Veterans Day

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” It doesn’t take a special breed to fight the good fight for their country, just someone deeply in touch with their true feelings and emotions, to not only feel the love of their country, but the love for all those for who they fight for”

*** BowlingChef***

 

To all the Brave men and woman from the past, present and future, who not only fight the good fight, but do so out of love for their country and all those within the country as well. We all have the qualities to serve our country, but it is only a few that actually take the plunge to fight the good fight. We all have the traits to be a hero, but those who fight the good fight and help their fellow soldier out of a jam without thinking, are the true Hero’s. These Individuals don’t look for the fan fare, they don’t expect anything in return, they just go about it as their job, so we all can live freely with happiness throughout this country of America. The thing is, when they come back home from everything they have seen while fighting the good fight, they quickly become lost in the shuffle and struggle to try to get back to normal among us, instead of us reaching out to them, without thinking like they did while fighting the good fight, we then forget of them and their sacrifice, as we get so wrapped up in just keeping up and moving forward. Then those within our elected officials, when there needs to be cuts, will cut their health benefits when they need it most, which then has them out in the cold all around us. The Veterans health care is in need of a major over haul and part of that is, us reaching out to them without thinking, as they did when they were fighting the good fight.

We all sacrifice everyday, but when a Veteran sacrifices it quickly becomes the ultimate sacrifice. We normal Citizens here in America, have no clue of what our Veterans really had to go through while fighting the good fight, especially wars like world war 2 or Korea, never mind the political war of Vietnam? When they were laying in the trenches and their buddy gets shot right next to them, or a grenade goes off with their limbs blowing to the sky, this does damage to you and when you come home, even though you are fortunate enough to be all there on the outside, you really are not all there, as your mind then reaks havoc inside you and when others around you just let you be without reaching out, now you and your mind struggle just to be as normal as the rest of us throughout this journey of life.

A Veteran may have volunteered to put themselves in harms way, but they did not volunteer to be forgotten when they return home to the country they fought the good fight for, the job to take care of our great veterans belongs to you and I, they sacrificed for us and in a lot of cases, they paid the ultimate sacrifice, just so you and I can be free to do what we want when we want and enjoy every square inch of this great country for which we live. We all walk a path through this journey of life, some are the chosen ones that blaze that path for us, but within this broken society of today, we take so much for granted, that we forget to thank these great Hero’s known as our Veterans, even though they don’t see themselves as Hero’s, they truly are…….. So we all can walk this journey in the peace and happiness, that we all so need in a healthy way.

 

” A big THANK YOU to all our Veterans in this country of America, past, present and future, for giving the good fight so we here can be free to do as we do, at all we do”

” A true hero will never see himself as a hero, to them it is just a job for which they signed up to do”

” We take so much for granted today, that we totally forget those who made it possible for each of us to walk in  peace, while being free to do as we do”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The dark of the light, with the light of the dark

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Seriously think about this!!! We of this Society have wandered away from any kind of thinking about anything, we say we think about things whatever those things are? But because of the no more thinking part, we have lost all sense of any of the true common sense that is within all of us. We have become like puppets to an almighty puppeteer, when the master speaks we listen and when the master pulls our strings, we go in the direction of the pull, without any kind of a resistance. Nobody wants to lead, as all we want to do is follow, no matter of the direction we may go. We need more trail Blazer’s like those societies of the past, without them then all our futures look bleek and boring, with no excitement on the horizon.

In order to truly see the light, there is darkness to pass through, just as the light will never be constant,    for there is always a darkness that passes by, so we can come to appreciate all things, without focusing too much on one thing, which will help us become more well rounded as we walk our paths, through this ever changing journey through life. Through the light there will always be darkness, as change will never leave us, which makes it that much more important to, being able to adapt to everything equally and without giving up, so we never become a puppet and just follow, so instead we than become the trail blazer, like Jesus did when he came and walked his journey here with us.

It takes darkness so we can truly see the light, so we than can truly appreciate all that we do with every step of this journey. Even like within this picture, you have a dead tree trunk, with a flower growing out of it? There is beauty all around us, you just have to truly look deeply in everything, without simply glancing or skimming over the top and becoming superficial of everything around you. Our leader’s today within the walls of Washington DC and while they get so wrapped up within the ” Washington Power Game”, have totally lost sight of true reality and have become a puppet to their own cause, without thinking of the bigger picture, or even becoming a trailblazer, to truly lead as they should be doing, when they signed up, for the office they hold.

True these flowers may not be the most fragrant, or the most picturesque?  But these flowers in their environment and where they are, makes everything around them shine in the light, brighter then anything, this is the sign of a true leader, someone who gets the job done, someone who never looks for recognition, someone who shines no matter of how dark the light may be, someone no matter of the change, adapts to the change and moves forward better and stronger, so they can keep the brightness of the light, no matter of how dark the darkness may become. These leader’s are out there, just that within today’s society and all the darkness with all the ugliness, makes for it very hard to truly see anything, which shows of how important it is, to let the light shine as bright as it can, so the darkness doesn’t seem as dark as it truly is. The light of the dark is always there, so to truly see the light, you need to look past the dark and not focus on the dark, as to helping the darkness never look as dark as it truly is.

 

” Where there is darkness there will be light, just like with faith there will always be hope”

” Cut the strings of the puppet, to truly become the person that you truly are”

” there is always true beauty all around us, we just have to see past the dark to truly see the light”

” Everything we may see has a beauty of it’s own, just as with the darkness, there will always be the light”

 

 

 

 

 

A Country in need of proper Grieving……..

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With the most recent tragic shooting in the rear view mirror, let us all not only pray for Las Vegas, the victims and their families, but let us all pray for each other throughout the World, so we then can heal from all this hate and ugliness that surrounds us today.

The shooting in Las Vegas was not only a Heinous crime, but a crime of pure hate against us all, that walk a path through this journey of life. This person that carried out this shooting spree, I can’t even call a Human Being, as this person targeted many in cold blood and proves to me that, this person has lost who he truly was, totally lost the true feeling of God’s love deep within his soul, not to mention, the fact that he showed zero empathy of himself or anybody around him.

May God bless those that perished from such a horrific crime in Las Vegas and may God bless their families, as they try to heal from this tragedy. There are many within the hospitals of Vegas now that are healing their wounds, but will they ever heal their minds from such a tragic night? That is a question that only they can answer, as they are the ones that, went from a night of much happiness, to a night of horror which they will never forget and with that said, let us all pray for them in their time of healing, so God can work his magic for them to come back and join us within our Society, as good or better than they once were.

Now some may blame this on a gun? The blame really needs to be placed on the sick deranged Individual, that not only thought and planned this out, but a sick deranged Individual that not only lost his way or who he truly was, but a sick deranged Individual that, lost the true feeling of God’s love within his heart and soul, lost the true feeling of empathy deep within his soul, as if he most likely didn’t feel any empathy, because he then would never of done what he did.

Shame on our elected officials that instead of letting people Grieve properly after such a tragic event, instead they immediately put a Political spin on the event, which shows nothing but, we have some so called leaders that care nothing for nobody but themselves and proves further that, they can not do their jobs properly and need to go and make room for another elected official in their place. that will actually do the job. Now with that said, President Donald Trump going to Vegas and visiting the injured in the hospital, not only showed compassion and empathy for them, but showed that without a doubt, he is a great leader and may God bless him, so he can lead us all here in America to the promise land, so we all can be better and stronger moving forward.

Another factor that really needs to be addressed within this Society, that was front and center during this terrible and even now is, the fact that the so called media and the ones that write and report on the news, really need a big slap in the back of the head, so they can smarten up and actually learn to be a true writer once again. ” Fake News”!!! Um……… maybe more like people that have put their own agenda, ahead of the true facts, then twisting around the words of other’s, to fit within their agenda. Because your person did not get elected into the office of President, doesn’t mean you need to create fiction, instead of writing of true fact. Those of us writer’s like myself are getting bad names, simply because you knuckleheads within the media, can’t even do your jobs correctly anymore. Writing is an art form, that when done correctly makes one feel good, when they create true words, that captivates and makes others feel good as well. When you write for your publication just to keep an agenda, your not being a true writer and just maybe you need to change your line of work? True writing is not about deadlines and agendas, true writing is all about creating words with feelings, not just words that makes you the writer feel good, but makes your audience feel good as well and when there is no feeling involved, then your not really writing, all you are doing is putting words on paper, so you than can put the greed within your pockets.

We all walk a path through this journey of life, part of this journey is going to have some tragic events that will come to us, we need to be able to grieve properly, so the whole grieving process, will and can help us become better and stronger moving forward. Now it is true that we as Humans will never forget those we are closest to when they are taken from us, which makes the whole grieving process that much more important, so we can heal ourselves, get back on track and continue the journey moving forward better and stronger. A big part of the grieving process is, each one of us showing our true love of one another with each other, as well as showing our true empathy with each other as well. It is not about spinning a tragic event political, it is not about putting twisted words on paper for an agenda, so you than can put greed within your pockets, that is not God’s vision as he created us. We as Humans have screwed up totally of what God had envisioned for us, which is why we have so many tragic events within this society, We only think of ourselves and do for ourselves, only because the love of God, our true empathy and our compassion for one another, is buried so deep within us. We need to dig down deep and retrieve it once again, so we all can move forward better and stronger, within the peace and happiness, that God envisioned for us, when he created each one of us, from the beginning of Mankind.

 

” The true grieving process is full of love and empathy, it is nothing about agendas or greed”

” True leaders are like President Donald Trump, a leader does not spin a tragedy for their own agenda”

” Writing is an art form that shows true creativity, it is nothing about twisting words to make good on an agenda”

” God’s vision in this journey through life, is all about love, peace and happiness, it is nothing about greed or agendas”

 

How Beautiful life really is……..

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I sit here looking out on to the lake, forget what day it is and who cares what time it is, of whatever day? All the worries and the stress just seem to melt away, as you look out on to the lake, with the sun’s glitter moving ever so slowly. You hear the Loons of in the distance ( which are the Maine state bird), chatting with each other, then as you look toward the sky, an American Bald Eagle goes flying over head with the greatest of ease, an adult mature Eagle at that, with the white head, tail and the golden beak. How beautiful life really is, without the crap of the everyday drama and the stress that comes with our 9 to 5’s, or within the cities of our Society.

We are truly blessed to be able to walk our paths through this journey of life, just that we get so consumed with the crap and the ugliness, that we don’t take the time to truly see and look deeply into what is around us. There is so much more to life than what we may think? Or what we think we may know from our daily grind? There is a whole new World out there, just that we need to stop, slow down and really look deeply into what we see. Yes technology has taken over and with that the Media thinks they have to share “ALL” the crap, just so they can fill their pockets with greed. We the People as much as we don’t think are the ones in control of our own destiny’s.

When the water is calm, the Oar passes through the the water like a hot knife through butter, with each stroke of the Oar, now you move forward within your canoe and the sound of the Oar passing through the water is so relaxing, even though you are working to go from point A to point B. Although when you paddle the Oar slowly, now you can enjoy whatever animal that may come to the lakes shore, for their daily splash and drink. Simply because you are being as quiet as a Church Mouse, not to scare or startle the beauty you are looking at.

Look out on to the Lake and see the shore on the other side, what is over there you wonder? Maybe other Camper’s? Maybe a Moose or Deer, or maybe a Bear, just like on the side your on? Then you think just how nice this is, to be able to share this beauty with other species. There is so much more to this journey through life than our daily grind and a lot more species also walk their paths through this journey with us, we are not alone, but we carry on like we are alone with our current actions, instead of really looking deeply into into what we see, as we walk our paths through this journey through life.

 

” The American Eagle so Majestic and beautiful, flying through the air with the greatest of ease”

” The sounds of the Loon may be different to those who do not know of the bird, but these sounds do relax if you just sit and listen”

” Blessed be God for all this true beauty, so we can get out and enjoy all that is around us”

” The Oar passing through the calm water is so soothing and relaxing, helps make the stress and the drama just melt away”

 

Change is constant and never ends……..

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Change comes to us in many different ways, we may struggle with change only because it is an unknown and like all unknowns, there tends to be some black clouds hanging around. A Leader of anything can and will lead us if we give them a chance, but unfortunately we don’t give that chance because we get stuck within the unknown. When president Trump or any President of our past was elected, the stock market took a crazy dip, but then stabilized later on, this is because the stock market deals in reality and can’t handle the unknowns either. Whenever there is a change of anything, there will always be a black cloud hanging over head, til we accept the change and deal with the unknown of change.

My Church in my community just went through some big changes, like downsizing from four Churches to two, there was a lot of chatter and push back from this change, the name changed to Annunciation Parish also, which when you think of the meaning of the name ( go out and announce), totally gives a chance to go out and announce to all that, through change we can be better and stronger for it.   Yes there will be some pain and hurt through the change, like closing two Churches with all their histories and the Parishioners histories within the walls of that Church, but when we totally understand all the change and except the change, it makes for a smoother transition.  Now we have the new Priest that took over through the downsizing and helped us all deal with the new change, just announced that he will be retiring next month, so we will be getting a different Leader and Priest for our Parish, just when things were starting to become smoother, now we have to get used to the new ways of the new Priest. True this is small change compared to the downsize change, but it is still change and brings that element of the unknown once again. You will hear the chatter once again, along with the negativity of change coming to the light again, but just like when dealing with any unknown, we need to understand the why, so we can except the change with open arms and an open mind.

Who knows this new Priest just might help us all ” go out and announce to the World”, that through any change we can be better and stronger for it. The Priest that’s leaving took us through the hard part of the change, going from four Churches to two, now we need to give the new Priest a chance, so he can carry us into the future of, going out and announcing to the World, that even through the unknown of change, when we except the change, we can move forward better and stronger. You think the Disciples followed Jesus willingly and gave up their lives for him at the beginning? Of course not, they had their reservations and followed cautiously because of the unknown part of the change.  We at Annunciation Parish have that same concept in front of us, with the entering of the new Priest. All roads of any change will be rough at the beginning, but when we understand better the change, when we except the change totally, this is when the roughness of the road becomes smoother and we then can truly “go out and announce to the World”, that through the change we have become better and stronger, as we walk our paths through this journey of life.

 

” The black clouds of the unknown are only temporary as with all change, when we better understand then the black clouds disappear for blue and brighter skies”

” The one thing that will never leave us on this journey of life is change, the black clouds and the unknown are temporary when we better understand”

” There are many forms of change we will go through along this journey, when we except the change it becomes easier to move forward”

” It is hard to except any unknown, but with better understanding the unknown becomes easier to deal with”

 

Happy Pentecost Sunday

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Happy Pentecost Sunday to you all! This should be a joyous and happy day for each of us, as we truly celebrate the Birthday of the Church. The Church is where we all gather and it does not matter of who you are, so we can celebrate God our father and his only son Jesus Christ, who came to us and walked his journey here with us.

Everyday throughout our journey we celebrate a birthday, as we are all born into this world for which we walk our paths of this journey, a birthday is really a way of acknowledging another year of our existence and celebrating a life within this journey. Now we need not get depressed and think of the years that have passed us by, but we should really think of the quality of the years and truly celebrate how blessed we are to be walking a path through a journey, that Jesus came and showed us, so we can walk in peace and happiness always.

Pentecost Sunday should be a joyous time for us all, as we celebrate a day that the Church has brought us all together. Within the Church we make our Baptism, our First Communions and our Conformations, these are times that Jesus fills our hearts with his love, so we than can share that love with each other. Through these times is when we get in touch with the Holy Spirit that is within us all, this is a powerful force within us, this force fills us with a warm feeling, that when we truly feel the warmth, we then can do anything we set our minds to. The Church in reality is the house of God, just like within our own houses, we are suppose to feel welcome and comfortable, so we then can be truly of who we are and bring the love of ourselves and the love of God to each other, moving forward on our paths of this journey through life.

In this Society we have totally gotten away from the Church and think we can walk this journey alone? how is that working out for you? With all the crap and ugliness we see around us today, totally proves that we can’t do it alone and need the Church, so we can talk with God and feel the love of his son Jesus within us all. Now some of us might be so consumed with the Media and think that they can warn us of all the ugliness around us, but seriously all they do is create way to much drama and glorify all the ugliness and the ones bringing the ugliness to us, simply by bringing it to us through the air waves of video and talk. This journey of life is not for the media types to dictate to us, or bring us all the ugliness, as we should be walking our paths of this journey like Jesus showed us, so we can truly feel his love within us, while the power of the Holy Spirit guides us along the journey, so we than can be at true peace and walk with a smile of true happiness.

Jesus sacrificed himself so we all could walk this journey in peace and happiness, when Jesus died and after the third day rose to Heaven at the right side of his father, he summoned all his Disciples together and then the winds came, which was the Holy Spirit entering their bodies, this was Jesus giving then the Power to go out and bring his words to all of us, who walk a path through this journey of life. We to have this Holy Spirit within us and need the Churches to help bring it out of us, so we also can go out and bring the words of Jesus Christ to each other. Now as we celebrate our birthdays, may we all celebrate this day of the Pentecost and the birth of the Church, so we all can walk our paths of this journey through life in peace and happiness always.

 

” Pentecost Sunday is a celebration of the Church, which brings the words of God to us as well as getting in touch with the love of Jesus and ourselves”

” May the thorns of the crown that Jesus wore always remind us of his suffering for us, so we can move forward better and stronger”

” Within this Society we want to celebrate everything around us, but with all the celebrations we then celebrate all the wrong things”

” Let’s not be dictated by all the drama and ugliness, let’s then be dictated by the love of Jesus for us and the power of the Holy Spirit within us”

 

The Thin Ice of Political Correction

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We within this Society with the Political Correction of today have become so weak, that we are not only afraid to say what we truly mean to each other, but we all have become someone for which we truly are not. we pussy foot around all the real issues, just to stab each other in the back and we have been doing this so long, that we really don’t think there is anything wrong with it. Just look at the ones in Public office that we vote for, they say what we want to hear, then do the complete opposite when they get into office, now we have someone like Donald Trump running for President and he speaks his mind, as he don’t believe in Political Correction, so we then think he is wrong and a nut case, simply because we have become so weak, that we don’t want to hear the actual truth and find out just how screwed we are within this Society.

Political Correction goes against everything that built this Country into the power house it was, now because of it, this Country has weakened greatly and if we stay this course, America will change greatly, to which we true Americans will not like the change and the road that we are currently on. This Political Correct road we are on now, has us all afraid to hear the real truth and pull back from walking our path through this journey of life, with strength and confidence, to be better as we move forward.

Right no within this Country, our Fore Fathers that made this Country great with their hard work, are turning over in their Graves, with the way we have latched onto this Political Correction. The movement that Donald Trump started with bringing out the real truth, has become even stronger, as he is not only speaking the truth, but he is saying what a lot of us want to say, only we are afraid to say it, because of this Political Correction. The only problem with Donald Trump and the way he speaks the truth is, he is a bit rough around the edges and we really don’t know just how to handle it, simply because we are weakened by this Political Correct Society for which we live.

Change comes to all of us as we walk our paths through this journey of life, the problem lies with each of us as we, don’t really handle change to well, sometimes we tend to take the easy way, only because we have become too lazy to put the work in and let true change take it’s course, so we can be better and stronger moving forward. The biggest problem with this Political Correction is each one of us within this Society, as we all have become so lazy to put the work in, that we have become weak and are afraid of any truth, whether good or bad. instead of Political Correction, let’s get back to the days of constructive Criticism, which will make us stronger moving forward, Constructive Criticism is a way for us to handle the truth and help us accept change better whether good or bad.

constructive Criticism is the best way for us in handling any truth of anything, plus it keeps our true feelings and emotions alive and in the for front of who we truly are. With Political Correction we become fake and hide our true feelings and emotions, leaving us with zero empathy of not only ourselves, but zero empathy for each other, as we can see with the groups like ISIS we see today. With this Political correction we have lost totally of just how our self esteem truly works, because with no self esteem, we then have no Hope and Faith of who we truly are. Hope and Faith go together, with no hope there will never be Faith, just like with no Faith there will never be any Hope for any of us, Jesus taught us all this when he came and walked his journey with us, just that we within this Society are so far removed from those days, we forget and have no Faith in Jesus himself. When we have complete Faith in Jesus, not only will we have complete in ourselves, we will have complete Faith in each other, leaving us with plenty of hope, as we walk our paths through this journey of life.

 

” Hope and Faith go together like peanut butter and jelly, without either we will never be true to our selves or one another”

” Political Correction has not only made us all weak, it has totally turned us against each other”

” Constructive Criticism is a way for us to accept the truth better, making us all stronger moving forward”

” The thin ice of Political Correction has us all walking on egg shells around one another”

 

The Perfect slice……..

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The perfect camp site where the only way to get to it is, drive a boat there loaded with your camping gear. I can’t say where it is, only because I don’t want to give away this hidden gem. You want peace and serenity? you will have plenty of it here, great place to unwind from the daily grind we all go through on our paths of our journey through life. Just sit and relax, while you breathe in the air which is the cleanest air you will ever breathe anywhere. The beauty of the Pines around you, while you set your tent on the carpet of the pine needles so soft that you will fall asleep as soon as you lay down. Set up your kitchen and dining area by the campfire at the waters edge, then enjoy breakfast with the sunrise and dinner by the sunset, it really doesn’t get any better than this. During the day go for walks and truly explore what is around you and have fun learning as you go. This is a campsite that truly is more beautiful than you can ever imagine, i have camped in a lot of places, even at 13,000 feet on a mountain in the Colorado Rockies, but this site? Now your talking a beauty of it’s own.

The Pine tree in the middle looked like it was just struck by lightening, judged by the freshness of the tree and the way it split down toward the bottom of the trunk,    thank God I wasn’t around when the lightening struck, but when your camping deep within the woods around a lake as this, it is wise advice to always keep an eye to the sky and always be prepared for anything, including the presence of a Bear or two? True Camper’s who like the real primitive type of camping, aren’t wavered by these kind of threats, but they are well prepared for whatever situation that may cross their paths. For some their idea of camping is backing the trailer into a site and plugging into the electric and connecting the water hose for a flushing toilet? To me that is not camping, that is parking with all the comforts of home, true camping is to get out of your comfort zone and explore all that is around you, where you make your own enjoyment or simply just relax and clear your mind of all the crap within it, from the daily grind of this journey of life.

Camping is a sort of therapy, where it soothes your sole, clears the mind, so you can get back to truly being yourself, which is why the location of the site is the, or should be the number one priority. These big Public KOA campsites are okay, but your not going to get the same peace and serenity, like the campsite in the picture, the bigger campsites have daily activities laid out for you, but the whole idea behind real primitive camping is too escape the chains of our everyday life and be free, to explore, forget what time it is and just go with the flow, then learn to see the location of the sun in the sky and determine what time of day it is. We all walk a path through this journey of life and camping is a way to, clear our heads of all the crap in our daily lives, soothe the soul to truly relax, recharge our batteries, so we can get back to being who we truly are, instead of this fake portrayal of ourselves and pretending to be someone we are not.

 

” Camping isn’t just a way to relax or clear your head, it was a way of life at the beginning of Mankind”

” The Native Indians would camp everyday as they slept in their Tee Pee’s every night and made a camp fire for their Tribal rituals”

” The beauty of camping is to enjoy all there is around you”

” Camping for some is to back up the trailer and plug in the cord for their television and appliances, true camping is to unwind and get away from all the distractions”

 

Karma will always avenge those with false acquisitions

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It is sad that in today’s Society some will accuse others of things they have never done…… Why? Your guess is as good as mine, maybe it’s the fact that they lack their own self confidence and this is a way for them to try to move forward, while thinking they are better than you?  Could also mean that they have some hidden issues that they are afraid to address? I get the fact we all have our own issues that we deal with on a daily basis, but when we deal with issues that are brought on by others, that make false accusations, shows just how people in this Society need to grow up, accept the responsibility of their actions, learn how to be confident in their abilities and instead of burying their issues deep within their sole, fix what needs to be fixed, so we all can move forward in peace and happiness, along our paths of this journey through life.

Self Confidence is something we all learn as we grow along our paths of this journey, self confidence doesn’t just happen as it is achieved by the way we learn to be better at all we do along our paths. When we lack this Self Confidence shows that we have become lazy at earning and achieving it, we forget how to practice whatever we need to practice, so we can achieve the confidence to move forward, within this Society we have become so lazy, we forget what it is to work hard for what we want, to work hard to gain our self confidence and when we get that lazy we then get lost within the clouds of our own self doubt. When self doubt enter onto our paths, we then will do anything, in order to move forward, even if that means knocking others down, so we then what we think is moving ahead of them? This is only one thing and that is, the fact that we lack the confidence in ourselves to move forward correctly, so we then can achieve success correctly, while we all become happy everyday of our journey.

Self Confidence isn’t just in the ability of a person that plays a sport, it is within each of us along our paths of our journey, we strive for the confidence to be great at whatever we are doing, when we lack the confidence and we become lazy to work hard at achieving it, we then will do anything to try to achieve it, yes that means we will try to bring down others around us,  to make it seem like we are better, even though they do the job better than I? Simply look at some one like Tom Brady of the New England Patriots, he works very hard, not just at practice, but within the game of football he plays, with that hard work and practice, he has enough self confidence in his abilities, that he is by far the best Quarterback in football, those within the game that chats ill of him are simply jealous and are lazy to work as hard as Tom, not too mention the reason why some hate on him so much. Life along our paths of this journey will go so much smoother if we all work hard and practice everything we do, fix whatever issues we have, so we can achieve our self confidence and be better and stronger moving forward.

 

” Self Confidence isn’t something that just comes to us, we have to work hard in achieving whatever we do to gain the Confidence”

” To bring another down is not the way for us to achieve success, or even move forward stronger and better”

” When we lack self confidence only means we have issues that we need to fix, so we can achieve the confidence to be better and stronger moving forward”

 

When are we going to grow up in this Society

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There is a fire burning uncontrollably within this Society, that it is engulfing each and every one of us, as we walk our paths through this journey of life. That fire is in fact the way we treat each other, along our paths, without first thinking of our actions, before we take the action.

When we don’t think through the action, before we actually take action, now without looking deeply into all we do, we are creating a Victim and these Victim’s are every where we turn, no matter what walk of life we come from, or what side of the street you are on.  A Victim don’t ask to be a victim, they become a victim because someone took advantage of them and because the Victim has feelings of Guilt and why me? Among many other feelings as well as emotions, The Victim now try’s to hide within themselves, instead of communicating and working on fixing the wrong that just happened to them.

the Individual that created the Victim, does so by not thinking through their actions, before they actually take that action, maybe even they themselves have been a Victim and this is how they try to take back control, that was taken from them? This is one big vicious circle that will continue, unless we extinguish the fire that burns throughout this Society.

With this case of the Student from Stanford University, he says if he wasn’t drinking that he would not of done what he did? I got a News Flash!!! for you, drinking lowers your inhibitions and then makes you do the things that are deep within you, that sober you would be too scared to do. Could be that he was abused as a child and through the drinking, he felt he could take back the control that was taken from him? We don’t truly know, only he himself knows, as it is deep within him and he probably suppressed it so deep within himself, that the drinking……. with his sub conscious, brought it out in a very wrong way and unless he himself wants to address this, then it will stay buried deep within his sole. To look at him in Court, he was emotionless with no remorse that I saw , the way he looked tells me he is hurting inside from something, but only he has the answer to truly fixing himself and the wrong that he just made.

Enough of the one that committed this awful act, it is the Victim that nobody really pays attention to and it is the Victim that suffers from and act such as this, for a long time too come. The one that created the Victim might of only got six months in jail? But what about the Victim that will suffer in many ways years to come? Unless the Victim gets the proper help, they may never get over their trauma, it may only take a simple smell, or a certain word spoken to them, that triggers their memory and right back into the world of being a Victim they go. It is sad that we pay more attention to the Perpetrator, than we do the Victim and the Victim ends up hiding within themselves, in order to try to move forward along their path of their journey through life. If you look at some of the Victims, they are the ones that become Perpetrator’s and a high percentage at that. The way you extinguish the fire that burns throughout this Society is, pay more attention to the Victims that have been created, help them get the proper help they need, so they can properly fix what is wrong, then not only themselves will be better moving forward, but we all throughout Society will be better as well. Then we all can walk our paths through this journey of life, in peace and happiness everyday.

 

” The fire that burns throughout our Society is a towering inferno right now, cause their are Victims being created everywhere, everyday”

” True the Perpetrator has hidden issues that need attention, but only they know what the issues are in order to truly fix them”

” A Victim is created not by their choice, but by a choice of another that needs to think through their actions before taking action”

” We all hurt deep inside and only we as individuals know of the hurt, to act out on another is not the proper way to address our hurt”