The child within the child……..

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Robin Williams was a special man that walked his path of this journey together with us all. Like Robin, we all hurt deep inside of which we also hide that hurt very different from each other. Depression is what ate him apart from the inside out and he hid it well as he made comedy his thing, so he then made us all laugh while he hurt deep inside. We all have our issues and we all hurt from these issues, now the issues vary from one to another and no one is immune from the issues, just that some may attack them head-on, while others procrastinate and hide them deep inside, which only makes the issues more so than they really need to be.

We all grow into society from a young child, there is also a child within us all as well. This child within us also becomes affected when we struggle from the issues, then as this child grows within us from the pain of the issues, is how we grow on the outside as well. When we don’t nurture and take care of the child within, then we on the outside will never be nurtured and grow into society as healthy as we can be. Depending on the issues we suffer from and how we try to heal ourselves from our issues, this will affect us in many different ways, it will have us become someone we truly are not, but the biggest thing that will change us so……….. that we will bury our true feelings and emotions so deep within, that they will then keep us from feeling anything at all. The child within is key to us all healing properly from whatever issues that will affect most.

It is also so true that we are our own worst enemies and we as a person will hurt another only because we try so hard to be seen as normal as we can, we think that by hurting another then our own pain will go away, but only the opposite happens as we only compound our own issues further, while we never heal properly from what hurts us so. Yes sometimes the pain can be great from the issues, but if we never fix what we need to fix, or heal properly from what hurts us deeply, then not only will the pain and hurt never go away, but that child within us will never grow in a healthy way, leaving us on the outside to struggle and not grow properly within a society of many.

Robin Williams did it his way and choose comedy to hide his true self from us all, we all whether we want to admit it or not, do the same as Robin did and find our own way to hide our true selves from each other, which then leads to a society of brokenness and us all being fake instead of real. We all will go out of our way to hurt each other, but become lazy when it comes to healing ourselves. Before we can help another in any way, we first have to help ourselves, so when we love and respect ourselves, then we can love and respect each other. Plus when we take care of that child within so it can grow healthy, then we can grow healthy and enter a society better and stronger, while we not only help each other but bring respect, love, joy, and dignity to each other as well. We all walk a path through this journey of life, even though the path may not be perfect when we take care of that child within, then we not only can grow in a healthy way, but we can make the path as perfect as perfect can be, so we all can simply love one another instead of hating and hurting one another, which then we all can walk this journey in the peace and happiness we all so deserve.

 

” The child within the child is how we grow either in a healthy way or a very painful and hurtful way”

 

” Robin Williams was a great man that hurt deeply inside but never showed that hurt on the outside to us all”

 

” We all have our issues and no one is immune to these issues, it depends on how you deal with the issues to heal in a healthy way from the issues”

 

 

The Hardest of Hearts……….

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I chose this picture once again cause it is of young eight year old Martin Richard, a young boy who was tragically taken from us, by two Individuals with the hardest of hearts. ThisĀ  young boy was an innocent Victim of a senseless tragedy and this sign he holds here, is a symbol of what might of come from this young boy.

We all grow from a young age and as a child we are all precious in our own ways. When we are little we have no hate of anything and everything us around is an equal, we play with other children within our communities and welcome everybody no matter what their background, skin color, or where they are from. Our children are true gifts from God to us and we all can learn from these children, as much as we teach them to grow within Society.

With all this hate and ugliness around us today ( which the Media like to make bigger than it really is) and the fact that we as a child have none of this, shows that we as people learn and create this hate and ugliness from somewhere as our hearts become hardened and cold. Children are a sponge and soak up everything around them as they grow into Society, as innocent as a child is, they become a product of what is around them and when they are raised with hate of everything around them, they then get filled with it and the hardened heart syndrome then begins, with the coldness yet to come.

Children are a product of the love between a loving Man and a Woman, that are showing their love of one another to all that is around them. Children are not something that helps you get more free money from the Government, so you don’t have to go out and earn a living. When you raise a precious child for all the wrong reasons, this is where all the hatred is then learned from the child and starts the hardening and coldness of the heart. All this hatred, racism and ugliness is learned from somewhere, it is not in any way a part of us, as God did not create Mankind to be this way.

“When God created Mankind he did so out of love and filled our hearts with the warmth of this love, everything else is learned as we grow within Society. Our hearts only become hardened and cold, when we don’t acknowledge the love of God within our hearts”.

We as children learn everything that is around us at a young age, if that is a world of hate, then this is what we learn and take with us as we grow into Society. When we suffer through some Life events as a child and we think we have no where to turn, then these events teaches us to be hateful of everything around, as we try to keep ourselves safe from further events that may cross our paths. Quite simply we as children become a product of what is around us and when that is a world of hate, then it snow balls as these children are grown up into Society with the Hardest of Hearts, as there heart is full of coldness, instead of the warmth of God’s love. We all walk a path through this journey of life, we all learn from a young age how to walk these paths, so we can try to walk these journey’s as safely as we think safe is, what we need to do more of is, trust in God and Jesus more, as their love for us never leaves us, trust, have faith and forgive ourselves, so we then can do the same of each other, so our hearts will be filled with the warmth of true love and not hardened with the coldest of hearts, which does nothing but spread more hatred and ugliness around us further.

” A cold and hardened heart is learned from a young age, the warmth of God’s love is always within our hearts, all we need to do is accept and acknowledge it”

” A Child is precious and pure full of love of everything around them, the hate and ugliness is learned from what is around them as they grow into Society”

” When a heart becomes hardened and cold, it is because of what is around it, as we grow from a young age it forces us to become someone for which we truly are not”

” God’s love never fails us, it is us that fails ourselves”

The shame of life, even when we think we are normal……

“Mankind……. There is so much we have learned, but yet so much more for us to understand and still learn further”.

We all come to this Earth very much in the same way, our innocence and fragile bodies as a young baby soaking everything in along the beginning of our journey. We are so eager to learn and grow into life, that we forget to stop and simply enjoy what is around us. Then we get so caught up with things around us, we forget about truly seeing who we really are, then you add in the fact that some will take advantage of you at a young age, also the life events that happen to all of us, now you have a recipe for disaster.

We are most vulnerable when we are at a young age, cause we want so much to just fit in, we forget about just being ourselves. We do things on the outside, that truly isn’t who we really are on the inside. Most of what we do on the outside, comes from something we don’t take the time to understand and it comes from someone else taking advantage of us, at a time of our vulnerability, it also has to do with some sort of life event, that because of the pain and shame it brings us, we want nothing but rid ourselves from this shame/pain. We then try to move forward by suppressing all the pain and shame away, then we become someone we are not, as we hide the true child within us and not let that child grow within ourselves, so he/she can grow into their full potential.

Shame will come to us in many ways, it will also bring great pain to us as well, shame will make us do things we normally would not and it will change us for the worse if we let it, when we are shamed we will suppress everything deep within, which includes who we truly are, our true feelings and our true emotions, shame will also make it easy for us to numb ourselves from everything around, whether the pain is mental or physical, we will feel nothing cause the shame is controlling who we truly are.

Our journey of life can be so overwhelming from a young age, when you throw in life events and others that will take advantage, this makes the journey that much harder, but if we take everything in moderation, understand better of who we are and knowing better of who we are as a child. We don’t think like this, simply cause we on the outside and that little child within, are learning and absorbing everything around us, when someone takes advantage and because we don’t understand, we think maybe either this is suppose to be, or maybe there is something wrong with me? Now you add shame to this equation and the pain we feel inside from the shame, there is no way we communicate with anybody, so we suppress everything we can to try to make the pain go away, not to mention of the numbing of all our feelings, so we feel nothing throughout our lives, whether physical or mental. When we all truly grow from our young age in a healthy way, that little boy/girl within all of us will fully grow and prosper into their full potential, as we all walk our paths along our journey of life.

” Life is a journey we all walk throughout Mankind, when our inner child doesn’t grow inside to it’s full potential, then we as an Individual don’t grow to our full potential as well”