True peace comes from strength, not weakness………… and never stand down

North Korean leader Kim Jong-un with U.S. President Donald Trump during their historic U.S.-DPRK summit at the Capella Hotel on Sentosa island on June 12 in Singapore.

 

Last night our time here in the United States, there was History being made, by two Leaders coming together for the good of all, throughout this journey of life. Now it looked very unlikely that either one would of even been seen together about three months ago? But here we are, the shaking of the hands, the signing of an agreement and the two of them smiling together, like they have known each other for some time.

To be totally honest with you, my portrayal of Kim was not that good, from all that the so called media have portrayed, simply because the agenda of the media is too create drama and without that, then they would have nothing as their base, so they can rob us all of our money, while we completely buy into their so called theories. President Trump is 100% correct in that, when you are a complete people person and can read others properly, then you can tell within the first minute, whether the person you are reading into, is a good person, or a person to quite simply walk away from. President Trump from the time of his Businessman days, made many deals, that came from the reading of another properly, which gave him the option to either deal with the person, or walk away from the table completely.

Now obviously President Trump has seen good in his counter part the Leader of North Korea, or he would of walked away? Not everybody is a bad person, as a lot of the bad we see, comes directly from the media, so they can then proceed with their agenda of creating the drama that is all around us today. You can basically look at the media as a Bully and to prove this theory, just look at how the Photographers and the Reporters act, when they are trying to get a story, they are like Vultures going after their pray when they want to feed, which is why they call the media circus a feeding frenzy, just to get a scoop, to bring more drama to the rest of us.

This Summit in Singapore is only the first step of many, in bringing World Peace to us all. who walk a path through this journey of life. sometimes the first step in anything is a small step, but when does President Trump do anything small? This was a giant step and a way to show the World, that yes we can come together and establish unity for the common good, we can come together as one, no matter of who you are? We can come together as one and show true strength, to defeat all the bad, leaving us all with true joy and peace, as we walk our paths of this journey through life.

This Summit was nothing but good for the whole World, so we all can move forward in true peace, move forward sharing our love of God within us, with each other, so all the hatred and the ugliness can finally end, The hatred and the ugliness is not of who we truly are, what we truly are is the love, compassion and the empathy, that is deep within our hearts and souls.

When we let a Bully control our true selves, in this case the media is the Bully, who controls everything about us, by spreading all the half truths, the drama and all the hate, so they then can move forward with robbing us of our hard earned money, plus the spreading of all the hate and evil, making it hard to keep a hold of any good. What we tend to forget of while the Bully is tormenting us is, the simple fact that they can’t hurt anything when we come together as one, when we unite as one, now we have grown our strength, which then drives out the weak, which all the hatred and the evil pray upon, throughout this journey of life.

 

” This summit between the President of the United States and the Leader of North Korea was so good on so many levels, we all will find out just how good in all our future’s”

” When you stand up with confidence, never back down, always show strength and not weakness, unite as one one with each other, then the peace of Jesus Christ will be with you always, bringing joy to all around you”

” History was made right before your eyes last night at the summit, but only when you look deeply into what you have seen, you will truly see just what piece of the history it was”

”  When we walk our paths of this journey correctly and as Jesus taught us when he walked his journey here with us, we shall always be within the joy and the peace that is always around us with each step”

” A Bully will always try to control you when you show weakness, when you show strength by standing up to the Bully, now the Bully disappears with all his hatred and evil”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The longest day……… 6/6/1944

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The water’s are calm now, but back over 70 years ago, we owe a huge debt to the men and woman, who fought the good fight, with many not making it past that day. These men and woman should never be forgotten, as if it weren’t for them, we of this Society may not be free to roam as we do today? This country just might of been a bit different today if it wasn’t for these brave hero’s of that time. These men and woman didn’t ask for this fight, but yet they showed up and fought the good fight, simply because it was the right thing to do, for all who walk a path through this journey of life, on the soil of the great country called, the United States of America.

The men and woman of our Armed Services sign up and become trained to help keep America great, they may not receive big money unlike those within the world of sports today, but these men and woman most definitely earned every penny they earn. The actions of our men and woman of the military goes without saying, as the actions of some of the men and woman within the world of sports………….. Well let’s just say, could be a bit more respectful for the ones who fought the good fight, so they can earn the big bucks, playing a game that they love. These men and woman of our Armed services just do not get enough respect for what they do, or have done, some go off away from their families for long stretches of time and some either don’t make it back, or come back back within a casket, or even worse……….. Missing parts of their bodies. While those within the world of sports cry over a hang nail, or whine over an official making a bad call, really!!! We of this Society are to blame for this, simply because we have lost our way along this journey and have mislabeled our priorities, from what we think is important, to what should be important.

We of this Society have changed so much compared to the Society back some 70+ years and a lot of ways, we have changed for the worse, taking big steps backwards, instead of moving forward, like those of our military’s past, present and future. The most political of all the wars……… Vietnam, these men and woman went and fought the good fight, even though they may not have agreed with the decisions of them being there, but yet still fought bravely, then they came back to American soil and are treated like low class citizens and some even being homeless, with no place to sleep or eat like those of us today within our homes, only shows just how screwed up we have become, while we live our lives today.

These men and woman of our military and how they get trained, are so disciplined, they think nothing of going to battle, so we can be free to roam and live our exotic lifestyles, we owe them a great deal of gratitude, but how do we pay them back? By some within the world of sports taking a knee, instead of standing tall and proud, showing great respect for them, as our countries National Anthem is being played before each sporting event. Those within the the world of sports just might not be playing for the big money that they get, if it wasn’t for these brave men and woman, these are the real Hero’s and not, the ones within the world of sports.

Respect is a two way street and there is no sign that reads ” one way” on any of the streets of Respect, those within our military don’t join to get our Respect, but with their actions they earn our Respect in many ways. While those within the world of sports think that they deserve our Respect, even without doing a dam thing, or worse, doing things that are just plain and simply stupid and uncalled for. Those within the world of sports think, that because they get paid big bucks, that they are better than the rest of us? They think that because of their big money, they can use their playing fields as a platform to Preach to the rest of us? I got a news flash for all you within the sports world, you are an employee of the game you play, just like the rest of us are an employee of the company for which we work our jobs. While you are an employee you have to abide by the rules and regulations of that company,  we all have to answer to somebody and there is no other way around it. Now you can have your opinion yes, we all have our opinions, but never forget that we all have the right to our opinions and no one can take that from us, no matter of who you are.

Those within the world of sports think that it is their right to go visit the President after they have won a championship in the sport they play? I have another news flash for you, going to visit the President is not your right, it is a privilege and an Honor, if you think other wise, then you need to rethink your way of thinking. Now you within the sports world may not like the President for whatever reason, just as many of us have our likes and dislikes, but to disrespect a sitting President, is just as bad as, disrespecting our men and woman of our armed services, as you take a knee, during the playing of this countries national Anthem, maybe we all within this country should boycott the sport you play, so you then lose that big paycheck, leaving you with no platform for which to speak? We all walk a path through this journey of life, when we walk it correctly without stepping upon another’s shine, this journey will reward us with great things, it will bring us each much respect even when we don’t go looking for it, but when we preach to other’s and demand their respect, now your looking at a journey that becomes very rough, that can bring much pain and hurt, for which will affect us all and keep us from enjoying true peace and happiness throughout the journey.

 

” America’s military are the real true Hero’s within this country and should have all our Respect for what they do for us”

” The water is calm compared to the day of 6/6/1944, but these men and woman of this day have earned our Respect now and forever”

” Sports and politics do not mix, now get back to playing the game that you get paid greatly to play”

” Those within our military may not get paid big money for what they do, but their actions get rewarded with our respect”

 

 

 

 

 

A Society in the clouds…….

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There is so much true beauty out there but the problem is, we of this Society can not see it, only because the clouds have become so dense around us and has also leaked into our judgments, leaving us with tunnel vision and not truly seeing all the true beauty around us.

The Corruption, the Ugliness, the Senseless shootings, the simple fact that we have forgotten how to use our Common Sense and the big one………. The way that the Political Correction has made us all weak. With the Corruption all around us, especially within the walls of all the Governments, state and federal combined, has each one of us not knowing of who to trust anymore, the election of Donald Trump to President of the United States, has some of us so much in an up roar, that they refuse to do anything that is in the best interest of the people of this country, in fact……… They have turned this country into the laughing stock of the World. The people voted President Trump in, but yet our other elected officials refuse to work with him and will do anything, to try to take him down. President Trump is a man that shoots from the hip and is not afraid to call you out on your non actions, true he is a bit rough around the edges with his words, but that is what being non political correct is like. There is a great quote from the movie A Few good men, ” you can’t handle the truth”, this is exactly how those on the left feel, as President Trump speaks truth to them everyday. Just because you did not vote for President Trump, is no excuse to show him zero respect, in fact he is now a sitting President and for this country to be truly great, we all need to show him the respect he deserves, as he is doing the job he said and all for we the people of this country.

The ugliness around us today is the fault of all of us within this Society, as we totally let these media types put forth their agendas everywhere we go and look. Their agendas is all about drama and only printing parts of a story that creates more drama, instead of printing the whole story and not just the whole story, but the true facts of all the half stories they feed us. The media is so focused on trying to bring down our President, that they can’t even do their jobs correctly anymore, the real stories are the ones that the media leaves out, as the fake news are the half stories they feed us daily. The real information of these stories that get left out are there within the information super highway, just that you need to know of which avenue to travel down to get it, which those that found the real information, are the ones that put President Trump in the big office at, 1600 Pennsylvania avenue.

The senseless shootings is nothing about gun control, as it is a direct narrative from all the hatred that is around us today and the true fact of, we the people are so afraid to truly express ourselves because of this political correction, that we hold so much deep inside ourselves, that it is a matter of time before the ticking time bomb explodes right before us, with all the shootings going on before us, only shows just how deeply each of us are truly hurting deep inside, as the fuses of the ticking time bombs are at the point of ignition all around us. The way we end this hatred and the senseless shootings is, to completely put our faith in Jesus Christ, so he can help us have complete faith in ourselves, to bring out our true love and empathy that is deep within us, instead of this unwanted hatred we are bringing out now. Nobody wants to see a school of innocence get shot up with some dying, so let us all unite together, put our complete faith in Jesus Christ, so he can help us all end the hate, bring out our love and empathy within us, so we can move forward by loving one another, as we walk our paths of this journey, in peace and happiness.

Common sense is not too common within our Society anymore, simply because it is hard to see through the clouds of our judgments, bringing back common sense to our Society is an easy fix, a matter of fact it is so easy that, because of the clouds we just don’t see it right in front of us. when we use our common sense then everything else around us, will fall in place, so we than can move forward with confidence, without being afraid of what might happen? Plus!!! If we use our common sense, than just maybe all the political correction will make us feel so uncomfortable, that it will fall from our existence and we all will become better and stronger moving forward.

Whether you are within a Government, or you are just a person within this Society, we are all Human Beings that are walking a path through this journey of life, if we all work together, share the love of Jesus Christ within our hearts and souls, then all this corruption, ugliness, hatred, attacking of one another, senseless shootings and the political correction will all disappear, as we then bring back our common sense, to help one another, instead of being divided from each other. The time is now for us all to unite as one, work together in ending all the ugliness, so we than can move forward in the peace and happiness we all so deserve.

 

”  The society in the clouds can become sunny and clear once again, as we all unite as one and share our love with each other throughout this journey”

” in the eyes of God, there is no one that is above anybody, as we are all equal no matter of who you are”

” Common sense can once again become common, if we work together without becoming so divided”

” Time we all except the truth, except constructive criticism, so we than can end this political correction that controls us now”

” Let’s remember that the senseless shootings around us, is a direct narrative from all the hatred around us and is nothing about gun control”

 

 

 

 

 

An Anniversary of Good versus Evil

 

 

 

” May the sun always shine on the Boston Marathon, the sun showing good with no evil present”

 

Despite the weather, this day of the Boston marathon will always be more than just a competition of running. Five years ago two Brothers decided to bring hatred and evil to all that were at the marathon, but quickly found out that, no matter how planned out you thought you were, the good will always win out over any evil. You hear more about the different charities a lot of runners are running for, yes all the runners start out with the same goal and that is to cross the now famous finish line of the Boston Marathon. Some may not finish as their bodies become overwhelmed with exhaustion, some may feel the true warmth of God’s love no matter how cold the weather, when a fellow runner stops and either helps or carries them across the finish line and yes, the true competition may be in the front of the pack, with the ones who want to finish first, but the real competition starts from the middle to the end of the pack, with all the love and empathy showed of each other, not too mention all the charities being run for.

Five years ago there was very ugly tragedy at the finish line of the Boston Marathon but through that tragedy, there has been so much good that has come from it, that it just fills your heart with the warmth of God’s love and willing to share that love with each other. We the people need so badly to realize that, we don’t need evil to find the love, simply because the love is within us all and all we need to do is, just reach down deep within ourselves and truly feel the warmth of the love, then share it with our good and thoughtful actions, instead of letting evil turn us into someone we truly are not.

With the ones who perished five years ago at the marathon, especially one eight year old boy named Martin Richards, who was full of life and with his sign that read, ” no more hurting people…………. Peace” we will never find out, of just how much good could of come from this young innocent boy? Those who perished and those who survived the terrible tragedy, are now victims from the terrible day and that will never change throughout their lives, they can either let the victimization stew within their thoughts throughout the rest of their journey’s, or they can move forwarded better and stronger, by who they truly are from such a terrible tragedy, showing nothing but good and a smile everyday, as they walk their paths throughout this journey of life.

All versions of the media want nothing more than to hold onto all the ugliness and the hatred, as this is what makes them money and keep s them creating all the drama around us, simply because it is their agenda and they don’t want to waiver from it, what the media tends to forget is, they are not as powerful as they think? The real power belongs to us the people, as we are the ones that can turn them off and ignore all that they are about. The problem now is, we have forgotten how to turn them off and we have become too addicted to all the drama around us today. Only if we get back to truly of who we are, then and only then, will we the people not only control who we are, but we then will take back control, of what the media has taken from us, with all their agendas and their fake news/ drama. Let’s get back to looking at events like the Boston marathon with the eyes of good, so then there will be no room at the Inn for any evil of any kind,

It’s too bad that we within this Society think that we need tragedies to see any good, we also make fun of others pains, just to forget our own pain, it doesn’t have to be this way, only if we had more faith in ourselves and in Jesus Christ, if only we made more trips to the house of God, then just maybe all the good will flow from each of us, with no sight of any evil anywhere within our futures. Our destiny’s are not about any evil, our true destiny’s starts within ourselves, as we truly feel the love of God within us and as that love warms us, then we can share that love with each other, instead of showing hatred or attacking one another with much ugliness. We all walk a path through this journey of life, we all start out the same at the beginning, as well as finish the journey the same as well, but what lies within the middle of the journey, lies completely within ourselves and the actions we take and bring to each other. The good versus evil talk lies completely within ourselves and until we get over ourselves and realize this, then we will always have evil to get around, on all our paths of this journey.

 

” The good will always win out over evil, we just have to have complete faith in ourselves as well as in Jesus Christ”

” When you look deeply into what you see, you can clearly see the good with no evil in sight”

” Five years since the terrible tragedy at the Boston marathon, shows just how good always wins over any evil”

” it’s the media that keeps the drama of the tragedies alive with their agendas, time to see clearly through the drama at the reality of our paths through the journey”

 

 

 

 

 

 

Peace for the World…….Peace within the World

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With another Lenten journey upon us, time for my little friend……… Martin Richards, to once again make an appearance. ” No more hurting people………Peace”, this is a great quote by an eight year old boy, that was taken from our Society way too soon and in a way at the Boston Marathon bombing, that was totally an act of two Sick Demented Cowards.

Really!!! Do we need this amount of hatred that is around us today? We all tend to forget that, hatred is learned and takes great amounts of work to keep it going, while Love is deep within the hearts and souls of us all and really needs no work at all to spread among us all. School shootings, ISIS, the fact that we are way too negative of each other and now more recently, placing bombs in packages, like what is happening in Texas right now. COME ON PEOPLE!!! TIME TO WAKE UP!!! Before we ourselves destroy each other and this planet Earth, becomes nothing but desert land with nothing around.

We all hurt real pain in many ways and at different times within our lives, as we walk our paths through this journey of life. Sometimes the hurt is brought on by we ourselves and sometimes by others, who bring us this pain, just to hide deeply their pain and hurt. The only way to truly fix ourselves of our pain and hurt is to, address it, keep asking ourselves why over and over, til we actually get a truthful answer, but even more so, we totally need to simply accept our faults, accept responsibility for our actions and truly, accept of who we are, so we than can get back in touch with our true inner feelings of, Empathy and Love.

Empathy and Love are within the hearts and souls of us all, with the pain and hurt that comes to us, we then have the tendency to bury very deeply these two feelings, like they are not even there? Then as we do this, we learn from others around us, of how to hate and be very negative of each other, We are so afraid of what others will think of us, that we then become someone for who we truly are not. God did not creates us to be hateful or attack one another, this is on each of us as people, who walk a path through this journey of life. Responsibility of our actions goes a long way as we walk our paths and when we are responsible, we than can earn each others respect, which will further us in, walking this journey in the peace and happiness, that God envisioned, when he created us all.

It is totally okay for us to cry when we hurt with real pain, just as it is totally okay for us to, reach out when we need a helping hand, this is what helps us fix what we need to fix, so we can move forward and not backwards throughout this journey.  There is a great quote from the movie Forest Gump, ” Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know of what you’ll get”, So is this journey through life like the box of chocolates, as there are many paths to travel through the journey, you never know of what is waiting around each corner, we just have to stay true to ourselves, truly feel the love and empathy within our hearts and souls, so we than can move forward better and stronger, as the peace and happiness surrounds us, with no sign of any hatred. Then we can be in true peace, as God envisioned and Jesus taught us, when he came to us and walked his path with us, though this journey of life.

 

” Peace on Earth will eliminate and unlearn all the hate we have learned”

” The love along this Lenten journey, is our true love deep within our hearts and souls”

” Hate is learned and love is within each of us, keep saying it to ourselves, so we can truly feel the love within us”

” Pain and hurt will come to each of us at sometime, we just have to learn how to address and fix it to be better and stronger”

 

 

 

 

 

An uncharted beach for true relaxation

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I am the Rocky shore of a beach along a pond, right smack in the middle of no where. I am a place to go when you want true peace and serenity, when everybody else goes to the crowded beach along the shore of an ocean. where you have to worry more of being ripped off, than getting truly relaxed, I am the place to go to truly get away and truly enter into the doors of true peace and serenity, where part of the beauty I hold is listening to the Maine state bird the Loon, sing their music and chat back and forth along the water of the pond, or maybe a Moose walking along the beach and coming to the water for it’s daily splash. This is all about being one with Nature, enjoying all of it’s beauty with no interruptions, so you than can totally relax your mind, body and soul, which cures you from the daily grind full of nothing but chaos and stress.

Simply set up your comfy camp chair along my rocky surface, no radio’s or cellphone needed, just sit there look out deeply into the blue water, where it meets the horizon and the sky, let it hypnotize you into true peace and serenity, while you hear nothing but the true sounds of Nature and what is around at this time? Now you are entering into not a twilight zone, but a zone that is within true reality, that will transform you, that will lift those heavy weights from your shoulders, that will cleanse you from all the crap, so you than can totally relax and unwind from the daily grind, which will then help you walk your path of this journey, within the peace and serenity you long for.

Those deep colored blue clouds above, yes they look a bit thunderous?  But as you look deeply into them with no worry of what they may hold, you can clearly see not just of which direction they are traveling, but just how fast they are traveling over head. This helps in determining whether you need to duck under the shelter, or just stay put and keep enjoying the true beauty around you. As you look deeply into the clouds above, you notice the rays of the sun leaking in between the cracks of the clouds, as well as all the different formations of the clouds, then you see it!!! You see that one shape or that one formation, that you never see, because you really never before look that deeply into anything before, this is what happens when you clear yourself of all the crap, become one with your surroundings and let the good overwhelm the evil within you.

You see that thickly green Forest on the other shore across from you, When you look deeply into the other side, you just may see another of God’s creatures come to you, you stare across at the thick Forest and wonder what lurks deep within it? Now as you stare within the thick Forest, what you don’t realize at the time is, all the crap and stress within you is leaving, as you now focus on something intriguing. You then notice that the water before you is getting a bit rough, with the white tops of the waves, but still no concern for alarm, as you are so hypnotized of your surroundings and are so relaxed, you really don’t care of what may come, because your thoughts have become consumed by more positive then negative, which then has you in a space that you do not want to leave. The beauty of the Rocky shore within that uncharted beach, where only a few may have traveled to and with those few, they are the ones that have found the true beauty within all the paths, of this journey through life.

 

” That uncharted rocky beach may look rough at first sight, but look deeply into what you see and truly see all the beauty within it”

” Look deeply into this picture and truly see the true colors of this journey through life”

” When you transform yourself and be who you truly are, then all the weights from this ugly society will be lifted helping you see the good society within it”

” No radio’s or cellphones required in order to see all the true beauty that is around you”

 

 

Have the Faith to Renew without Denial

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” Lent is a fitting time for self Denial, we would do well to ask ourselves what we can give up in order to help and enrich others by our own poverty, let us not forget that real poverty hurts: No self denial is real without this dimension of Penance”.

*** Pope Francis***

 

Pope Francis is simply trying to pull us all together, so we than can move forward within the peace of God, without the ugliness of this Society. We will never be renewed on this journey of Lent, if at first we don’t have the complete Faith, of not just ourselves but within Jesus Christ as well.

We all in this Society are in total Denial, as we can’t even take responsibility for either our actions, nor our inaction’s.  We walk our paths as if we are better then all those around us, we think we are always right even when we are wrong? God didn’t teach us the error of our ways, nor did his son Jesus Christ, when he came and walked this journey with us. We have become so consumed with all the drama and the ugliness, that we have totally forgotten of  “just how to walk within the shadow of our path  in the light of this journey through life.

There is so much negativity all around us, that we have to scramble in order to find anything positive anymore. With all the technology everywhere around us, especially as we sit and become consumed with the game within the computer, not only have we let these computer games control us, but we have let them become addicted, to  the addictive personality within us. The other part of this technology and all the social media platforms out there are, we now can hide behind our computer screens, with zero interaction of each other anymore. Without the daily interactions then our people skills we can not practice, which we then will have us become negative, sarcastic and hurtful towards one another. Gone are the days of, the children coming home from school, going home to change, so we can meet up with the other neighborhood children and putting together a pick up game of whatever sport we choose on that day? These are the days that made us into who we become and helped us learn the art of social interactions, so we than can come together in total unity, to conquer all our fears with confidence and gusto.

Lent is a perfect time for us all to reflect, renew, sacrifice as Jesus did on his journey, so we can come together in unity, come together as one, so we than can help each other, instead of attack one another, with the full cooperation of each other, as we put down the technology and actually interact with each other. Technology yes is good and can help us moving forward, but when we become engulfed in it and lose total interaction with each other, now we have entered into the dark side of the technology, with all of us paying the price from our inaction’s and inability to come together and show our true feelings, of empathy and love that is deep within  our hearts and souls.

We all hurt in our own way, with the pain from the hurt affecting us all very differently, we all have our issues as well, with some being greater than others, you just never know of how deeply someone hurts real pain deep within? This is why we are all in the dark side of the technology, as we hide behind the technology and never actually see of who we are hurting, or who is hurting anywhere, the real pain of the poverty. Because we hide behind the technology, we don’t allow ourselves to truly feel any feelings, when we do go out our people skills do not come with us, as we do not even give each other the time of day, which makes it very easy for us to becomes so engulfed in all the ugliness of today. Empathy…………Huh! it doesn’t even exist, simply because we are so consumed with ourselves, Empathy and love are both within our hearts and souls and that warmth you feel in your heart, that is Jesus talking to us, but in this Society we simply ignore him, like he doesn’t even exist.

Jesus sacrificed for us, so why can’t we sacrifice for him and maybe get out from the technology from time to time, like during the forty day journey of lent, then we can actually see each other and just maybe interact with each other. Then through that interaction, just maybe we can get back in touch with our true feelings deep within our hearts and souls, so we all can walk our paths through this journey of life, in the peace and happiness, with the true love that Jesus showed us, while leading us to the path of righteousness.

 

” Through true interactions of each other, there will never be objectification as we view each other as a person within this journey”

” Denial we may not realize now, is the suppression of our true selves deep within ourselves”

” The journey within the journey as we walk for forty days through Lent just as Jesus did from ash Wednesday to Easter”

” Instead of hiding behind the technology and the social platforms, go out and actually be social and learn to interact with those around you”

” Some may hurt real pain with some being brought on by another, but to suppress the real feelings will only amplify the pain, instead of helping to relieve the pain”