Let’s clear the deadwood and end Bullying now,

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There is so much more to walking the path we chose through this journey of life. We all at some point within our lives have been Bullied or have Bullied another, the thing we never talk about especially those who have been Bullied is, the fact that when you are being Bullied, you are shamed into thinking maybe something is wrong with me? Shame is a very powerful feeling deep within us all, when we are shamed we tend to forget who we truly are, for which we then put forth a fake self, just to try to fit in and be accepted. When we are shamed by another and bullied to the point we try to avoid others, we then become as lonely as this tree with all the deadwood around it.

There is so much true beauty around us as well as the beauty within each of us, that when we are Bullied and are shamed from the Bullying, we never get a chance to truly see any of the beauty around us or within. We walk our paths of this journey for we ourselves, it’s not about making others happy, it is more about being truly happy deep within ourselves, so we than can be happy on the outside, as we take this happiness to all that is around us. What a Bully never see’s when he is in the process of controlling what’s around him is, he never see’s any beauty either as to him there is nothing but power and control, plus the fact that a Bully has lost the feelings deep within himself like, the feelings of empathy or compassion, because if he felt either of these, he would never be a Bully anymore, to terrorize anyone of us.

The effects from a Bully can and will last a lifetime, they will leave scars and these scars can’t be seen, as they are deep within us, whether we want to admit to them or not. The scars from being shamed by a Bully are not just a scar that, with a band aid they heal and disappear from sight, these scars are emotional and come with great pain and hurt. The pain and hurt coming from shame, will have us become someone we truly are not, we ourselves won’t even recognize ourselves as we hide deep within ourselves and put forth this fake self, to try to protect ourselves from further pain and hurt, we will rationalize away anything coming from the shame as well as , going deep into denial, which then has us not even accepting our actions moving forward.

Bullying is nothing more than having the power and control over someone/something, it is also nothing more than using fear to have that power and control, a Bully is also a Coward as they can not even accept their own issues and then, they take it out on someone around them. A Bully can be anybody and you could be standing next to one now? The true way too stop a Bully is look them in the eye , show no fear as they try to make you fear, show them that they can not hurt or control you, as they then will cower away, like the true Coward for whom they are. There are Bully’s everywhere whether Domestic or abroad, we all have to face one sooner or later, now through Social media there are even the worse kind of Bully, known as the Cyber Bully, to which we never face, because they are a true coward that hides behind their device, these individuals can’t face any issues, let alone their own issues and hiding behind a device proves that, the problem is, they will do and say anything to have us become a slave to their words, so they than can ( in their own minds) seem as powerful to anything along this journey, but in realty they are the weakest link to this Society and need to be treated as such, so they will disappear from all our paths of this journey through life.

 

” A Bully is nothing more than a Coward that try’s to inflict fear on all that is around them”

” With a Bully it is all about power and control, when we don’t give them that, then they disappear like the tumble weeds in the wind of the desert”

” Shame is a very powerful feeling deep within us all and when we become shamed we then lose sight of who we truly are”

” Cyber Bullying is the new way of a Coward to try to control each of us, time we nip it in the bud and end their reign of terror”

” We all want the power and control, but when we forget of truly who we are, then our actions become inaction’s throughout our paths of this journey”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Relax… Let go… trust the flow within the journey

 

 

 

 

We within this Society get so caught up in the now, that we then forget to just simply trust our instincts, trust our guts, we get so wound up that we never actually let ourselves truly relax, as we totally need in order to be free of all unwanted stress. Just as this Kayak is flowing within the wind and the waves bumping it from side to side, The driver of this Kayak and the Kayak itself, are one in the same, totally entrusting of the wind and the waves.

Starting from way back in the beginning of Mankind, there was Adam and Eve, as they walked the land with all the fruits, they were not supposed to eat from the apple tree, but one day Eve enticed Adam and the rest is history, as the flood gates opened, that we now know as Sin. God entrusted them to not eat from the apple tree, but they could not resist and now from their actions, they have to own up and live with their actions moving forward. Just because you have made a bad choice, or maybe even a costly mistake, it is not the end of the World, God will forgive you totally for your mistakes or your sins, you simply just have to, own up, accept responsibility of your actions to move forward and not backwards.

We all throughout this journey of life have created many sins and made many mistakes, we are not perfect, but when we totally have complete faith in ourselves and in Jesus Christ, There is no sin large enough nor any mistake complicated enough, that will detour us, from walking our paths through this journey of life. This journey is only of what you make it and will be either hard or easy, the choice is yours to make, just as it is also your choice to not show remorse, for any of your mistakes or sins. This journey has many twists and turns, but in no way should you be restricted from making any choices and when the mistakes come in, don’t try to hide them, as this is how we learn and move forward, to be better and stronger throughout this journey of life.

When we truly relax and let go of all the crap that may weigh us down, we will totally find that we can totally trust in ourselves, trust in Jesus Christ, which now we to can flow, very much like the Kayak within the water. Through Prayer we have learned to trust and have faith in Jesus Christ and with this faith, it will always give us hope in all we do as well. So yes Sin and mistakes will come to us, but when we totally accept them as such, take responsibility for our actions no matter how big or small, while we keep the faith in ourselves and Jesus Christ, so we than can have the hope to move forward throughout this journey and while we, walk in true peace and happiness always.

 

” Relax, trust, let go, so you can flow as smooth as the water flows down the stream”

” Sin and mistakes are par for the course along this journey, it’s what helps us learn and move forward better and stronger”

” Jesus Christ will always forgive us us for our sins and our wrongs, but first we have to forgive ourselves to receive his blessings and forgiveness”

 

 

 

 

 

 

The real sporting news……….

Slide 4 of 12: MINNEAPOLIS, MN - FEBRUARY 04: Rob Gronkowski #87 and Tom Brady #12 of the New England Patriots celebrate their 4-yard touchdown pass during the fourth quarter against the Philadelphia Eagles  in Super Bowl LII at U.S. Bank Stadium on February 4, 2018 in Minneapolis, Minnesota.

 

Last nights Superbowl between the New England Patriots and the Philadelphia Eagles, one team over the last couple decades  being the giant and the other team being David and the under dog. Just like as David slew the giant in the Bible, the underdog team the Eagles, took the best shots of the Patriots and slew them to win their first Championship in team history. Now with Tom Brady going over 500 yards, three touchdowns and no picks, that alone if I didn’t see the game, would think the Pats have won yet again? But David……….aka the Eagles stood tall and with a great game plan, slew the patriots and is now the Superbowl Champions.

There will be a lot of story lines coming out of this one, with the sports Journalists trying to spin their takes of the game, but no matter how you slice it, or in this case write it, it was a great offensive football game by both teams, with their defenses being knocked around, like the tumbleweeds within the desert. The game ended as I thought it may, with someone on the defensive side, coming up with a big play and that play came from the Eagles, with the strip sack of the G. O. A. T. Tom Brady. This only proves that you are only as good as your last game and like in any sport, when you have a great game plan and execute that game plan, step up to the plate, then you also can become a champion of whatever sport you play.

The legacy of Tom Brady and Bill Belichek should not be tarnished in any way, shape or form, simply because the Eagles stepped up to the plate with a great game plan and beat a Champion, in a one game take all match, which then proves beyond all doubt, that anybody can be beaten, on any given day. What most people tend to forget is, your legacy isn’t built from just one game, it is built from many games, many accolades through the many games and the Championships you win along the way. Brady and Belichek have done just that and deserve the respect for which they get, but unfortunately in the Politically correct world for which we live, we have all become lazy and do not want to put in the work, like Brady and Belichek have done to get to this point in their career.  Then you have the so called Media, the true cockroaches of the world, that will spin around the spoken word, so they can print them as their own, to fit within their agendas and even worse, create more unnecessary drama, then what is already around us now.

The Philadelphia Eagles not only had a great game plan, executed that plan, but they also stepped up to the plate and beat a true Champion in the sport of football. You could tell they worked hard all year in practice, so on game day they could execute the game plan they worked hard on in practice. Talk is cheap and action speaks much louder, so like the patriots have been doing all these years, the Eagles did yesterday and with that, are now the Superbowl Champions within the world of football. Congrats to the Philadelphia Eagles on their Superbowl win, as now the hardest part is about to hit you and that is, to repeat and keep winning for as long as the Patriots, which then builds a legacy of great football, great practice, showing less chatter with more action and becoming the best you can be, each and every game day moving forward.

 

” Talk is cheap and actions speaks much louder, whether you are in the game of football, or you are in the game of life”

” David and the giant may be a Biblical story, but it is a story that when you truly believe, builds character and strength”

” Create a game plan then work that plan and with more action less chatter, makes for a successful game plan”

” The game of football is the chess game of life and with the right game plan, we all can experience being a true champion”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A day for Holocaust Remembrance………

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” To watch over, to protect, to serve, all the qualities that are deep within us all”

 

Throughout this journey of life and with the many Societies that have come before us, there have been much crap that has come to us, there has been a whole lot of ugliness, that you think just maybe we would of all learned from it? There to is so much hatred around us today and within the time of Societies past, that instead of learning from it, we then proceed forward, without addressing it, so it all festers deep within us, which then we let it totally control of who we truly are.

Love is much more powerful than all the hatred we see today, but yet we let the hatred seem as if, it is more powerful while it controls of who we are. Love is also within us all, as the hatred is a learned process and in no way is this within us. Instead of showing our true empathy of each other, we then mock, make fun of and laugh at those around us, when they fall and become hurt with real pain. It is sad when you are one on one with another and that other will show their compassion and empathy with you, but when there is a group around them, now they will stop at nothing, to show to others that they are more powerful than those around them.

There has been many times within our past like the time of the Holocaust, many times with many people hurting real pain at the hands of others or another. We the people let this happen simply because, we are too afraid to end up like those in real pain, within today’s world we have the groups like the Terrorist’s, that use fear with their sick and deranged actions, to bring much hatred and ugliness all around us. The Terrorists have in many ways become modernized, smarter and more creative, in the ways they bring this ugliness and hatred to us, so the way we eliminate them are, we become smarter and more creative, while we stand up to them and look them in the eyes, then put their fear they bring to us and put it right back on them, all the while we dig down deep and totally release the Love and Empathy within us, throughout all that is around us.

People who suffered through the Holocaust were innocence surrounded by ignorance and those who thought that, treating others as they did, would make them more powerful then all those around them? There are still some out there around us, still living from that terrible time they went through and yes they still feel deeply the pain and the horror of that time. We may never truly heal from such a horrible time, but we can move forward through time to be better and stronger, but when we let hatred control of who we are, when we let all the ugliness around us consume us so, we will never truly feel the love and the empathy, that is within us all.

When God created us, he filled our hearts and souls with his love and empathy, so we can share this with each other, God did not in any way, put within us this hatred or ugliness we see around us today, all the hatred and ugliness is on we the people of this Society, who walk a path through this journey of life. The hatred we have learned over time and with our actions of each other and should in no way, define who we truly are. Who we truly are is, a Human with the love and empathy of God deep within our hearts and souls, who shows true compassion of each other, while we walk our paths through this journey of life, so we all can be at true peace, with the smile of happiness on all of our faces, no matter of who you are.

 

” The Holocaust was a horrible time with much pain and hurt, to truly heal we first need to look back so we can not repeat such a horrible time”

” The pain and hurt of hatred may scar our souls, but the scars should never dictate for who we truly are”

” Hatred is learned, the ugliness may consume us, but the love is deep within us and the most powerful of the three”

” We the people with our actions have created times like the Holocaust, we the people with our actions can spread the love within us all for true peace and happiness”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Holy Family

 

” The child grew and became strong, filled with wisdom, with the favor of God placed upon him”.

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Jesus came to us, in very much the same way we all come into this World, with the one big exception being, he is the true son of God, as we are all his brother and disciple, who follow in his footsteps. Jesus came and walked his journey with us, to show us just how to walk our paths, while we truly feel the love of his Father deep within our hearts and souls and then sharing that love with each other, in the form of the empathy within us all. Jesus proved to us all with his actions, as he quietly moved forward on his path, throughout this journey of life.

We the people of this Society and all the Societies of the past, share the blame for how this World has become, all the chaos, ugliness and unnecessary drama that surrounds us all, we all think we are better than each other and that ” my way is the only way” is the only mentality that matters to us?   We the people with our actions are to blame for all the negativity around us and we the people, can change of what we are doing, change our actions, to turn all the negativity into beautiful positivity. Jesus showed and taught us of just how to walk our paths of this journey, so we can find that true path of righteousness, the problem then lies with us of this Society, being a Society so far removed from the journey of Jesus Christ, that our Faith has disappeared from our souls and without the Faith, then there will never be Hope for any of us moving forward.

The birth of Jesus Christ comes to us each and every year, it amazes me to see that those around me, are more worried about going to a store to buy a gift for another, than to just sit and not only look at the baby in the Manger, but have complete faith in that baby, as he grows and shares his beautiful love and wisdom with us all. We the people are the problem in this World full of fiction, instead of being the solution in a World full of fact. We have all become so consumed with wanting the biggest and best, that we have lost total faith in our own actions, which has us losing sight of the times that Jesus came and walked his journey here with us. When we all have Faith in ourselves and in Jesus Christ, there will always be hope for us all moving forward throughout this journey, plus when our actions are moving in a positive direction, then we will always feel the love of Jesus within our hearts and souls, which will have us share this love  with each other, as to make all our journeys in the peace and happiness, that God envisioned for us all.

 

” The baby in the Manger is the most beautiful part of Christmas, just that we have lost faith in the true meaning of what Christmas is about”

” Always remember that, without the faith there will never be hope moving forward”

” The baby Jesus with Mary and Joseph is the family here on Earth, as God is our father in Heaven and when the journey is correct, we all can be full of prosperity and joy”

” It is the actions of we the people, that determine our future and just how much peace and happiness we encounter throughout this journey”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Words of Wisdom through all the real pain and hurt

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My little Buddy needs to make another appearance with his words of wisdom, so we can get away from all the ugliness, hatred, real pain and hurt. The time is now to show the empathy that is within us all, share it with each other, so we all can walk our paths of this journey in the peace and happiness we all so deserve. Martin Richards had a heart of Gold, an innocent young eight year old boy, that was tragically taken from this Society, by two sick Individuals who were in need of some major psychological help. During the Boston Marathon bombings……… #bostonstrong  one of the bombs were placed right at the feet of where he was standing, he had no chance to avoid what was about to happen.

 

” We all have felt some real pain and hurt at sometime, but we have never let ourselves truly heal fully from the pain and hurt”

 

Since this #meto has been on twitter then with the way and the speed it has gone viral, clearly shows there are more than we ever imagined, that feel this real pain and hurt deep within. We have all been a Victim of something along our paths, whether from sex abuse, a Bully, or maybe been robbed and your personal belongings taken from where we live? Whatever the case may be, we have all suffered being a Victim of something, but instead of understanding our situation and fixing whatever we need to be better and stronger, we have gone totally in the other direction and deeply suppressed our true feelings and emotions to the point of, we not only lost our true empathy, we have lost what it feels like to truly feel the love of God, deep within our hearts and souls, so now we can’t share with each other.

Because of all this pain and hurt, there is also no trust of one another anywhere. It used to so that you knew your neighbor next door, now not only do we not know who our neighbors are, but we do not know of who anybody is anywhere, from where ever we may go. We have gone from walking our paths peacefully, to walking with chaos and crap all around us.

With all these Celebrities being outed for all their deranged actions, shows that the rest of us have no clue, of just how many Victims that has been created? Plus the ones who created the Victims has no clue of, just how much damage their actions have done. Denial may just look like a word, but it is a strong word, that has us rationalize away our actions, so we can make light of any heavy situations. Shame also may be just a word, but it is a very strong word, that will control every fiber of our being, if we really let it. Through the Denial we simply do not take responsibility for our actions and then rationalize them away and deflect them from ourselves, through the shame we then bury very deeply our true feelings and emotions, as to try to keep the real pain and hurt from affecting us anymore, we do this all within our subconscious, so we then can try to move forward in the reality of our Society, to show on the outside that we are as normal as normal can be, so others around us will think we are normal. We all walk a path through this journey of life, nobody is perfect along this journey, but when we respect and trust one another, then this journey will always bring us the peace and happiness we all so deserve.

 

”  Denial is a way to rationalize away any actions so we don’t have to take responsibility for the action”

” Shame is very powerful and forces us to deeply suppress our true feelings and emotions, to try to deflect the pain and hurt”

” Victims need the time and space to truly heal from the wounds, so they can move forward better and stronger”

” Before you take action to the action, first you have to think through the action in order to not bring the pain, hurt and shame, to those around you”

 

 

 

 

 

 The slippery slopes of life

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The beautiful ski mountain in the summer months, full of green grass and green evergreen tree’s. Once winter comes and these slopes disappear and gives way to the white of the snow, now these slopes become slippery, as you swish your way down with the ski’s beneath your feet.

Within this Society and now that the #meto has gone viral throughout, there are a lot of people hurting deep within. Now with most of the ones coming out, all we hear are the ones that are rich and famous, what we don’t hear are the regular types that are still dealing with their pain and hurt, simply because the shame that they feel is so powerful, it makes it very difficult to talk openly from this kind of abuse. Plus the fact that we are within a Society that can’t truly feel the empathy that is deep within us all, that we don’t truly feel anything for who is around us.

Most of this #meto backlash we are experiencing right now is Media driven and the problem with that is, the media cares nothing for the Victim of the abuse, all they care about is making a story, keeping their agendas and putting money in their pockets, as they go forward with the  take down of the rich and famous. This problem of the Sex abuse we are seeing is, it has affected way more than we think we know, just that the Bias Media will only follow up on the ones that suit them and their agendas.

Now really what business does the Media have in getting into such a hot topic today? Really they should stay out of this topic, as the real Victim needs to heal from all the pain and hurt they have been hiding for way too long. The media has this problem of sticking their noses in places where they really should not, because to truly heal from the real pain and hurt, you don’t need Reporters and camera’ s in your face everyday. Just as when the shooting in Vegas took place, the media was their interviewing ones that just lost a loved one and they didn’t even give these people a chance to truly grieve, so they can heal from the pain of losing their loved one so tragically., all just so they can keep their agendas and keep putting money in their pockets. This all comes down to Human ethics and the media has no clue on what this truly is.

To truly heal from such abuse like sex abuse, just don’t happen overnight and through the media, it takes time to truly heal from this, as it comes from a sick Individual that has groomed and gained the trust of their Victims for so long, that the Victim then buries their true feelings deep within themselves, so they can try to keep moving forward like they as normal as normal can be. Then as the media makes a story out of it just to keep their agenda, now you have a Victim even further burying their true feelings, instead of getting the proper help they so deserve. Most of…..if not all of the Abuser’s were once Victims themselves, as they have buried their true feelings so deep, that they really don’t feel anything for anyone/anything  anymore, so they then repeat the process that has happened to them subconsciously. This whole Society is a Society full of pain and hurt, whether we have become a Victim of sex abuse, or a Victim of a Bully, or whatever you have been a Victim of, none the less we are a Society full of pain and hurt, in which we all need to heal without the media making a spectacle of us, just so they can make a profit from the story. We all walk a path through this journey of life, there will be things that cross our paths that will bring us pain and hurt, we need to be better at understanding of these things, better at fixing ourselves, so we can move forward to be better and stronger, instead of suppressing our true feelings, then losing a big piece of who we truly are, so we than can walk in the peace and happiness that we all so deserve.

 

” You can walk down a slippery slope without falling and getting hurt, you just have to better understand of where you are and put one foot in front of the other”

” This Society of pain and hurt is affecting us all, time we find the empathy within us and help each other to be relieved from the pain and hurt”

” Sex abuse has been happening for generations upon generations, time we repair the link in the chain of the cycle, so we all can be at true peace”

” The main stream media is at the root of all the pain and hurt we all feel today, time we take back the control that they have over all of us”

” Sex abuse is never talked about because the shame controls us so much, time to reach out so we can better understand and take back the control from the shame”