The water is churning up right in front of us………

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” The notion of innocent before guilty is gone, now we are all guilty of everything before we are innocent of whatever we are guilty of”

 

Let’s just start with this #meto movement, This is a movement that had nothing but the best of intentions moving forward, but like everything else we the people have taken the good right out of it and replaced it with nothing but drama and a way to exploit whatever we want to exploit. With all these accusations and may I add……… They are allegations, has us doing nothing but judge everyone around us, without actually getting to the truth first, so we can be 100% honest, not just with ourselves, but with all those around us as well.

The Democrats and the left Bias Media would rather, prosecute and totally ruin another’s life over an allegation, simply because it is not in their agenda, to actually act totally as the U. S. Constitution says and wants them to act. They are so afraid that others will actually make them look bad, that they will stop at nothing, to ruin the lives of anyone that does not see as they see. The Democrats and the left Bias Media have an agenda and they really do not care, what they do to another, just to keep that agenda alive.

This #meto movement when it first came out was great, as it was a way for those truly who were sexually abused to actually heal themselves of all their deep pain and hurt, even still there are a lot that because of the shame and the denial part of being abused, are still very afraid to come out, for the fear that others will still make fun of and ridicule them, making them feel even worse, than the actual action of the abuse. We as Humans can be so good to each other, but yet we also can be so mean and not care for each other as well, we walk our paths of this journey not to attack one another, but to be there and help one another regardless of who you are, but instead we would rather make fun of, or hurt each other so bad emotionally, that for some, they become scarred for life. Jesus didn’t teach us to be mean or show hatred of each other, instead we the people over the years since Jesus are responsible for that, which Jesus is not too happy with us and one day we all will totally find out of just how unhappy he is.

Anybody that has been sexually abused, know that it is nothing to be made fun of or exploited for an agenda, it is a very serious topic, as for most it is a topic that til now was very Taboo to talk about. Those that have been abused in this way, have totally felt what the true feeling of shame is like, as shame can and will, control everything within your being. While the shame controls you, there is also the denial that comes and will totally have you not see clearly through the clouds of your judgments and because you can’t see clearly, now you can’t move forward properly throughout this journey of life.  With that said……………. It is highly unlikely that anybody that has suffered through this kind of abuse, has come out in a very public way, especially with a letter to any form of media and really especially to the left Bias Media. Most would rather keep this kind of abuse to themselves, as they have suffered enough pain and hurt, without taking the chance of being ridiculed further, by those around them, who really do not totally understand of the abuse they have suffered.

Everybody of this society think they are a know it all of everything, the Democrats and the left Bias media say they have our best interests at heart, but what they will never admit to is, the only thing they have close to their hearts is, their agendas and their own interests within their hearts. They could give two shits about you and I, as they give themselves the world right before our very own eyes. Until we the people wake up and stand up to these inhuman Democrats and left Bias Media, they will continue to control us, they will continue to push their agendas onto us, as they continue moving forward with hurting us so deeply, that we then become so shamed with much denial and try to move forward, being of someone we truly are not.

 

” It is one thing to come out truly and heal from such a trauma of sexual abuse, but it is something else to come out and accuse without concrete evidence”

 

” We can be so good to each other, but yet we can be so mean to each other as well”

 

” #meto can be very good for all, without us all only using it for an agenda only”

 

” As the water churns, so does the tide of our paths through this journey of life”

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Empathy for the Victims

 

Throughout this journey of life, we have all been like this Duck, swimming around with no one around, lost within this journey as we try to move forward away from what troubles us. Some may chose this kind of solitude, as others are forced into this solitude, by what ever life events may cross their paths? There is nothing wrong with solitude, if it is in a healthy manor, but to be lonely with no where to turn, from whatever troubles you, now this is what forces us to suppress deeply our true feelings and emotions, so we can try to move forward as if we have no real pain or hurt to feel, which then has us become someone for who we truly are not, just so we can try to function as normal as we think normal is.

With all this chatter throughout the media today of all the sex scandals out there, the one common denominator that we all forget to even mention or even show empathy towards are, the Victims. The Victims of this abuse are hurting real pain deep within from the actions of the ones who are being accused, not just the media being the problem with all the publicity of these sick actions, but the ones being accused coming out and making it all about them and then pointing the finger somewhere else, just to deflect  any blame away from their actions. Take Senator Franken for one, coming out to resign his post, but never once saying he is sorry and pointing the finger, instead of accepting responsibility for his actions? Looks to me like someone who is rationalizing  away his actions, while being deeply in denial of what he has done. Sex abuse is all about power, gaining power over another, just so you can get a quick feel? Just like with all Politicians, they get elected so they can become powerful (in their own minds), then they get a feeling of this power and now they get addicted to the feeling, which then has them taking action on the power, without thoroughly thinking through their actions.

With all the accusations going on now of the sex scandals, only shows one thing, which should scare the hell out of all of us and that is, we have all lost the true feeling of empathy that is within us all. True empathy will have you put yourself in the shoes of another, right now their is no one in the shoes of the Victims of  this kind of abuse…………Why? cause we are all afraid of this and we are all afraid to look towards others as we are being weak,  it don’t make you weak to show empathy towards others no matter of the reason, it only shows of just how strong you truly are. We in this society would rather make fun of, talk about, or alienate others behind their backs, but as soon as they face you, then you say all good things to them? This is who we have become, simply because of Political Correction. This Political Correction has made us all weak, it has turned us into someone we truly are not and even worse………. It has the true feeling of Empathy within become lost deep within us.

There is nobody that sought out to be a Victim, a victim is created by an Individual who only  thinks of themselves and rationalizes away their actions, so they don’t have to take responsibility for their actions. All these big high profile cases coming out from this kind of abuse, the media is eating up because it fits into their agenda of creating more drama, but seriously!!! What about the Victim who feels real pain and hurt deep within from this kind of abuse? We the people are also responsible because we buy into the drama the media sells us, the time is now for each of us to, get back in touch with our true empathy, so we all can walk our paths through this journey in the peace and happiness, we all so deserve.

 

” A victim is created by another Individual so they can seem powerful within their own minds”

” A victim is alone in their solitude because they hurt real pain deep within”

” Solitude is good to unwind from the daily grind, but not to try to escape from the real pain and hurt”

‘ the media is all about drama and has no empathy for anything/anyone in the way of that drama”

 

 

 

 

 

The climb is tough, you grow stronger as you climb

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“The struggle is real, the climb is tough, but through the pain and the hurt, reaching the top will help you be stronger and better than ever”

 

I saw a post that Gold medal winner Aly Raisman put onto her social media and it sounds as if, some have taken offense to her coming out and speaking of her pain? Basically she was commenting on some comments to her post of some saying the woman/girls deserve what they get for the way they dress? Excuse me!!! this is nothing more than a rationalization by the Individuals commenting to her. Nobody asked to be treated the way a Victim of sexual abuse has been treated, they were groomed by an Individual who not only with his/her actions, speaks loudly to they need help, but it is also an excuse to rationalize their behavior and objectify others.

Objectification is something we all do without knowing it, instead of looking at someone to make ill comments of how they look, try looking at them as a person, someone that is a Human being as you and I, someone that is someones son, daughter, wife, husband etc…… We are all a human being that walks a path through this journey of life. It is very easy to look at each other as a person, it is even harder to objectify each other, but yet some will objectify, to rationalize away their actions, of grooming another, for their sick pleasure.

Aly Raisman is a very strong woman to come out and talk of the actions of another toward her, coming out for anybody within this screwed up society is very difficult, especially those that have been sexually abused, but when you do come out a very large weight has then been lifted from their shoulders, as now the difficult part has been done and the rest of the work to move forward in the healing process begins. The most difficult part of any healing process is the coming out to speak openly and candid of the situation, We in this screwed up society are too afraid to speak openly of any situation that may have others look at us differently, we fear that others may ridicule and make fun of us so much, we then bury deep within our real pain and hurt, which does nothing but have us become someone we truly are not.

This journey through life really isn’t that hard, only we as people walking our paths through this journey, make it very hard with our actions or inaction’s from doing nothing. if we only showed more empathy of each other, then we wouldn’t be objectifying each other, if only we truly felt the warmth of God’s love deep within our hearts and souls and then shared this love with each other, just maybe all this crap and ugliness within this society would disappear? We are all Human beings walking a path through this journey, we are all very similar to each other, as well as being very unique to each other, God put us here to use this uniqueness to be better and stronger moving forward, not to attack one another with our stupidity and our sick actions. The time is now for each of us to come out and heal together, so we all can walk our paths of this journey in peace and happiness always, everyday  with every step.

 

” Rationalization is simply a cop out excuse to excepting your actions and escaping any responsibility from your actions”

” To objectify is to make light of any action that you may enter into”

” It takes a sick Individual to groom another for their sick actions, instead of starting their own healing process moving forward”

 

 

important topics that should be taken seriously

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We all walk a path through this journey of life, there will be many things that will come across our paths that will knock us down if we are not ready. We all will suffer many setbacks, with the many issues that come before us on our paths, these issues will control us if we don’t take the time to understand them, as well as bring us much pain and hurt, when we become hurt with the pain from the issues, we then suppress deeply our true feelings, so we than can try to move forward on our paths, like  there is nothing wrong? A lot of the times if we just communicate with someone whom we trust, about the hurt from the pain, really communicate deeply of the issues that hurt us deeply, just maybe we then can understand better of the issues, so we than can heal our pains and move forward better and stronger.

One of the biggest topics throughout Mankind that was Taboo to communicate about, was the topic of Sex Abuse. This kind of abuse not just was hard to talk about by anybody, but is especially hard for the Victim to communicate at all to anybody. As a Society on a whole, nobody wanted to hear of or communicate to this abuse, simply because as a Victim, you were shamed into burying your true feelings deep inside, only because you feared that those around you, would laugh and ridicule you behind your back. Through the shame of this kind of abuse, it would leave the Victim with the feeling of low self esteem and low self worth, thinking that just maybe, there is something wrong with me to have this happen? Then with the deep feelings from the hurt and pain, the Victim would then bury it so deep, that their true feeling would be lost within as well. Without realizing  it, the little child within would then become lost and not grow healthy within, leaving us on the outside, troubled and not growing healthy like that child within us.

Since that knucklehead in Hollywood and with all the ones coming out of who he abused, there is a hashtag that was started on twitter of #meto, now there are so many using that hashtag to come out from their abuse and trying to heal themselves from their hurt and pain, that through social media people are using it for a positive and trying to help themselves feel their true feelings, that they have buried for so long. Through all the crap that is on social media today, just maybe now it can be used for a positive, so those that have been abused, can come out, communicate truly and truly feel their real feelings deep within. We all have our issues, we all struggle with these issues, but when we don’t truly understand them, or when we don’t truly communicate them, so we than can heal the pain and hurt, then we will always be a Society that is broken, we will always be a Society with no true love or empathy and even worse, all the ugliness and the hatred will never leave us in this Society.

Sex Abuse is nothing new to us, not just within this Society, but all Societies of the past. So why then have we not been able to heal from the pain and hurt it brings? Communication is the biggest part in understanding totally of this problem and without it, then no one will ever truly understand it. Those who suffer this dreadful issue of sex abuse, don’t truly feel their real feelings, so they then bury deep within of who they truly are, then try to move forward with this fake self, so everybody around won’t think they suffer deep within. The Victim will also have zero trust of anything around them, which then will bring many more issues to their paths they walk. Through this hashtag of #meto, we can all clearly see that, there are many more than we realize, who suffer quietly within, Just walk down the street and truly feel the love and empathy within you, so you than can look deeply into all around you and see truly of who is around you, this problem of sex abuse has been around more then we want to admit to or talk about, so the amount of Victims are far greater than what we may think. The only way for us to walk our paths of this journey through life is, to communicate totally of the issues that may come across our paths, so not only we can understand for ourselves, but we can understand better for all those around us, as we truly show our true love and empathy and truly help each other heal from the true pain and hurt, then we all can walk our paths of this journey in true peace and happiness always.

 

” Sex abuse has been a huge problem throughout Mankind, just that nobody truly communicated of it and healed totally from it”

” This journey through life has many issues that will test us, it is time to start acing the test so we can be at true peace and happiness”

” Communication is the one true key throughout this journey, so we can understand better as we walk our paths”

” #meto is the one biggest and best thing that has happened in recent years, letting some truly heal from their pain and hurt”

” When social media is used correctly, it can help us all move forward and not backwards”

 

Addiction… The Crutch that gives us false hope.

Addiction is like the temptation, that Jesus himself resisted from Satan, we the people within this Society can win over this temptation of Addiction, as we stay strong and believe in ourselves, as well as God, just like Jesus did.

This Addiction comes to us in many ways and it does not discriminate who it try’s to control, it can be in the form of alcohol, drugs, pornography, or even nicotine, there are many more but these are the ones that stricken  us at a much higher rate,   when you are deep into an addiction, nothing else matters, but what you crave and think you need most, you form this opinion and denial in your mind that, there is nothing wrong and you are doing nothing wrong, why can’t people just leave me alone, addiction is a craving that you need something, more than anything else that may exist.

Addiction is a way of something else controlling who we really are, then you have to deal with Corporate companies feeding of those who are addicted, just so they can become even richer, as you become aware of others poking fun of, or saying negative things about you, you then fall deeper into that addiction, Whether its alcohol, drugs, sex, or cigarettes that feeds your addiction, they are everywhere, which makes these addictions very hard to break.

Addiction will control who you are and force you into things you normally would never step into, we may know better today of these addictions, but we still have a long way to go, in order for all of us to control it, instead of it controlling us.

Part of us controlling the Addiction is, we have to want to change and if we reject real change, then addiction will never go away. Change for the better is the hardest thing for anybody to except, especially if you are in the clutches of an addiction, it will also give us a false feeling of happiness, as whatever addiction you are in, is the crutch in our lives that keeps us from attaining real happiness.

Addiction may give us certain feeling, but these feelings it gives us are, feelings of guilt, shame and anger when we can’t fulfill our addiction, these feelings we  accept cause it gives us a false feeling of happiness, so we go deep into denial and rationalize away the true feelings of life and what makes us truly happy. Addiction keeps us from truly being who we are, it also is used by others because they are addicted to greed, so they feed of this to control and make more money, of those who suffer the clutches of this disease of addiction.

These Addictions control every fiber of our being and force us in becoming someone we are truly not, when these addictions come to us, it is really Satan coming to us with hopes, we all fall into temptation and weaken ourselves, so he himself can become stronger, if we all resist this temptation by understanding better of how it works, we all within this Society will be better for it, these addictions will be less powerful over us and we as Humans, will become stronger as God wanted us all, as we walk our paths of our journey of life.

” Addiction can only affect us if we let it affect us”

” We ourselves control the power of addiction, by better understanding how addiction works”

” Addiction is the temptation from Satan to weaken us, so he can become more powerful over all of us and never be jealous of God for guiding us to the path of righteousness”