To be in control, unlike to be controlling of all that is around us

The journey of life has many twists and turns, it throws us a curve when we are ready for the slider, it will bury you with thoughts and thoughts that you don’t understand, sometimes as we walk our paths we get lost at the difference of being in control and trying to control everything around us.

When we think of control we tend to forget that, if something happens beyond our control, just walk away as whatever it is that, is trying to control us, really has no bearing on who we are and us being in control of ourselves. Your driving your car and out of the blue your tire blows, it was nothing of what you did, it could be something in the road, maybe a bad valve stem? Whatever has made the the tire blow, was nothing you could of done to control, it just happened at that particular time, yes now maybe your late for an appointment or work, but you know what, it is out of your control so breathe deeply in and out and think what do I do now? When you stress of things that happen out of your control, you make yourself sick in ways you may not see at first, when you step back and breathe so you can see the big picture, now you start thinking in ways of a solution, like calling a road side assistance person to help, call your work or whoever your appointment was with, letting them know of your misfortune, so they can adjust to you being late and your self as well as others can be back in control of yourself.

We all in this Society are guilty of trying to control everything, even if that something wasn’t meant to be controlled. If we were all truly in control of ourselves, than everything else will simply fall into place, nobody would worry or stress of things out of their control and becoming sick in ways we can’t explain, to be totally in control of anything, always starts with us controlling ourselves first, walking away when something happens out of our control, so we don’t become sick to the point, we become something we are not, we walk our paths along a journey of life, with all the twists and turns already there, we don’t need any more to complicate things even more for us.

When we are in control of ourselves, there is no better feeling from within our hearts and souls, that keeps us healthy, with strength to be better no matter how long or short our journey may be, even our journey we can’t control, without first we control of ourselves, once we learn to truly control ourselves and make the necessary changes we need to make, then not only will our journey be better and stronger, but the journey of all of us within Society will be better and stronger, so we all can live in peace and love, instead of what we see now, with all the hate and destruction that is around us.

” to control isn’t that we control everything/anything around us, it is that we first control ourselves so everything else will fall into place”

” to be controlling of others before ourselves, is the recipe for disaster no matter how you try to rationalize away being in control”

To truly understand anything, is not to pretend you know everything…

Within this Society of today, it is very easy to go with the flow and follow what we think is the normal, as we walk our paths along our journey of life, from the beginning to where ever we may be at right now, we all have these life events happen to us, whether small or life changing? we also go through many changes as we grow, sometimes some of us may endear a life altering medical issue, that may force us to change our lifestyle? Maybe you lived through a major tragedy  that has literally taken a piece of you and forced you to go through a major life change? No matter what the situation, we have all lived through something, gone through many changes, but we must never let these situations control who we really are and always simply be true to who we are, so we all can walk our paths on our journey of life in happiness, while being strong enough to handle any other situation that may come across our paths.

Life’s journey for some may end sooner than they like, while others walk a very long journey, there is nobody that can truly say they totally understand the reason why for this, but what we all must do is, live for the moment, take everything on our journey in moderation and be happy for who we are, without becoming something we are not, when something comes across our paths we don’t understand, just simply stay true to yourself while you better understand the situation, so you can stay in control of yourself, without the situation controlling who you are, staying true to yourself is really not hard at all, it is only we as Humans that put the pressure on our selves to try to be like everybody else, we think that the other person lives better than me? Does he really live better or are they putting up a front and simply being someone they are not? We don’t know for sure, but we do know for sure is, the fact if we are true to ourselves, then we can control better our lives and how we walk our paths along our journey of life.

We all have our beliefs, but the one constant belief that has stood the test of time on all the journeys of all Mankind is, God our Father, has created this planet and all Mankind, the vision he had for us is not what we in this Society are doing now, with all the hate, destruction and greed, it was for all of us to coincide with each other, show our love of selves more, while we show more love toward one another, be happy in all we do, without becoming someone we are not, coexist and work together, instead of butting heads and being bitter of one another, it is really not that hard, just that we as Humans make it hard by our actions and becoming someone we truly are not, when we stay true to ourselves, keep alive God’s true vision for his creation, we all can walk our paths along our journeys of life being happy, while sharing our love with each other.

” To truly understand is not to pretend you know everything about everything”

” to stay true to yourself is the key to being strong and happy throughout all you do”

“God created all Mankind for all to coincide with each other, not to be bitter and hate each other”