We are better than that.

Pauley Perrette standing in front of a building: Cliff Lipson/CBS via Getty

Pauley Perrette, AKA……….. Abby sciuto for 15 seasons on the number one T. V. show NCIS. I just read an article of her, plus seen some of her tweets recently and she talks about workplace abuse and because of some big machine, a very rich powerful publicity machine, that has kept her silent. This machine has been spreading lies and false stories, now what I read in the article or tweets, mentions no one by name, but the words ” big powerful publicity machine” could be a tell that, it’s none of the cast, but even bigger like a network top exec? like maybe a Harvey Weinstein type? We the people are our own worst enemies, we cheat, lie kill, hurt, mame each other to name a few, this is not of who we truly are and we all need to get out of the walls of denial, before it is too late and we all are gone from existence, gone from walking a path, not just within a society, but within this journey of life.

Pauley Perrette for those who do not know, I have seen her on some talk shows in the past and let’s just say………. she was as real on the show as she is in real life, she is a total sweat heart and would go out of her way to help you. Pauley in real life was a big activist on Bullying, but as I read in the article and got from her tweets, sounds like she was the one being bullied forced to keep quiet from a big, rich, publicity machine. Very sad thinking that here she is counseling others and she is the one being bullied? This is so sad and knowing this is going on everywhere, makes you wonder when, we as a society will grow up, be truly of who we are, so as we walk our paths through this journey of life, we can do so in the peace of Jesus Christ, to be as truly happy as we want to be, while we feel deeply inside our hearts and souls, the love of Jesus Christ, then share that love with each other, instead of all this hatred and ugliness, that does nothing but bring each of us much pain and hurt.

We the people can be as smart as anything and everyone throughout this universe, but with our actions of each other makes us so dumb and childish, that I only hope that someday in my lifetime, we can grow up and walk our paths as Jesus did, so we can see the light on the path of righteousness, so instead of bringing harm, hurt and pain to each other, we can share our love of ourselves with each other always. Now with all the ugliness and the Bullying out there, I really do not think that any of us even love ourselves? This is where it starts, we first have to love ourselves, then the love within will flow to all those around us, as then and only then, will all the ugliness, pain, and hurt disappear from this society. It is not rocket science, we are not building a rocket to go to Mars, we are only loving ourselves then sharing with each other, just as Jesus showed us when he came and walked his journey here with us. We the people of this society need to grow up, we need to escape the walls of denial and truly be of who we really are. Then just maybe we all can walk together as Jesus did, on the paths of our choosing, throughout this journey of life.

” Abuse of any kind, the bulling also should never be tolerated, to be truly of who we are on our paths of this journey”

” When we bully another all we are doing is, burying our own pain and hurt even deeper within, as we never acknowledge only keep pushing it away”

” Jesus never showed us this, as the bullying and abuse is totally on we the people”

” It is easier to take the actions of love from within, instead of putting on a fake face and taking the action of hatred and ugliness”

” As Robin Williams was quiet of his troubles, so to is Pauley of her’s, time to stand up and find the voice of reason, so we all can move forward better and stronger”

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Abuse of Power is damaging and painful………….

Robert Mueller wearing a suit and tie: In a 2013 file image, former FBI director Robert Mueller attends the ceremonial swearing-in of FBI Director James Comey at the FBI Headquarters in Washington, D.C.
” Knowledge is power and can make you better, but the wrong kind of power will hurt you and those around you” I bet we the the people are so happy that this so called investigation is over, but is it really over? This was the biggest waste of money in the political world to date, this proved nothing, especially the fact of what it was set out to do, which was the taking down of a seated President. President Trump gave up his Billionaire dollar lifestyle, to truly help us all the American people with the America first attitude. President Trump came into office with large pockets full of money, to which all the lobbyists hate, simply because he can not be bought, but yet some others get elected into office within the Senate and the Congress not as rich as Trump, but all of a sudden they are now extremely wealthy, as they have been bought by these lobbyists to vote a certain way. What the so called Media will not report on cause it is not in their agenda is, the simple fact that even through this witch hunt of an investigation, President Trump has accomplished a lot of good for this country and the people. Now very true that our President may say things he shouldn’t and maybe offend some, but this shows of how he does not believe in this political correct world that consumes us today, the one thing that this political correction does is, it makes us all weak as we fear most of not offending anyone, for the pure fact of any harm coming to us. Gone are the days of actually looking someone in the eyes and actually interacting firmly without fear of repercussions, especially when there is this thing called social media we all hide behind today. Knowledge is power yes, but when you use the power to take someone down, or bring harm to another, that is not the kind of power we need. Now if your working within a company and you want to move up within that company, then having knowledge of everything that company does can and will benefit you greatly, but now where there is no more true loyalty anymore, this kind of knowledge is far and few between. There are still some out there that have great knowledge of a subject and are willing to share their knowledge with you, but in this world of ” all about me”, those ones are hard to find today. The sad part of this society today is, we are all guilty of having our agendas very much like the the media types have their agendas as well. Today within the walls of Washington DC and over the last couple years with this so called investigation, the one thing that it did bring out is the fact that, all our elected officials are not only corrupt, but they are also driven to gain all the power over everything they can, just so they can basically try to have full control of everything around them. If you try to get elected and don’t know how to play the power game, then you will get eaten up within the walls of Washington DC, then you become none effective and a warm body sitting in a chair. We all walk a path through this journey of life, but when we move forward with no empathy or compassion for each other, then the journey becomes clouded and we all hurt real pain, with no true feelings to soothe the pain. President Trump has been elected to the highest office on the land fair and square, now we the people need to except that fact, except that he is our seated President, so we all can move forward better and stronger, while President Trump lives up to his promise of, ” making America great again”. It really does not matter what political party you belong to, as this journey through life is traveled by each of us as an individual, that looks to try to walk our paths in peace and harmony, but when we are attacking each other, then the peace and harmony are no where to be found, then we become blinded by the clouds of our judgments, of which then we all become none effective in the pursuit of, peace, happiness, empathy and compassion, as we walk our paths through this journey of life. ” Knowledge is power, but not when you abuse the power for self endeavors” ” The political witch hunt is over, but what kind of witch hunt will come next?” ” The Washington power game has become so corrupt, that there is no true power anymore”

The “Abuse” is more than what we think abuse is……..

With all the Domestic Abuse we see through the Media on a daily basis, it is a far bigger problem that happens to many of all walks of life.

The only reason we hear of this Domestic Abuse from the Media, is the fact it is happening from some high profile sports athletes, when in reality it happens to many Humans everyday of their lives, most of the time it doesn’t start out as physical, it starts as mental abuse with words and degrading someones mind into thinking they are worthless and less than others around them, when our self esteem is broken, is when the physical side of the abuse starts and the victim of the abuse see’s no way out of it.

Domestic Abuse is not just a problem within the sports world, it is a problem within our Society as some feed on the control of another Human, so these Individuals can think they have the power of control, the biggest reason a person who is a victim of the abuse doesn’t communicate to anybody, is the fact that they are afraid to admit to their weakness and the fact that their self esteem is so low, that they have no confidence in themselves to make their lives better.

The person who is doing the abusing, in most cases shows no true empathy or remorse, to their victims, which leads to the abuse spinning further out of control and a lot of times becoming very violent towards the victim, the Abuser only sees it as they themselves having all the control and the Abused sees themselves as maybe it is suppose to be like this, then becomes trapped in a world full of pain.

No matter how you look at Domestic Abuse, it is a big problem throughout Society and not just within the sports community and the players who play the sport, we as a Society need to take this more seriously, show more empathy and remorse of each other, so we can end all the abuse whether it’s domestic or any kind of abuse, abuse of any kind whether verbal through words, or physical in nature should not be tolerated in any way shape or form, the ones that do the abuse shouldn’t be locked up to protect the rest of us, as this will only make them abuse more, what they need is good serious treatment, so they can get to the bottom of why they do it and just maybe through this and the rest of us showing more empathy and remorse of each other, we all can walk our paths along our journey’s of life in peace, as we become stronger and better to face the real hurdles that may cross our paths.

” Abuse happens everyday to anybody, not just in the high profile world of sports and the players of the sport”

” Abuse is a weakness that to some, they think it brings them power over everything around them”

” Abuse is not just physical in nature, it is also from the words we say to each other everyday”