as well, these emotions will affect us in many ways, and they will either bring us to our knee’s, or they will bring us to be better and stronger as we walk our paths of this journey. We have to find that fine line of, being passionate and being too passionate, then never cross that line, so as a leader we can lead correctly, and not lose what being a true leader really is. There are many passions also, like for instance, I am very passionate about being within mother nature, sleeping in a tent and feeling the heartbeat of the earth, watching the animals thrive in their environment, all the true beauty around me, now some may not like getting out of the grid like I do? That is fine, as I like what I like, and you like what you like, there is nothing wrong with that, but what is wrong is to push your passion on another, which does nothing but create this big divide between us. We all have our our passions and we all must respect that others may have a different passion, which brings a point for another writing, the fact that we all have lost our true respect for one another, within this society of today.

We all have the feeling of emotion within us, and there are many different versions of this emotion, we just need to truly understand our true emotions, understand the why and the how of our emotions, so we then can heal properly with these emotions, so we than can move forward throughout this journey of life, to be better and stronger, as we respect each other, stop this division between us, which will help us all see more clearly, with no clouds clouding our judgments, as we now can be truly of who we are, to share our love of one another, to truly be the leader we need to be, then stop all this hatred and ugliness, that surrounds us now. This journey will never be easy when we are surrounded with ugliness, and hate, it is our passions that is dividing us, simply because we have lost the respect of one another’s passions, and the fact that, we believe that we all should have the same passions, which then has us all being divided, stripping us from being any kind of a true leader. Jesus Christ showed us all of how to truly lead with passion, but because so many have walked away from the house of God, there are very few of us, that can be the true leader, for which we all need, because we all have crossed that fine line of our passions, that have us all someone we truly are not, and from that, have lost what being a true leader really is.

” Cry me a river, when we do this correctly we can heal properly moving forward”

” When we become so passionate of anything and let this divide us, it is time to change and get back on the good side of the passion”

” Real strength comes when we let our emotions cry the right way, without feeling any weakness at all”

God’s love for us, comes through our Mother’s

“God’s love we may not see and to some it doesn’t exist, as for a Mother’s love…. it is very precious and will never leave us, even when they cut the cord as we exit from the warmth of our Mother’s body”.

God’s love when we chose to acknowledge it, is deep within the soul and the core of our existence as we walk our paths along this journey of life. When we truly feel a warmth within our hearts, that is the love of God warming our bodies and souls, so we then can go out along our paths and share this love with all those that come across our path of our journey. When you don’t acknowledge the love of God, you will never feel any warmth within your heart, which then your body and soul become cold, when we are cold we then have no true feelings or emotions that help heel us in the proper way when we need to, sometimes things happen to us along our paths of our journey, this is when we need these true feelings and emotions, so we can feel God’s love deep within our hearts and souls, so we then can fix ourselves, to be better and stronger as we walk further on our journey, than share this love to others around us, so we all can walk our paths along our journey in peace and love.

A Mother’s love even when the cord is cut at the time of our birth never leaves us or our Mothers, this love we share with our Mothers further proves that God’s love does exist within us. We can be thousands of miles away from our Mothers and when something happens to us, our Mothers will know it as she will suddenly become happy or sad for whatever has happened to us, “this is how the love of God works, he doesn’t have to be in front of us, all we need to do is acknowledge, then feel the warmth through our hearts”. A Mother’s love is the most precious thing for all of us as we walk our paths here on Earth, her love never ends no matter what may happen to us along our journey, even when we think we have failed along our paths, or not lived as our Mom’s would of wanted us to, her love never fails us to which this love becomes stronger, so we can dig deep within our souls, to acknowledge God’s love, become true to ourselves and feel our true feelings and emotions, so we than can continue on our paths of our journey. A Mother’s love is the strongest bond we will ever feel, as we walk this journey, it will never fail no matter the distance it travels to reach us, or whatever along the journey that may happen to us, this same love helps us to feel God’s love deep within our hearts and souls, so we can be true to ourselves, be in touch with our true feelings and emotions, truly feel the warmth of God’s love in our hearts warming our bodies, so we then can over come anything that may cross our paths and as we feel this love, we then share it with all others along our paths, so we can all throughout Mankind, walk our paths along this journey in peace and harmony with each other.

” A Mothers love never ends, it will always be with us through the good and the bad, just like the love of God helps us be better and stronger along our journey’s”

” When Mary gave birth to Jesus, her love never failed him on his journey, this is the true love of all of us with our Mother’s as we walk our journeys through our lives”

Having true Empathy takes a lot of work on all our parts……

The true feeling of Empathy is within each of us as Humans, it is when we acknowledge it that unleashes its true power and greatness, when we don’t acknowledge it is when it destroys us and everything around us.

When you acknowledge your true Empathy, you actually feel for others and what happens to them, you care for the feelings of others with affection, warmth and kindness, than without thinking you think of the ramifications of your actions, before you take the action.

When you have any thoughts of prejudice, means you are not totally in tune with your Empathetic side, cause with prejudice comes opinions of someone or a group of someones and you put down blame and hate toward those someones, which means you have no Empathy towards those someones, because you may dislike someone or a group of someones, doesn’t take away the fact that they to are Human and have feelings as you and I do and when you are in tune with your true Empathetic side, you have these feelings of compassion for them, you can’t have compassion for anything, if first you don’t have feelings for that something/someone, as the empathy and putting yourself in someone else s shoes always comes first, before you can even think about having compassion for that someone.

Having Empathy and putting yourself in the shoes of another, is something that lacks within this society of today and will also explain all the hate we see around us today, some may say they have compassion of others? But you can’t have compassion of that someone, as you need to feel the Empathy, in order to have any compassion.

Those who say they don’t feel Empathy, or those that look to others as having no Empathy, just simply haven’t acknowledged the Empathy inside them, as we all as Humans have this Empathy within us, we all suffer a loss or have some kind of life event happen to us, it is these that make us suppress our true feeling and emotions deep within our core, when we do this we than become something we truly are not, because of the pain of the loss or life event, we suppress these feelings and emotions, to keep us from further harm in the future, but what we don’t realize is, the pain we are hiding from will eventually find us and hurt us worse than the original hurt, when we acknowledge our true feelings and emotions, we also acknowledge our Empathy within us and then have feelings for those around us, which will always make us think of the ramifications of our actions, before we take the action we will regret later.

Most people who show no Empathy of others, not only have suppressed their Empathy, but have cut off their feelings of fear, shame, pain, confidence and joy, they think that showing their feelings will only bring more pain toward them, Empathy doesn’t mean to just identify with the painful vulnerable parts, it also means to feel the strong, courageous parts also, having true Empathy will help you not only feel of others, but help you keep your feelings and emotions close to you, which will help you control your actions and not let you take action before you regret what you did.

When you have compassion for someone, this doesn’t happen without first having empathy for that person, you see a car wreck and you go over and help this person to ease their pain, this is compassion, but it first starts with putting yourself in their shoes, which is the empathy that comes out from within us, if you simply just drive by, then you lack the empathy and there is no sign of any compassion, to have compassion is not a sign of weakness, as in this society may make you think otherwise, to have compassion shows true strength and the simple fact that you are truly in control of your feelings and emotions and truly acknowledge your empathy that is within you.

To truly acknowledge this true Empathy and compassion within us, we must first take care of ourselves, so we than can take care of others as we would want to be taken care of, when you take care of yourself, it allows you to be empathetic, compassionate and active member of your community, plus not to mention when you trust yourself, it is a lot easier to trust others around you, with this trust goes understanding and when we understand better our true feelings and emotions, it makes it easier for all of us to understand each other as we walk our paths along our journey of life.

” Mental self, physical self, emotional self and spiritual self are what makes up the elements of a balanced life”

” A healthy social life requires all parts of self to be balanced”

” humor is what we all need, without it we often feel depressed and have no joy”