A Quote for the ages……….

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” You beat life by how you live, why you live, and in the manner in which you live”

Revised quote of the late Stuart Scott

By: Bowlingchef

 

This quote by the late Stuart Scott is such a great quote simply because, with just a quaint little change, you can have this quote mean something totally different than what it originally meant. We all walk a path through this journey of life, what most really lose sight of is, life is really what you make it if you make it hard then life will come down hard on you with each step, just as when you make life as simple as you like, then life will reward you with greatness and a path well walked.

Throughout this society of today, we get bombarded with messages, TV ads, voice mails, emails, junk mail, etc… All this can persuade you as well take away from you actually walking your path for you, with all the crap we may see throughout this society, all this may trick us as well into thinking that, the road to happiness might be paved with possessions or money,  all this may play with our esteem as well, like have us think we may need all the power or sex just so we can function in society? It may seem hard to resist these things as our esteem has been lowered and all for the wrong reasons, But God says our thinking should be shaped by his truth and not of all the crap that comes to us throughout this society. What the world calls valuable, God calls worthless, but in this society, we do not see it that way, only because we all have wandered too far away from the house of God.

Within this society of Political Correctness today, we can not even live as normal as we can any more, now we have to worry about offending someone even if what we are doing is correct. We can’t pray in public as our beliefs will let us, but those around us will not because they are offended of what you are doing if we speak the truth and those around us can’t handle the truth, now we are the ones getting scorn simply because they are too weak-minded, God forbid if we should fly the American flag on our property, like someone walking by will complain as this offends them, even though you had a family member be taken from you because they had fought for this great country. There are some that will try hard to put their stamp on this society within this journey, while they try to erase all the other stamps, simply because they are the only thing that matters? This is the true reality of this society and this is where we all have gone wrong, as we walk our paths through this journey of life.

When you get caught up in all the drama in this society, then your life will be full of drama as now you know nothing but drama and anything else just isn’t normal. when you let the offending of another bother you, now you will only be walking on eggshells along your path, as now your journey becomes one that is not true of who you are. Sometimes we need to accept the fact that we just may not leave our stamp on this life, not everybody gets that opportunity only a chosen few get that chance and there is nothing wrong with that fact. We need to understand that for this journey to be a success for us, we need to walk our paths through this journey, just simply being of who we truly are and not anything more, if we let ourselves be someone for who we are not, now we are not walking this journey for ourselves anymore and we ourselves do not even know who we are walking it for? This journey through life really is not that hard, it is each of us that make it harder than it really needs to be.

 

” Life is like a game and to be a success at the game, just be who you are without being someone you are not”

” With all the different quotes that have been created over time, this one is the best as you can change a couple words and have it mean a whole new meaning”

” Political Correctness has made us all weak, with the weak-minded becoming even weaker and more unstable”

” The drama should be kept to the theatre, as it has no place within a society or even within this journey through life”

 

 

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The Victims never get any respect

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Now I do not want to say the name of the person who took the cowards approach, to escaping justice, but as high profile as this case is, it is the Victim who once again relives the real pain and hurt, without anybody especially the far-left liberal media, even giving them the respect they deserve. I get the fact that this guy was very rich and surrounded himself with other rich and powerful types, so even as he took the cowards approach to true justice and once again spitting in the eyes of the Victims he created, there is somebody close to him  that knows something and that somebody, should be gone after with the fullest extent of the law. All his money and properties should be frozen and no one gets anything until all the real truth comes out, I would even go as far as taking all the properties he has and turning them into medical retreats, with real Psychology doctor’s, so the Victims can get the help they need, to heal from all the pain and hurt this ScumBag put them through.

There are many slippery slopes along the paths we walk throughout this journey of life, but the slippery slopes that a Victim has to endure can and will seem like, a very tall task to conquer so they can move forward with as little pain and suffering as they can. Nobody ever gives the Victim any respect, nor do they even care for the Victim, or they would simply create a better environment for the  Victim, instead of bringing out more drama making them hurt worse. With this high profile case and the Scumbag taking the easy way out, true we will hear all the conspiracy theories come out, but the true fact that he is dead and the Victims are still here living with real pain and hurt, totally means that yes, we need to get justice for the Victims, so instead of creating more ugliness around this Scumbag, then go after the next in line as there is somebody that knows of his heinous acts, so you then make them pay as a co-conspirator. Then as you actually hold someone accountable, now the Victim can actually start the process of healing and escaping the jaws of the real pain and hurt, that this coward has caused.

I get the fact that in this drama full society, it is all about the hate, the ugliness, and more drama, with all the Victims being put on the back burner, as their pain and hurt becomes unbearable, then forces the Victim to bury deeply within all their pain and hurt, so they can be portrayed as normal as they can? Now as these Scumbags usually have big amounts of money, so they can use it to keep getting away with their heinous acts, plus surround themselves with others with a padded bank account, as they all stay within their own circle and as their circle grows, the one thing they never talk about is the Victims they create. True they create many victims and also true that, as their circle grows, so does the circle of victims grow and all the Scumbags have not a care in the world for the victim, as they are getting what they want when they want.

With all the left media plastering this Scumbags face and name all over their publications, what is being totally lost among all this is, all the Victims that this and other scum bags have created, in the media eyes it is always the agenda of drama and never about the true facts of life, simply because the true facts don’t help the media live their plush and exotic lifestyles, but and maybe a huge BUT? some of the rich top media Execs just might have been in bed with this scumbag and his heinous acts, not too mention a lot of other rich and famous types as well. These Scum bags are nothing more than a Predator and what a Predator does is, it grooms it’s prey so they can do anything they want with their prey, for their own personal gain, true they will try to surround themselves with others of the same, so they can try to be as normal as they can be, never once will they look at their prey as a victim and never once, will they look in the mirror and see what they are truly looking at. Through all the heinous acts, through all the real pain and hurt, the one that always gets lost in the shuffle is the victim or the prey of the predator. It is also true that some victims can and will be a creator of victims also, as they become someone for who they truly are not, while they try to move forward hiding their own pain and hurt, yes this can be one big vicious circle and why we prey on each other, instead of sharing our love with each other, the one thing we all lose sight of while in this vicious circle is, the fact that the power of denial is front  and center around us. Denial will have us become someone we truly are not, as well as do things we would never do normally, you want to break the chains of this circle forever, then let’s freeze the assets of this high profile scumbag and use them so all the victims can get the help they deserve, to finally rid themselves of all the true pain and hurt they have gone through for so long.

 

” We have all been a victim of something, as it was not a fun time is the reason why we never remember being a victim”

” A victim never gets any respect, they are always hiding deep within themselves to escape all the real pain and hurt”

” Maybe if we change the agenda of the far-left media, just maybe the victims can heal with the right help from all the heinous actions”

” Let’s call a spade a spade here, all predators are scumbags, just as all scumbags are predators”

 

 

 

With Faith there will always be Hope

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” Blessed are those servants whom the master finds vigilant on his arrival, Amen, I say to you, he will gird himself, have them recline at table, and proceed to wait on them”.

LK 12:37

 

We all serve the Lord God, father of Jesus Christ who came here and walked his path through this journey of life. Jesus taught us on just how to walk our paths, so we all can see the light of the path of righteousness, he taught us how to truly feel his love that is within our hearts and souls, so we then can spread that love with each other. Jesus taught us how to resist temptation, as he himself confronted Satan and resisted his temptation of the dark side, Jesus taught us so much, but yet within this broken society of today, we not only take for granted these teachings, we have merely lost the true faith in ourselves let alone the faith in Jesus himself.

Faith is something that today is lost within the clouds of our judgments and when there is no faith, the hope then is with the faith as they both serve each other. Faith and Hope gives us all the confidence to move forward better and stronger, it is not about all the material things we may gather along with this journey, we can not take the material things with us as this journey comes to a close for us, with the faith and hope we simply do not need anything material, as faith will give us all we need moving forward. Through faith, we can do anything we want to do as we walk our paths, then through the faith, it will give us the hope that all that we do will help us succeed at all we do.

Jesus put all his faith in his father as he walked his path through this journey, with only the clothes on his back showing his love for everything around him, we to can do the same if only we showed the faith in Jesus or let alone, showed the faith in ourselves moving forward on our paths of this journey. Without the faith of ourselves then through all the chaos, ugliness and hatred, we will never have any hope moving forward for anything that may cross our paths. Faith and Hope are the two major components that are missing in this society, as you can see from all the ugliness and hatred all around us.

Faith in ourselves will have us tieing our shoes for the first time, the hope is being able to make that good knot for it not to untie on us, when we have a strong faith in ourselves then we can do anything, even climbing the highest mountain, so we then can be closer to Jesus to truly listen with all our hearts, the message he says to us, just that with no faith, we do not hear anything he may say. Jesus is always there whether we have faith or not, he will never leave us, even when we think he is not there, he is there just we have lost the faith, so we then do not feel him with all our heart, which leads us to have no hope moving forward on our paths through this journey of life.

 

” Faith and Hope go hand in hand, like two peas in a pod”

” With the faith in Jesus Christ, the faith in ourselves is easy, which leads to having the hope to do all we may do”

” We all serve God our Father as we then follow his son Jesus Christ, to walk with faith for the hope of all we do along this journey of life”

” With the faith in ourselves helps us with the faith in each other, giving us the hope to move forward with no sight of ugliness or hatred”

 

 

 

End the Ugliness, as we the people are our own worst Enemies.

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It is time for my little buddy to come out in front of us once again. This is Martin Richard, a young eight-year-old boy, who was vibrant and full of life. He was taken from this society, not just way too young, but he had a lot to look forward to as well. This quote from the little guy needs to go viral within this broken society, for those who may not know, Martin was tragically taken from us by the two Scum bag brothers, who decided to place two bombs at the Boston Marathon Bombings. This kind of ugliness has been happening all through the history of Mankind, but in recent years it really has gotten out of hand. We the people are our own worst enemies and we the people can end this ugliness as well.

There are many theories of the reasons for this ugliness, some may be right on, some may be a bit far fetched, but the one theory that some on the far left would want you to believe is, the guns are the problem and if we take them away, then the problem goes away? Here is a fact that you can put in your pipe and smoke it, ” it is not about the guns as it’s not the gun that kills someone, it is we the people that pull the trigger of the gun, killing each other along this journey”. Now, most of these Mass Shooter’s are young and nieve? So let’s think of this for a bit, with the way the gaming industry has evolved and how violent the games have become, plus with the fact that the far-left liberal media and their drama agendas, this younger generation are communicating online during the games, planning these attacks, then using the liberal media to display their sick acts, as each one tries to one-up the other? I hope I am wrong with this theory, but I just maybe a lot closer to the truth, than our so-called leaders are, while they bicker back and forth, point the finger at one another and blame the gun for the Heinous act of violence. We the people have become the pawns in the real-life version of chess, with those sick minded Individuals creating the rules of the game as they go, all while our so-called leaders go in the wrong direction, so they can think they are more powerful than the rest of us.

Over the course of many years and with many that have taken office within the walls of Washington DC by we the people with our votes, we are all to blame for the sudden spike in mass shootings. Those within the walls of Washington DC have a budget to adhere to and when they need to make cuts for their budgets, where is the first place they go to make the cuts? If you have guessed the Mental Health area………. Bingo!!! You are correct, there are a lot of state hospitals over the years that have either changed or closed the doors due to these cuts while leaving the patients on the outside without being properly medicated, or even worse maybe not even taking the meds, to begin with. In the case of the Sandy Hook shooter, the Mother tried to get him into a mental health facility for help but was turned away with a great amount of red tape to swim through, this is where we need to start to fix this issue in this society,  second would be a good idea to regulate the content of some of the violent video games out there, so the ones who are weak-minded, won’t be influenced easily to create these Heinous acts. Now I know we have a First Amendment and we all have freedom of speech, But!!! those within the far-left liberal media have taken this amendment and gone to a place, that creates way too much drama and they will stop at nothing to keep this their agenda, as this is how the top executives make their millions to live their plush exotic lifestyles, then as they take the spoken word and twist it into many different ways, while they create this thing called ” fake news”, which does nothing but create even more drama and having all the weak-minded, buying into this hook, line, and sinker.

Those Knuckleheads within Hollywood are the problem also as they live within their fake realities, they play a part within a movie and a lot of those movies are violent with a lot shooting things up, then the weak-minded who play their games and see these movies, want to act out for real what they see, while they use us innocent ones as their Pawns, not too mention the media glorifying these heinous acts with the air time they give it, you see where I am going with this? The problem is not the guns, the problem is we the people not taking responsibility for our actions, we also don’t hold each other or ourselves accountable, there is zero dignity and respect of each other, as we all have become so cold toward each other, that we simply do not care for one another as we once did. With this society of fast pace, we all want everything now and have zero patience to wait, we all think we have the answers, but yet this problem keeps getting worse? Sometimes when things go badly you quite simply go back to basics to fix what is needed to move forward better, well…………. maybe we all should take a step back, take a deep look at what is around us, take a real long hard look at what we are doing and how we are doing it, get back to truly loving ourselves, then we can love each other more naturally, show more dignity and respect of one another, as then the responsibility and accountability will follow right behind. This journey through life really is not that hard, but we the people are making it hard with all our actions, or should I say inactions? We all need to wake up out of the denial of life, get back to real reality and simply be who we truly are, just as Jesus taught us when he came and walked his journey here with us. We all walk a path through this journey of life, it is not about how you fall and everything about how you pick yourself up from the fall.

 

” We the people are our own worst enemy, we the people can fix this ugliness very easily”

” Quote by the late Martin Richard, ” No more hurting people……..peace” let these words go viral among us”

” Violence for some have zero effect, but for the weak-minded the effect on us all is great”

” We all need to step up to the plate and hit a grand slam home run for the good of all and end all this evil forever”

 

 

Take the time to stop and listen

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time………… No one takes the time for anything anymore, everything is rush and I want it now. Family dinners? Nope a thing of the past now, as people don’t take the time to sit and eat anymore, well okay they are sitting at the drive-thru in their cars at the local burger joint. Family dinners had a whole different meaning back in the day, it was time for the family to bond and come together, to help build that strong foundation moving forward, it’s the family bond that gives you the strength and confidence to enter into a society of many and be successful. You always had family to lean on when things got a bit rough, they guided you, they gave good advice and always gave their unconditional love without blinking an eye. The family never judged and always supported no matter the circumstance, without family our paths through this journey of life, would be a lot rougher to walk, with a lot more scrapes and bruises, giving us more pain and hurt.

The only time you see a family sitting together for their dinner is on the television show Blue Bloods, I love that show and I love the family dinners.  In this society of broken homes and broken families, it is sad that the family dinners are a thing of the past, simply because it is these dinners, that bring us together instead of dividing us. As much as these so-called Politicians point the fingers at each other and say that the other is dividing us, it is the fast-paced society, the no more family dinners, and the broken homes that are dividing us greatly today. The problems of this society belong totally on each one of us, we are the problem and we are the solution to fixing the divide in this society and all we need to do is, stop, take the time and listen to everything that is around us.

Our forefathers are turning in their graves at the way we are screwing up this society, they worked hard setting things up and writing of the Declaration of Independence, so we of today could have it easier, instead we would rather get rid of the things in the past, simply because we would rather have our five minutes of fame, instead of doing it correctly.  I would hate to grow up in the household of some of these Politicians, as the pressure would be unbearable, there would be no proper discussions, simply because they would always end in an argument, just watch the Democratic debates and they will show you nothing but arguments and the attacking of one another. Don’t know about you but our current President is more Presidential than any one of these knuckleheads.

Time is precious but yet no one takes the time anymore, we are all so much in a hurry, that we don’t even know why we are hurrying? We get into our vehicles and want to do a hundred instead of doing the speed limit, while we are speeding down the roads, we then proceed to chat or text on our devices, then wonder why we are off the road in an accident? Everything needs to be done now and nobody has the patience to take their time and do it correctly. While we are always in a rush, we all have forgotten to hold ourselves accountable for our actions, we take no responsibility for anything anymore and always point the finger of blame, even when we are the ones to blame. All these issues simply stem from the no more family dinners anymore, so not only to bond with those closest to us but build that strong foundation as we enter into a society of many, you think those in society that we do not truly know, really care for what we do? They could care less and would think nothing but to step all over you when you fall, as all this goes back to the no family dinners, for any of us to truly chat and have a good conversation, to not just chat, but too truly communicate properly with all those around you. We all walk a path through this journey of life and unless we do it correctly, the journey will be rough on us all, with no peace and happiness so we can simply stop, take the time and truly listen to all that is around us.

 

” When you take the time to listen and learn all that is around, you will notice things you normally would not notice”

” Family dinners are the key to all our happiness as we walk through this journey of life”

” Family is the strong bond that builds a strong foundation, so we can achieve all we can and be truly successful”

” Arguments don’t solve a thing, as a good discussion will help us all communicate better with each other”

 

 

Always look at everything, before you pass judgment moving forward.

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There is a lot more to this journey through life for instance, take this picture now you may see a body of water surrounded by a bunch of plant life, now really what is in this picture? Unless you go out and explore and learn of what you are exploring, you will never know what this picture truly is. Within this picture was once a very vibrant industry in the past history of America, just that now it is all grown in with plant life and hiding within plain sight. Back in the time of the 1800’s, this body of water was a slate quarry within the heart of the green mountains in Vermont, yes you can now guess what is hidden deep within the water, but is there anything else hidden not just within this picture, but hidden deep within the water? You never know what is in front of you, you never know what is hidden in plain sight, which makes it that much more important to, not judge anything or anyone, before you truly know of what it is you are looking at.

Within this society and especially within the two political parties within the United States of America, they are way too quick to judge all that is around them and they never look at what is right in front of them, but they will quickly call anybody a ” Racist” that goes against them or, simply do not see what they are looking at. The Republicans are no angels by any stretch, but the Democratic party are so far in denial, they have lost all sense of reality and can not see clearly, through the clouds of their judgments. Anybody that has common sense can see that the far left Liberal Democrats and all that they control, are a total mess and needs to be cleaned up, there are area’s within this country that the Democrats have control of, that some are being forced to become homeless and live in conditions, that quite simply, a Human should never live within, all because these Individuals are looking out for themselves and could care less of the ones within their territory. These far left liberals think they know what is best for the rest of us, but do they really? They all have their agendas and within their agendas, has nothing to do with anybody within the district they control.

You want to talk of agendas? the agendas of the far left liberal media needs to change in the worst way, they will do anything to spread even more drama among us. They will report on stories that do nothing but keep the drama, corruption, the ugliness and the hatred front and center in front of us all, if a story does not include drama and is a very good emotional story, the chances of the media reporting on it are slim to none and slim just left the building, they would rather keep to the ” fake news” narrative, which keeps the money rolling into their pockets, so they can all live their plush exotic lifestyles, you think they care for the rest of us? If you think they do, then you as well are living within a dream world and can not see clearly through the clouds of your judgments.

The far left liberal Democrats and the far left liberal media are working together to keep their agendas front and center among us, the time is now for us all to see right through their agendas, stop paying for the publications and stop giving them any time or, just simply ignoring their ideologies and giving our attentions, to ideologies that actually make sense and can actually work for the benefit of us all, so we can move forward on our paths of this journey through life, better and stronger, while we all live in the peace and happiness we all so deserve.

 

” Always look deeply into what you see, so the clouds within your judgments are clear seeing all the beauty in front of you”

” We all want power and control of everything, but you first need the power and control within, before you step outside the box of reality”

” Two political parties when working together are what is best for us all, but when they bang heads and let the power of denial take control, leads to all the corruption and ugliness we see around us today”

” Socialism never works, just look around you in the present day and look deep within the history of the world, to see more clearly on what it leads to”

 

 

Lift the clouds within the Society

” And I tell you, ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you”

LK 11:9

 

We all walk our own paths through this journey of life, we all come to think along the way that our way trumps another, but there is no set way, there is no magic to the journey, just us being ourselves, without being of someone for who we truly are not. This quote by Luke can be taken in many different ways like we who walk our paths, but the true message of the quote means the same as the journey we all walk together.

True that if you ask for something it still may never come, but when you ask in the right way and with the faith of what you are asking, plus with a little work on your part, then that something will come to you at some point along the journey. Sometimes we ask for the most outrageous things than ask why we didn’t get what we asked? We then take to resentment of all that is around us cause we didn’t get what we asked, we become bitter of everything and then the journey seems as if it is against us. This journey just does not cater to one, there are many who walk their paths through this journey of life.

In order to find what you are looking for, first you need to seek. When we grow into this society, we first start from young, with no clue of what we want, or of what we want to be? We spend some time and some longer than others, to truly find what we are seeking and it all starts with, truly finding of who we truly are. A lot of times there will be things that come to us, or someone else that bring us great harm and pain, then through that pain we become lost along our paths, with the clouds of our judgments not allowing us to see clearly, we then hide deep within ourselves to keep from feeling anything, especially the love of Jesus deep within our hearts, we go on for the longest time trying to hide in plain sight, that we then start to lose a big part of who we are, which then extends to a society of many and then the society, thinks this is how it should be? Then one day maybe from a AH HA moment, or a sudden tragedy, the clouds lift and we get a glimpse of what could be if only we just be who we truly are, then the journey begins as we see clearly of all we are seeking.

Sometimes when we go to a friends house and knock on the door, there is no answer so we leave until the next time we knock, we don’t think twice when our friend is not home, we just think that okay……. he went out for a bit I will come back later. Now as we walk our paths through this journey of life and an opportunity knocks on our door, we go in the other direction, simply because we are afraid of the unknown, that opportunity only comes once and may never knock again? When opportunity comes knocking, you have to open the door to explore and see with clarity of what it is, but when you are hiding within and not seeing clearly through the clouds of your judgments, then you will never see any opportunity, let alone even hear the knock to open the door.

We all walk a path through this journey of life, the paths may be different, but the journey is all the same, we have all taken the difference of our paths to a new level within this society, to a level that we do not even help each other anymore, we are letting other things control us, instead of we taking full control of ourselves and doing what is right not just for ourselves, but for each other as well. We pass each other on the street and we can not even lift our heads out of our devices, to even say a simple hello anymore, we have become so into ourselves, that we can not see clearly enough through the clouds of our judgments, to even make good judgments of anything anymore. True there are clouds in the sky and these clouds can also bring foul weather and storms, it is also true that the clouds within us, that has us not seeing clearly along the journey, can also bring to us great storms, with great pain and harm as well, but as the clouds in the sky are out of our control, the clouds within us are very much within our control, we just have to get through the pain and hurt, truly heal ourselves, so we than can be of truly who we are, truly feel the love of Jesus Christ within our hearts, then spread this love with each other, so as we move forward on our paths, this journey can be full of peace and happiness for us all always.

 

” The clouds in the sky we may not control, the clouds within ourselves we can truly control to see more clearly”

” You need to seek to be able to find, but you need to see clearly to find of what you truly are looking for”

” We start this journey very young not knowing what we truly want, so we then search to truly find what we want to move forward of this journey”

” There are many doors throughout this journey, unless we knock we may never find the right door, let alone the right door to open keeping us moving forward”

 

 

A Society of zero Accountability equals a Society down a slippery slope……..

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Accountability first and for most starts with each one of us holding ourselves accountable for our own actions, before we can even think of holding each other accountable. Right now within this society there is way too much finger pointing and not enough holding ourselves accountable for our own actions. Yes it is very true that because we are Human, we do make mistakes from time to time, but when we do not hold ourselves accountable for those mistakes, then the mistakes get bigger, instead of correcting them and keeping them at a minimum. When we do not own up to our mistakes and point the finger towards another, then the mistakes will compound, not only turning them into something bigger than they have to be, but then the pain from the mistakes will hurt us all deeply, which then keeps us from the solution of being held accountable for our actions and keeping the pain from truly hurting us very deeply.

This picture was once a very vibrant slate quarry, that produced a huge amount of slate, back within the 1800’s, now I get the fact that there is always change that will come into our lives, but when change comes to an industry so vibrant for some other that just may not fill the void, then why change that? Now this quarry is sitting dormant for all these years, with all the fresh growth of Mother Nature all around it, covering what was once open and full of life. Just maybe there are a lot of hidden truths hidden deep within all the fresh growths, just maybe that they to back then went through their non accountability days and now look at what has happened? It seems funny that we all think we have the solutions for everything, but yet look at all the ugliness, the hatred and the crap that is all around us everyday, with none of us truly taking any accountability for our own actions.

There are some who are making it their mission to strip us of all the past, but seriously you need to look back at what was, in order to move forward better and stronger, you learn from your mistakes to be better, well the same goes from one society to another and when you learn from the mistakes of an earlier society, than just maybe a lot of this ugliness and hatred will go away? We the people of this society are the biggest problem within this society and when we do not hold ourselves accountable for our own actions, it then snowballs to the rest of us within this society and becomes bigger than it has to be.

You than have some that will take it upon themselves to control everything around them and will do anything for that control. They do things to others they know is wrong, but will rationalize away the accountability of their actions, just so they can seem to themselves as the most powerful over all? Meanwhile the ones that they take control of, have now become a victim of their control and with that victimization comes, a very deep pain and hurt, which the person in control who takes no responsibility or accountability of their actions, keeps doing as they are only because they think they are doing nothing wrong, then the powers of denial take over and when denial comes into play, then any responsibility and accountability become lost deep within the souls of us all.

This society is so driven to have all the power of each other, that all the responsibility and the accountability are lost deep within our souls and when you look deeply into each others eyes, you will clearly see that the denial has taken over, leaving us all deep within trying to escape the power of the denial. When denial has it’s grasp on us so tightly, we then lose sight of all true reality, we will never admit to this fact only because we do not want to admit to our faults, this is exactly why we are in a this broken society of, no responsibility and no accountability. Yes there is a way out of this and it will take each one of us being on the same page, we need to get over our own arrogance and truly look deep within our hearts and souls, find that the love of Jesus Christ is always there, just that we have never acknowledged his love. When we acknowledge his love and our hearts and souls are full of it, we then feel this warmth within us, that we than share with each other. It is a lot easier to share this love, than to share all the hatred and the ugliness we have been sharing. With the love of Jesus Christ warming our hearts and souls, we will then find that true peace we have always been looking for. True peace is never within the world of no responsibility or accountability, the only thing that comes from that world is the pain and hurt that hurts us so deeply.

Life within this society could be a whole lot easier if only we all did it correctly, instead of trying to control everything and everybody we can. We are all equal in the eyes of Jesus Christ, the only thing different is that we are all unique to each other. I don’t know about you, but I am sick and tired of people in this society that keep playing the race card? This is one of the uniqueness we bring to each other, but some will try to step on the toes of another, just so they can come across as more powerful than another? We need to stop trying to attack one another and start seeing each other as Jesus see’s us and that is, we are more equal than we think, when we do this we will find that the love of Jesus Christ will flow like water, out of each one of us, as we all move forward and walk our paths through this journey of life.

 

” Responsibility and accountability goes hand and hand with each other, like peas in a pod”

” Accountability starts with ourselves then bleeds to each other within this society”

” To rationalize and deny, is what leads to no responsibility or accountability and all the ugliness and hatred around us”

” Power and control when achieved in the wrong way, will always come with much pain and hurt to us all”

 

Standing Alone……

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Within this society of today and with the all the social media platforms, most may think having the most followers might make you better than the rest? Just because you get a lot of likes of your status on a platform really does not mean, others care who you are, what people tend to forget is, you are posting a status from behind the screen of your device and it is very easy to portray strength or be someone you really are not. Since the creation of Facebook and Twitter, we all have totally forgotten of who we are, instead we post a status that makes us out to be better than the rest, we hide behind our devices and use them as a crutch, to keep from simply being ourselves, only because for some reason, we totally think we have to put forth this fake identity in order for others to accept us.

Nobody knows how to stand on their own anymore, as all the real ” Social” interaction is gone from this society today. Without real interaction, we simply can not heal in a healthy way from what has hurt us with real pain. Somewhere along this journey through life we all have been hurt with real pain, whether that hurt comes self inflicted, or whether that hurt comes from another around us? The pain still hurts, but we can not truly heal on our own and yes, we do need interaction of others to help us heal in a healthy way.

Now don’t get me wrong The social media platforms can be good when used in the proper way, family members who move away we can still stay in touch like they are still right here with us. Friends we have found in school or college and when those days end, we all go our separate ways, well now we can still stay in touch, for one day when we plan a get together or reunite, to catch up and keep the friendship alive. Throughout this society and with all the drama already within it, these platforms just simply bring even more drama, with some of the ridiculous posts some may place on their status? Most of the posts out their do not even come close to being true, as we have lost that part of the journey and we do not know how to be true, not just to ourselves, but to one another.

What’s in a status you say? Really nothing as being in front of the one you want to chat with, goes a heck of a longer way than what any status can say. Respect and Dignity are gone from this society only because we do not truly interact with each other face to face, It is the true face to face interactions that makes us better and stronger moving forward, between the fake interactions and the posting to a status, we have created this political correctness, which now we become easily offended and the thick skin we used to have is gone, leaving behind all the scars from what brings us pain and hurt, so now we all have become weak and damaged and will do whatever we can to protect ourselves, like hiding deep within just to minimize the pain.

Within today’s society and all the so called friends on our platforms, we really have become a lonely society, lonely because some do not have that one true friend to confide in and vice versa, when the going gets tough, when we talk deeply of ourselves that is when the true healing starts and within all these platforms and the hiding behind a device, this keeps us from being as open as we should, so we than can truly heal ourselves from all the pain and hurt.  In order to be stronger and better as we walk our paths through this journey of life, we always need that face to face interaction, so we than can heal as healthy as we can from whatever keeps us down, hiding behind a device teaches us nothing, the only thing the device may teach us is, make our typing skills that much better, but other than that it really does nothing for us. We can’t even walk within society today without the device in our hands, nor even drive our cars with the device glued to our ears, when we walk down the street we don’t even know where we are going half the time, as we walk with our heads down within our device, instead of looking at where we are going, some have become so addicted to the device, that they can not put it down even for a second. The sad part is, we can change this if we wanted, but these devices have become so convenient, that we do not want to change anything and just keep walking our paths through this journey of life, the way we want so we can keep this fake reality in front of us, so we can hide behind it to keep the pain and hurt hidden deep within ourselves.

 

” Standing alone comes true peace and strength, without hiding behind any device”

” When you stand tall on your own two feet with no crutch, you will always move forward better and stronger”

” A status is nothing really except a bunch of make believe on a platform”

” Social media can be a good thing when used correctly, but like everything touched by man, it has become old and worn out as also we have become the same way”

Living the Dream………….

” Living the Dream”? What exactly does this mean? I have been hearing this a lot lately, now I know this saying has been around probably for as long as Mankind? But seriously what exactly does it mean, especially when we all have different dreams from each other.

For me living the dream would be on my own little Island with all I need and away from all the chaos, ugliness and hatred, that is within this society of today. Maybe for someone else it might be, being free to do whatever they want to do and whenever they want to do it, just maybe someones dream would be like the American Dream? Which consists of, a house, a white picket fence, a family and a pet, now what most take for granted is, they both still are a dream and we all dream differently, with no two dreams being alike.

Do dreams really come true? Well……………… The jury is still out deliberating on this one, only because everything that comes to us, is there for a reason, everything that happens to us happens for a reason, it is just that we have to find that reason, so we than can move forward on our paths of this journey, better and stronger than ever before. It’s the reason part that we take for granted and most of us, never truly understand this part, so we usually skip this this and move on to the next part of the journey, which then has us all never finding any kind of reason for anything at all. As we walk through this journey. People and things come across our paths, they all have a reason for crossing our paths and will just never…. Just happen, for instance………… Someone wins big on a lottery scratch ticket, this doesn’t happen just because you picked the right ticket, it happened for a reason and it’s up to you to find that reason, so you than can truly understand the phrase of ” Living the Dream”.

True that living the dream is a form of reality for us all with different outcomes for each of us, so now the next time someone says to you ” hey how are you doing”, you can respond in a different way with the same words of living the dream, as now you actually mean what you say, with a true reasoning for whatever dream you are living.

Most dreams usually happen at night while we are sleeping and when we wake, we usually do not remember what we dreamt of while we slept, so as we say to each other the words of, ” living the dream”, how can we actually live a dream if we are awake within reality? With a dream we either do not remember, or it is something fictitious that never really happens. I think maybe we all get so caught up within our own little worlds, with these worlds becoming our own little safe havens, that we then look at them kind of like being on our own little islands, as we try to escape all the ugliness and hatred that is around us today? We can day dream of something, but mostly of what a day dream is, we are escaping the ugliness of what is around us at the present time, either way we look at what a dream is, it is still something fictitious, so we than can escape whether for a short time, the reality of our paths we walk, through this journey of life.

” Living the dream is something we say to each other as it is only a fictitious reality and not true reality”

” Some may be fortunate enough to actually remember their nightly dreams, as most do not, a dream is still just a dream and not true reality”

” A day dream is our way of escaping our realities even just for a short time”

” Everything that comes to us and happens to us there is a reason for it, it then lies on us to find that reason so we can understand better our realities as we walk our paths through this journey of life”