We are better than that.

Pauley Perrette standing in front of a building: Cliff Lipson/CBS via Getty

Pauley Perrette, AKA……….. Abby sciuto for 15 seasons on the number one T. V. show NCIS. I just read an article of her, plus seen some of her tweets recently and she talks about workplace abuse and because of some big machine, a very rich powerful publicity machine, that has kept her silent. This machine has been spreading lies and false stories, now what I read in the article or tweets, mentions no one by name, but the words ” big powerful publicity machine” could be a tell that, it’s none of the cast, but even bigger like a network top exec? like maybe a Harvey Weinstein type? We the people are our own worst enemies, we cheat, lie kill, hurt, mame each other to name a few, this is not of who we truly are and we all need to get out of the walls of denial, before it is too late and we all are gone from existence, gone from walking a path, not just within a society, but within this journey of life.

Pauley Perrette for those who do not know, I have seen her on some talk shows in the past and let’s just say………. she was as real on the show as she is in real life, she is a total sweat heart and would go out of her way to help you. Pauley in real life was a big activist on Bullying, but as I read in the article and got from her tweets, sounds like she was the one being bullied forced to keep quiet from a big, rich, publicity machine. Very sad thinking that here she is counseling others and she is the one being bullied? This is so sad and knowing this is going on everywhere, makes you wonder when, we as a society will grow up, be truly of who we are, so as we walk our paths through this journey of life, we can do so in the peace of Jesus Christ, to be as truly happy as we want to be, while we feel deeply inside our hearts and souls, the love of Jesus Christ, then share that love with each other, instead of all this hatred and ugliness, that does nothing but bring each of us much pain and hurt.

We the people can be as smart as anything and everyone throughout this universe, but with our actions of each other makes us so dumb and childish, that I only hope that someday in my lifetime, we can grow up and walk our paths as Jesus did, so we can see the light on the path of righteousness, so instead of bringing harm, hurt and pain to each other, we can share our love of ourselves with each other always. Now with all the ugliness and the Bullying out there, I really do not think that any of us even love ourselves? This is where it starts, we first have to love ourselves, then the love within will flow to all those around us, as then and only then, will all the ugliness, pain, and hurt disappear from this society. It is not rocket science, we are not building a rocket to go to Mars, we are only loving ourselves then sharing with each other, just as Jesus showed us when he came and walked his journey here with us. We the people of this society need to grow up, we need to escape the walls of denial and truly be of who we really are. Then just maybe we all can walk together as Jesus did, on the paths of our choosing, throughout this journey of life.

” Abuse of any kind, the bulling also should never be tolerated, to be truly of who we are on our paths of this journey”

” When we bully another all we are doing is, burying our own pain and hurt even deeper within, as we never acknowledge only keep pushing it away”

” Jesus never showed us this, as the bullying and abuse is totally on we the people”

” It is easier to take the actions of love from within, instead of putting on a fake face and taking the action of hatred and ugliness”

” As Robin Williams was quiet of his troubles, so to is Pauley of her’s, time to stand up and find the voice of reason, so we all can move forward better and stronger”

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When you love yourself, you like who you are and all that is around you………

Our lives along our paths of our Journey of life, will never be perfect nor will we as Humans as well, we all suffer some kind of life event and we all have been bullied at some point in our lives also, being bullied doesn’t only mean to be physically attacked,, as the worst kind of bullying happens mentally, with the scars lasting the rest of our journey of our lives.

Bullying is more common than we want to believe, only because the ones that have been the victim, hide deep within themselves in order to minimize the pain and harm that has come to them, as the victim hides their true feelings and emotions, they become isolated from everything around them, they lose their feeling of self worth and their self esteem seems like it was never there, they don’t want to admit to anybody of their weakness, so they than live a fantasy world and become something that they truly are not, being a victim is the saddest thing we as Humans will ever have to entail, but the scary thing is, there are a lot more victims than Bullies out there, just that the victim stays within themselves with no signs of reaching out to anybody for help.

Reaching out to anybody for help is easier said than done, cause in this Society where weakness is ridiculed and frowned upon, plus the victim of the abuse or Bullying are suffering from low self esteem and self worth, their trust in everything around them has been taken from them, when your trust is taken from you, it is very hard to get it back, yes it can come back, but you need trust in yourself to truly love yourself, so you then can be truly happy with who you are, the Human body and the Human spirit are so complex, only we don’t take the time to understand them and we take action, before we think of the ramifications of our actions.

The Bully always takes action without thinking of the ramifications of his/her actions, they have no feelings of remorse or empathy, or otherwise they wouldn’t try to control whatever they are trying to control, all they think about is the power they try to achieve, by Bullying their victim, the Bully thinks that the more victims they have, the more powerful they are? A Bully can only operate when the victim shows fear for the Bully, fear is another powerful feeling within us all, but the Bully uses this fear to his/her advantage, fear can only be used effectively when you have no feeling of remorse or empathy, a good percentage of the Bullies out there, have been bullied themselves, this is their way of trying to make sense of their own victimization.

For the Victim, being bullied is never easy, for the Bully it is about inflicting fear to achieve power, either way it shows nothing but, we as a Society need to better understand the Human body and the Human spirit, so we all can walk our paths along our Journey of life in peace while we all love ourselves deeply, so we can truly love one another and all this hate in our Society will disappear once and for all, true love of ourselves and of each other, is what God wanted for us when he created us and to show him we appreciate his creation, we all need to work together to achieve this true love, so we all can walk our Journey’s of life in peace.

” A Bully is nothing more than someone who is hurting deeply inside and even more than the Victim that he/she has victimized”

” Being a victim of a Bully is never easy, so we need to stand up to the Bully, so the fear factor will never come into play”

” To truly love yourself, means you totally love who you are and all that is around you”

Take the “Bull” out of “BULL”ying……

We all have this trait of bullying within us, we all have been bullied as a young child, some more so than other’s, the part we have come to overlook is, the Bully is no different than each one of us.
A Bully is a person whether man/woman, that inflicts fear and takes control of the people around them, it just doesn’t have to be the school bully, that takes your lunch money, or forces you to do things in which you do not want to, A Bully is many things within our lives and even more often then not, is someone close to ourselves, A Bully isn’t just about being physical to inflict harm, the same harm can also be the verbal kind, which affects us by way of our mental side of us, this mental side of the abuse can be just as harmful than the physical side and can have longer effects on us throughout our journey of life.
A Bully can be the School Teacher to their students, it could be an older family member to their younger family, it could be a CEO of a company, abusing their power of authority over other’s, it could also be a public official over all in the community, the bottom line is a Bully is part of all of us and when we let these Bully traits consume us, then we ourselves become the Bully.
These Bully traits only consume us, when we are not true to ourselves, hide our empathy feelings and love of other’s and let the feelings of hate consume all our thoughts and actions, a Bully can be controled when we control ourselves and let our true selves shine, with our true feelings of empathy and love ahead of all else.
We all cringe when we hear all the reports of children committing suicide cause they are a victim of Bullying, we then push the blame to the Individual responsible for this tradgic event, what we should really be doing is, find out why this Individual did this and why did he act on this Bully trait we all have within us, this Individual has learned somewhere that being a Bully, they can control other’s around them, when we look to blame instead of reckcognizing this Bully trait, then we to are hiding within ourselves and not letting our true empathy and love of other’s shine when we need it the most.
We all as Humans hurt and we all have feelings and emotions, it’s when we hide all these that we then become untrue to ourselves and other’s around us, it is also then that we let all the negative traits within us come out, which does nothing but spread the hatred we now have in our Society, when we all stay true to ourselves, let our true empathy and love shine, is when our Society shines with good and forces this hatred to move on, as it can’t affect us anymore.

” a Bully can only control if we ourselves let them control our lives”

” love and empathy are more powerful than hate, we just have to give them a chance to show us”