Dumb Questions + Stupidity = One screwed up Society

Now with each Society throughout this journey of life we all walk, we have all had our issues, we have all struggled at one point or another, but none more than through this Society have we taken the struggles and the issues to a whole new level. The biggest part of what makes this Society so screwed up is, the stupidity and the quite simple dumb questions asked by the media, just so they can put forth and ram down our throats, their agendas that are quite simply nothing but, a way for them to push more unwanted drama to us all.

Just so the media can keep to their agendas, when something of tragedy happens, the first thing they do is go straight to the victims of that tragedy, without giving them a chance to grieve or heal from their tragic time. With all this #meto stories coming out and all the alleged abuse stories coming out, the media will go to the ones who have been hurt and ask such stupid questions, then instead of leaving them alone to heal from their pain properly, they keep hounding them, just so they can keep their drama filled agendas coming, like bullets from a machine gun. When anyone has been hurt deeply with real pain, they just don’t come out and share of this pain, as this thing called shame will dictate that, it takes time and the right help, for any person of abuse to heal properly, not too mention they just don’t come out for a drama filled agenda, they will with the right guidance, will speak of their tragedy, not just for them to heal properly, but to help another going through the same kind of tragedy.

When a person who has been deeply hurt with real pain, finally gets the right guidance, then they can begin the healing process, but there is this thing called triggers, no not the trigger of a gun, although at times it may feel like one? These triggers when set off, can and will keep the hurt and pain within you and through the triggers, at times will make the tragedy seem even worse than it originally was. Those within the media who have zero compassion and empathy, really do not care of these triggers, as they continue to ask their stupid questions, just to keep pushing forward with their ugly agendas.

Now within this Society we have this thing called Social media, this when used correctly can be a good thing for us all, but unfortunately we have gone the other way with this like everything else we touch. When this #meto first came out throughout the Twitter world, it was a great thing, as now so many can finally have a voice to heal from the real pain and hurt they have been suffering, but now as we the people like so many other things, have taken this hash tag to a whole new level and the level, we have taken it is in the wrong direction, only to aid the media in keeping with their drama filled agendas. A lot of times we the people become clouded with our judgments and totally make the wrong judgment, we have done this time and time again and to the point that, we have no clue to what we are doing anymore.

This journey through life may have many components, but it really is not that hard, it is we the people that make it hard with our actions toward each other. We show zero empathy and compassion toward one another, as we only think of ourselves and what affects one won’t affect me? This is what keeps the clouds within our judgments, so we then don’t think through our actions, before we actually take the action. With empathy is the fact of each of us, putting ourselves in the shoes of those around us, so we than can see before we lash out to another, which then keeps us from taking the wrong action, as we wouldn’t want it to come to us. The way we truly fix this screwed up Society is, first we need to fix the agenda filled and drama filled media, so they can’t hurt us anymore, as now we the people have control over them, instead of them controlling us, just so they can sell their print or agendas and live their plush lifestyles, while we live within the real pain of our hurt and totally hiding deep within ourselves.

” True there is no stupid question as we learn from them, but the media doesn’t learn they just keep bringing their stupidity at every turn”

” We all in this society have become so stupid, quite simply because we have become lost within the clouds of our judgments”

” Before you actually take an action, think through that action with some empathy and compassion, to stop all the pain and hurt we bring to each other”

” #meto was a great thing at first, but now we have taken it in the wrong direction of more pain and hurt, instead of true healing”

A Society in need of major fixings………

This Society of today is in need of some major fixings. With the latest chaos going on within the city of Baltimore, shows just how we in this Society need desperately to fix the wrongs, so we can all walk our paths of our journey of life in peace and strive to be better than Societies of the past.

We have a huge tragedy with the earthquake in Nepal, which should be front and center in all our minds, as we show empathy and compassion with those affected in Nepal, but with all the other crap like Baltimore and the group ISIS, taking center stage in the media, it is hard for any of us to show our true empathy and remorse, let alone have any kind of compassion towards each other.

True the Media should accept most of the blame, for giving these wrong doers their film time on national TV, but the bigger blame goes to the Parents of these children, for not being there for their children, not being their to communicate properly with their children and hugely for not properly teaching their children, the difference between right and wrong.

My theory on all this chaos and violence amongst us within our Society, goes no further than all the online games our children play, this teaches them nothing but violence and a killing mentality, children of today spend way too much time on their computers, plugged into their games with their headsets, chatting with other children and adults through the game they are playing, not too mention being brainwashed by a game and others who are playing that game with them. The way we change this is, we start now setting an example of taking down these games, deleting them from our computers and teaching our children that violence and killing only compounds all problems we deal with, throughout our paths of our journey of life.

These Teenagers in Baltimore that are causing the chaos in their city, only do so at night cause during the day, they are on their games chatting and planning the next wave of violence within their city. Let’s show these Teens that there is more to life than, sitting in front of a computer and playing a game of violence, chatting with others they have never met in real time and planning chaos within their city then even further, let’s discipline the Parents of these Teenagers and send a message to all the other so called Parents, that this behavior will not be tolerated any more, as it does nothing but affect the lives and peace of everybody around them.

We all walk our paths along this journey of life, when we do so by causing harm to others around us, we are also making our journey harder than it has to be, when we walk our paths while we show our true empathy, compassion and remorse of each other, than all our paths of our journey through life will be easier, while we all relax in peace within our Society, so we can be better and stronger, than all other Societies of Mankind, not too mention the troubled Society we all live today, will be fixed and be a great Society once again.

” Violence, killing and looting has never solved any problem, being smart in your actions and thinking through your actions before taking that action, will lead us to peace and a better Society for all”

“Computer games that are full of violence and killings, do nothing but bring chaos to our already troubled Society”

” Parents need to be better Parents in our Society today, that means communicating better with our children today and teaching them properly of the difference between right and wrong”

To be a true Teacher is a gift, not just a job for the benefits…

“Throughout the history of Mankind, we all walk our own paths throughout the Journey of life”.

As we walk these paths we find we need to work in order to survive along these paths, we all have our own knowledge that gives us the experience needed, so we can find that certain career for what makes us good at what we do,  but in order to get this knowledge we have to be a good listener and have the right teacher, that not only teaches from the heart, but teaches us with passion that one day their student, will become very successful from their teachings.

Jesus Christ was this great teacher, we all should strive to be like. Jesus used a lot of different examples, so we could understand better of what he was trying to say, like not just being a “Fisherman”, but being a “Fisher of men”, Jesus also made light of the Shepard and the Sheep and how the Sheep were great listeners, that followed the Shepard where ever he may go. The great Teachers like Jesus, to them guiding their students comes easily as this is a special gift, a gift that they don’t know they have, until they unleash it from within, like the Shepard over his herd of Sheep, this was a 24/7 job, but to the Shepard it wasn’t a job, it was more of a reward, that gave him freedom, to go where ever he wanted along this planet Earth, Jesus also didn’t look at himself as a teacher, or that it was a job of his, as his teachings were also 24/7 and came to him like a reward, with the freedom to wander where he may, teach whom ever that may have crossed his path, no matter who you were.

The true Teachers within Mankind, started with Jesus, but has continued throughout all the Mother and Father’s, as they teach their Children how to walk their paths along their journey of life, they didn’t force any type of path on them, only gave them the tools to explore and find their own path through life, they guided their Children out of love, passion and joy, as to make them happy to be a listener, learn all they could learn, so one day they to can be a great teacher, like Jesus and their Parents taught them. This is how the cycle of life is suppose to be, but somewhere/somehow the gift of a great Teacher, has become more like a job, instead of a gift that warms your heart, with all that is around you.

To be a great Teacher is more than standing in front of others and trying to lead them from a book, it is leading others from the heart, with a passion for the goodness of what you do, taking that warm feeling of love from within you and sharing that same feeling of warmth and love, with all that is around you, know matter who they are. If we all only shared more compassion and empathy of each other, toward each other, then just maybe this Society of which we all walk our paths along our journey of life, would show more of this warmth within our hearts? There are less great Teachers in our Society, only because we view a Teacher as a job, instead of as a ” Fisher of men”. ” The true difference between a Fisher of Men and a Teacher is the feeling of warmth from within, that is the love of ourselves that we share with each other”.

Jesus came to us and walked his path of his Journey of life, so we could listen and learn from his teachings, then as we walk our paths through our Journey of life, we to can become that great teacher that Jesus showed us, while we all share the warmth of his love that is within us all. It is when we all become that great teacher, that our Society becomes a great Society, full of compassion and empathy of one another, with no hatred and evil that Satan tries to tempt us into, “the temptation of Satan is strong, but the greatness of the teachings of Jesus, is even stronger”. May we all become that great teacher and not just a teacher for a job, may we all show more compassion and empathy of each other, so our Society can be great once again, as we all walk our paths, along our journey of life.

” A teacher just doesn’t show up for work in front of a classroom, a great teacher teaches 24/7, along their path of their journey of life”

” To be a great teacher, first you need to be a great listener”

Having true Empathy takes a lot of work on all our parts……

The true feeling of Empathy is within each of us as Humans, it is when we acknowledge it that unleashes its true power and greatness, when we don’t acknowledge it is when it destroys us and everything around us.

When you acknowledge your true Empathy, you actually feel for others and what happens to them, you care for the feelings of others with affection, warmth and kindness, than without thinking you think of the ramifications of your actions, before you take the action.

When you have any thoughts of prejudice, means you are not totally in tune with your Empathetic side, cause with prejudice comes opinions of someone or a group of someones and you put down blame and hate toward those someones, which means you have no Empathy towards those someones, because you may dislike someone or a group of someones, doesn’t take away the fact that they to are Human and have feelings as you and I do and when you are in tune with your true Empathetic side, you have these feelings of compassion for them, you can’t have compassion for anything, if first you don’t have feelings for that something/someone, as the empathy and putting yourself in someone else s shoes always comes first, before you can even think about having compassion for that someone.

Having Empathy and putting yourself in the shoes of another, is something that lacks within this society of today and will also explain all the hate we see around us today, some may say they have compassion of others? But you can’t have compassion of that someone, as you need to feel the Empathy, in order to have any compassion.

Those who say they don’t feel Empathy, or those that look to others as having no Empathy, just simply haven’t acknowledged the Empathy inside them, as we all as Humans have this Empathy within us, we all suffer a loss or have some kind of life event happen to us, it is these that make us suppress our true feeling and emotions deep within our core, when we do this we than become something we truly are not, because of the pain of the loss or life event, we suppress these feelings and emotions, to keep us from further harm in the future, but what we don’t realize is, the pain we are hiding from will eventually find us and hurt us worse than the original hurt, when we acknowledge our true feelings and emotions, we also acknowledge our Empathy within us and then have feelings for those around us, which will always make us think of the ramifications of our actions, before we take the action we will regret later.

Most people who show no Empathy of others, not only have suppressed their Empathy, but have cut off their feelings of fear, shame, pain, confidence and joy, they think that showing their feelings will only bring more pain toward them, Empathy doesn’t mean to just identify with the painful vulnerable parts, it also means to feel the strong, courageous parts also, having true Empathy will help you not only feel of others, but help you keep your feelings and emotions close to you, which will help you control your actions and not let you take action before you regret what you did.

When you have compassion for someone, this doesn’t happen without first having empathy for that person, you see a car wreck and you go over and help this person to ease their pain, this is compassion, but it first starts with putting yourself in their shoes, which is the empathy that comes out from within us, if you simply just drive by, then you lack the empathy and there is no sign of any compassion, to have compassion is not a sign of weakness, as in this society may make you think otherwise, to have compassion shows true strength and the simple fact that you are truly in control of your feelings and emotions and truly acknowledge your empathy that is within you.

To truly acknowledge this true Empathy and compassion within us, we must first take care of ourselves, so we than can take care of others as we would want to be taken care of, when you take care of yourself, it allows you to be empathetic, compassionate and active member of your community, plus not to mention when you trust yourself, it is a lot easier to trust others around you, with this trust goes understanding and when we understand better our true feelings and emotions, it makes it easier for all of us to understand each other as we walk our paths along our journey of life.

” Mental self, physical self, emotional self and spiritual self are what makes up the elements of a balanced life”

” A healthy social life requires all parts of self to be balanced”

” humor is what we all need, without it we often feel depressed and have no joy”