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Let’s clear the deadwood and end Bullying now,

Posted on May 3, 2018May 3, 2018 by bowlingchef

There is so much more to walking the path we chose through this journey of life. We all at some point within our lives have been Bullied or have Bullied another, the thing we never talk about especially those who have been Bullied is, the fact that when you are being Bullied, you are shamed into thinking maybe something is wrong with me? Shame is a very powerful feeling deep within us all, when we are shamed we tend to forget who we truly are, for which we then put forth a fake self, just to try to fit in and be accepted. When we are shamed by another and bullied to the point we try to avoid others, we then become as lonely as this tree with all the deadwood around it.

There is so much true beauty around us as well as the beauty within each of us, that when we are Bullied and are shamed from the Bullying, we never get a chance to truly see any of the beauty around us or within. We walk our paths of this journey for we ourselves, it’s not about making others happy, it is more about being truly happy deep within ourselves, so we than can be happy on the outside, as we take this happiness to all that is around us. What a Bully never see’s when he is in the process of controlling what’s around him is, he never see’s any beauty either as to him there is nothing but power and control, plus the fact that a Bully has lost the feelings deep within himself like, the feelings of empathy or compassion, because if he felt either of these, he would never be a Bully anymore, to terrorize anyone of us.

The effects from a Bully can and will last a lifetime, they will leave scars and these scars can’t be seen, as they are deep within us, whether we want to admit to them or not. The scars from being shamed by a Bully are not just a scar that, with a band aid they heal and disappear from sight, these scars are emotional and come with great pain and hurt. The pain and hurt coming from shame, will have us become someone we truly are not, we ourselves won’t even recognize ourselves as we hide deep within ourselves and put forth this fake self, to try to protect ourselves from further pain and hurt, we will rationalize away anything coming from the shame as well as , going deep into denial, which then has us not even accepting our actions moving forward.

Bullying is nothing more than having the power and control over someone/something, it is also nothing more than using fear to have that power and control, a Bully is also a Coward as they can not even accept their own issues and then, they take it out on someone around them. A Bully can be anybody and you could be standing next to one now? The true way too stop a Bully is look them in the eye , show no fear as they try to make you fear, show them that they can not hurt or control you, as they then will cower away, like the true Coward for whom they are. There are Bully’s everywhere whether Domestic or abroad, we all have to face one sooner or later, now through Social media there are even the worse kind of Bully, known as the Cyber Bully, to which we never face, because they are a true coward that hides behind their device, these individuals can’t face any issues, let alone their own issues and hiding behind a device proves that, the problem is, they will do and say anything to have us become a slave to their words, so they than can ( in their own minds) seem as powerful to anything along this journey, but in realty they are the weakest link to this Society and need to be treated as such, so they will disappear from all our paths of this journey through life.

” A Bully is nothing more than a Coward that try’s to inflict fear on all that is around them”

” With a Bully it is all about power and control, when we don’t give them that, then they disappear like the tumble weeds in the wind of the desert”

” Shame is a very powerful feeling deep within us all and when we become shamed we then lose sight of who we truly are”

” Cyber Bullying is the new way of a Coward to try to control each of us, time we nip it in the bud and end their reign of terror”

” We all want the power and control, but when we forget of truly who we are, then our actions become inaction’s throughout our paths of this journey”

An Anniversary of Good versus Evil

Posted on April 16, 2018April 16, 2018 by bowlingchef

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” May the sun always shine on the Boston Marathon, the sun showing good with no evil present”

Despite the weather, this day of the Boston marathon will always be more than just a competition of running. Five years ago two Brothers decided to bring hatred and evil to all that were at the marathon, but quickly found out that, no matter how planned out you thought you were, the good will always win out over any evil. You hear more about the different charities a lot of runners are running for, yes all the runners start out with the same goal and that is to cross the now famous finish line of the Boston Marathon. Some may not finish as their bodies become overwhelmed with exhaustion, some may feel the true warmth of God’s love no matter how cold the weather, when a fellow runner stops and either helps or carries them across the finish line and yes, the true competition may be in the front of the pack, with the ones who want to finish first, but the real competition starts from the middle to the end of the pack, with all the love and empathy showed of each other, not too mention all the charities being run for.

Five years ago there was very ugly tragedy at the finish line of the Boston Marathon but through that tragedy, there has been so much good that has come from it, that it just fills your heart with the warmth of God’s love and willing to share that love with each other. We the people need so badly to realize that, we don’t need evil to find the love, simply because the love is within us all and all we need to do is, just reach down deep within ourselves and truly feel the warmth of the love, then share it with our good and thoughtful actions, instead of letting evil turn us into someone we truly are not.

With the ones who perished five years ago at the marathon, especially one eight year old boy named Martin Richards, who was full of life and with his sign that read, ” no more hurting people…………. Peace” we will never find out, of just how much good could of come from this young innocent boy? Those who perished and those who survived the terrible tragedy, are now victims from the terrible day and that will never change throughout their lives, they can either let the victimization stew within their thoughts throughout the rest of their journey’s, or they can move forwarded better and stronger, by who they truly are from such a terrible tragedy, showing nothing but good and a smile everyday, as they walk their paths throughout this journey of life.

All versions of the media want nothing more than to hold onto all the ugliness and the hatred, as this is what makes them money and keep s them creating all the drama around us, simply because it is their agenda and they don’t want to waiver from it, what the media tends to forget is, they are not as powerful as they think? The real power belongs to us the people, as we are the ones that can turn them off and ignore all that they are about. The problem now is, we have forgotten how to turn them off and we have become too addicted to all the drama around us today. Only if we get back to truly of who we are, then and only then, will we the people not only control who we are, but we then will take back control, of what the media has taken from us, with all their agendas and their fake news/ drama. Let’s get back to looking at events like the Boston marathon with the eyes of good, so then there will be no room at the Inn for any evil of any kind,

It’s too bad that we within this Society think that we need tragedies to see any good, we also make fun of others pains, just to forget our own pain, it doesn’t have to be this way, only if we had more faith in ourselves and in Jesus Christ, if only we made more trips to the house of God, then just maybe all the good will flow from each of us, with no sight of any evil anywhere within our futures. Our destiny’s are not about any evil, our true destiny’s starts within ourselves, as we truly feel the love of God within us and as that love warms us, then we can share that love with each other, instead of showing hatred or attacking one another with much ugliness. We all walk a path through this journey of life, we all start out the same at the beginning, as well as finish the journey the same as well, but what lies within the middle of the journey, lies completely within ourselves and the actions we take and bring to each other. The good versus evil talk lies completely within ourselves and until we get over ourselves and realize this, then we will always have evil to get around, on all our paths of this journey.

” The good will always win out over evil, we just have to have complete faith in ourselves as well as in Jesus Christ”

” When you look deeply into what you see, you can clearly see the good with no evil in sight”

” Five years since the terrible tragedy at the Boston marathon, shows just how good always wins over any evil”

” it’s the media that keeps the drama of the tragedies alive with their agendas, time to see clearly through the drama at the reality of our paths through the journey”

May the Lenten Journey bring us Peace

Posted on March 18, 2018March 18, 2018 by bowlingchef

” And when I am lifted up from the Earth, I will draw everyone to myself”.

*** John 12:32 ***

May the Lenten journey bring you closer to the Lord, may you totally feel his love that is deep within your heart and soul, for which you need not look any further than yourself. Then as you feel the love of God within you and become soothed by the warmth, then let us all spread this Love with each other, instead of this hatred, that is ripping us apart.

Love is in the air and no it is not a red heart with Cupid’s arrow going through it, it’s the true love from Jesus Christ to us all, who walk a path through this journey of life. Jesus came to us and sacrificed for us all, he taught us so many things and with his teachings came his true love for us all, no matter of who you were. The biggest thing Jesus showed us, was how too resist Temptation, as it is everywhere and will try to control who we truly are. This Temptation is just Satan trying to steer us away from Jesus, so he can bring hatred and ugliness, instead of the true beauty and love that Jesus brings.

Just as God our Father gave us his one and only son………… Jesus Christ. Maybe to one day? Jesus will bring to us his son, so we of this Society being so removed from his journey, can truly see and feel his love deep within our hearts and souls. We so truly need this. as just like the Society back then, there is way to much Temptation, hatred and ugliness, at every turn along our paths of this journey. With so many that have wandered away from the house of the Lord, I think it is time we revisit, see what has changed and what has stayed constant? Just maybe if we all make the trek back to the house of the Lord, we all can get back in touch with who we truly are, which is someone who is nothing but love, happiness and joy, with at no time has, any kind of hatred or ugliness. These are learned from somewhere and it is time to unlearn them, so we all can move forward, in the Peace of the Lord always and forever.

May the waterfall of this picture, cleanse us all and wash away our sins, so we than can move forward in Jesus Christ, truly feel his love deep within our hearts and souls, so we than can share this love with each other and not, this hatred or ugliness, that consumes us now. The good will always prevail, just we so need to have complete faith in, not just ourselves but in Jesus Christ as well, so we than can have the hope in all we do moving forward. If you look deeply into the water going over the falls, you can clearly see the strands of water, instead of just looking and seeing black….white……then black again. The white of the falls represents the paths of each of us, as all our sins, pain and suffering gets washed away, so we than can get back in touch with who we truly are, with zero distractions, as we walk this journey through life, in Peace and Happiness always.

” The journey of Lent isn’t just for Catholics or Christians, as Jesus Christ welcomes all to come to the journey”

” The Lenten journey is all about love, peace, sacrifice and a self examination of your inventory deep within”

” The love of Jesus Christ is within us all, time we all truly feel it and unleash it’s true power”

” Jesus is around us everywhere, we just have to see his signs and truly feel his love, then we can move forward with true strength always”

Have the Faith to Renew without Denial

Posted on February 25, 2018February 25, 2018 by bowlingchef

” Lent is a fitting time for self Denial, we would do well to ask ourselves what we can give up in order to help and enrich others by our own poverty, let us not forget that real poverty hurts: No self denial is real without this dimension of Penance”.

*** Pope Francis***

Pope Francis is simply trying to pull us all together, so we than can move forward within the peace of God, without the ugliness of this Society. We will never be renewed on this journey of Lent, if at first we don’t have the complete Faith, of not just ourselves but within Jesus Christ as well.

We all in this Society are in total Denial, as we can’t even take responsibility for either our actions, nor our inaction’s. We walk our paths as if we are better then all those around us, we think we are always right even when we are wrong? God didn’t teach us the error of our ways, nor did his son Jesus Christ, when he came and walked this journey with us. We have become so consumed with all the drama and the ugliness, that we have totally forgotten of “just how to walk within the shadow of our path in the light of this journey through life.

There is so much negativity all around us, that we have to scramble in order to find anything positive anymore. With all the technology everywhere around us, especially as we sit and become consumed with the game within the computer, not only have we let these computer games control us, but we have let them become addicted, to the addictive personality within us. The other part of this technology and all the social media platforms out there are, we now can hide behind our computer screens, with zero interaction of each other anymore. Without the daily interactions then our people skills we can not practice, which we then will have us become negative, sarcastic and hurtful towards one another. Gone are the days of, the children coming home from school, going home to change, so we can meet up with the other neighborhood children and putting together a pick up game of whatever sport we choose on that day? These are the days that made us into who we become and helped us learn the art of social interactions, so we than can come together in total unity, to conquer all our fears with confidence and gusto.

Lent is a perfect time for us all to reflect, renew, sacrifice as Jesus did on his journey, so we can come together in unity, come together as one, so we than can help each other, instead of attack one another, with the full cooperation of each other, as we put down the technology and actually interact with each other. Technology yes is good and can help us moving forward, but when we become engulfed in it and lose total interaction with each other, now we have entered into the dark side of the technology, with all of us paying the price from our inaction’s and inability to come together and show our true feelings, of empathy and love that is deep within our hearts and souls.

We all hurt in our own way, with the pain from the hurt affecting us all very differently, we all have our issues as well, with some being greater than others, you just never know of how deeply someone hurts real pain deep within? This is why we are all in the dark side of the technology, as we hide behind the technology and never actually see of who we are hurting, or who is hurting anywhere, the real pain of the poverty. Because we hide behind the technology, we don’t allow ourselves to truly feel any feelings, when we do go out our people skills do not come with us, as we do not even give each other the time of day, which makes it very easy for us to becomes so engulfed in all the ugliness of today. Empathy…………Huh! it doesn’t even exist, simply because we are so consumed with ourselves, Empathy and love are both within our hearts and souls and that warmth you feel in your heart, that is Jesus talking to us, but in this Society we simply ignore him, like he doesn’t even exist.

Jesus sacrificed for us, so why can’t we sacrifice for him and maybe get out from the technology from time to time, like during the forty day journey of lent, then we can actually see each other and just maybe interact with each other. Then through that interaction, just maybe we can get back in touch with our true feelings deep within our hearts and souls, so we all can walk our paths through this journey of life, in the peace and happiness, with the true love that Jesus showed us, while leading us to the path of righteousness.

” Through true interactions of each other, there will never be objectification as we view each other as a person within this journey”

” Denial we may not realize now, is the suppression of our true selves deep within ourselves”

” The journey within the journey as we walk for forty days through Lent just as Jesus did from ash Wednesday to Easter”

” Instead of hiding behind the technology and the social platforms, go out and actually be social and learn to interact with those around you”

” Some may hurt real pain with some being brought on by another, but to suppress the real feelings will only amplify the pain, instead of helping to relieve the pain”

We are ” Destroying” ourselves throughout this Journey

Posted on February 20, 2018February 21, 2018 by bowlingchef

” The ship is sailing to take us to our destination, not to dictate of where others think we should go”

*** BowlingChef***

We of this Society have witnessed way too much ugliness, even more than Societies of the past, true other Societies have seen some ugliness, but the ugliness around us today, has pretty much taken on a life of it’s own. I mean seriously………….. All the mass shootings, the Terrorists wanting nothing more than to end all those who don’t share their warped and twisted so called lifestyles, then there are the children of the inner cities getting a hold of guns and turning them on anyone, just because they think it would be cool? You have the Parent’s of these children going around like their children are Angels and all other children are wrong? You send your children to school everyday so they can become smarter and live a life better than yourself, but instead the schools are a mess, between the Bully’s and the deranged ones wanting to hurt others around them, not only where are the Parents when their children need them most, but where are the Teachers, who not only are supposed to teach our children, but it is also their responsibility to keep the children’s safe from all harm and most importantly, the Parents actually trust these Individuals to keep their children safe, during their duration of the school day.

Natural disasters like Hurricanes, Earthquakes, Tornadoes etc….. These are going to happen and worry us greatly, but having to worry about all the other ugliness around us today, no wonder why we are a broken Society today. Most of all the ugliness around us today is the responsibility of we the People of this Society and we are not doing a good enough job in eliminating this ugliness. We vote for these so called leaders to lead us in this Society, so we can all be better and stronger moving forward, but instead these so called leaders say what we want to hear, then stab us in the back when they get voted in and proceed to do what they want to only benefit themselves. They make these Bills that turn into law only to help a certain few and the rest of us are left to fend for ourselves and struggle greatly, work hard, while some get everything handed to them on a silver platter? You want real equality……….. It has nothing to do with how much money you have, or what color you are, or even what sex you are, we are all Humans on this Earth, walking a path through this journey of life and we all need to smell the sweet smell of reality, instead of simply dreaming and sponging off of others.

These so called ” Dreamers” who walk into a country and think they can sponge off the people of that country, need to seriously get a life and try working as the rest of us do everyday. Your dreams will never come true if at first, you don’t put in the work and simply help yourself achieve your dreams. Let’s take the American Dream for instance, you think you can just lay there and ” Poof”, your dreams are there in front of you when you awaken? I got a news flash for you…………. it don’t happen that way, you first have to work hard, so then your dreams can become reality. In this Society for some reason, we have become afraid of working hard and even the thought of work, not only scares the hell out of some, but it sickens them to the point they can’t even get out of bed to work. The video game craze has made us become anti social, as we sit in front of a computer, instead of going out and becoming social with those around us, because of this we have become very scared of face to face interactions with anybody, but put us in front of a PC and suddenly we now become very active with our voice and in most cases, we say the wrong things cause there is no true interaction going on at all.

There is a simple solution to all this ugliness, but first we as a Society have to come together in unity, then the solution will be right there in front of us, especially when we not only have complete faith in Jesus Christ, but we also have complete faith in ourselves. With the complete faith in Jesus and ourselves, then there is always hope for a bright future, as we walk our paths through this journey of life. Also when we dig down deep within our hearts and souls, then we can truly feel the love and empathy within us, which will then aid all of us moving forward, as we then battle all the ugliness and defeat it, once and for all. The ugliness is only a product of just how divided we have become, leading us into this broken Society, if we only felt deeply of the love and empathy within us, then all the ugliness will disappear from all our paths through this journey of life, so we all can be at peace and happiness, while we all work hard at making our dreams become our reality.

” A dream is something we make up while we sleep and is greatly different from what reality truly is”

” Sometimes a dream can become a reality, but first you need to work hard to make it that reality”

” Some may try to steer us in the direction that we feel uncomfortable, which is why we need complete faith in Jesus and ourselves to overcome and go in our own direction”

” We are all equal to each other as Humans walking a path no matter of who you are, which is why we should never let money, color or sex determine our equality”

A day for Holocaust Remembrance………

Posted on January 28, 2018January 29, 2018 by bowlingchef

” To watch over, to protect, to serve, all the qualities that are deep within us all”

Throughout this journey of life and with the many Societies that have come before us, there have been much crap that has come to us, there has been a whole lot of ugliness, that you think just maybe we would of all learned from it? There to is so much hatred around us today and within the time of Societies past, that instead of learning from it, we then proceed forward, without addressing it, so it all festers deep within us, which then we let it totally control of who we truly are.

Love is much more powerful than all the hatred we see today, but yet we let the hatred seem as if, it is more powerful while it controls of who we are. Love is also within us all, as the hatred is a learned process and in no way is this within us. Instead of showing our true empathy of each other, we then mock, make fun of and laugh at those around us, when they fall and become hurt with real pain. It is sad when you are one on one with another and that other will show their compassion and empathy with you, but when there is a group around them, now they will stop at nothing, to show to others that they are more powerful than those around them.

There has been many times within our past like the time of the Holocaust, many times with many people hurting real pain at the hands of others or another. We the people let this happen simply because, we are too afraid to end up like those in real pain, within today’s world we have the groups like the Terrorist’s, that use fear with their sick and deranged actions, to bring much hatred and ugliness all around us. The Terrorists have in many ways become modernized, smarter and more creative, in the ways they bring this ugliness and hatred to us, so the way we eliminate them are, we become smarter and more creative, while we stand up to them and look them in the eyes, then put their fear they bring to us and put it right back on them, all the while we dig down deep and totally release the Love and Empathy within us, throughout all that is around us.

People who suffered through the Holocaust were innocence surrounded by ignorance and those who thought that, treating others as they did, would make them more powerful then all those around them? There are still some out there around us, still living from that terrible time they went through and yes they still feel deeply the pain and the horror of that time. We may never truly heal from such a horrible time, but we can move forward through time to be better and stronger, but when we let hatred control of who we are, when we let all the ugliness around us consume us so, we will never truly feel the love and the empathy, that is within us all.

When God created us, he filled our hearts and souls with his love and empathy, so we can share this with each other, God did not in any way, put within us this hatred or ugliness we see around us today, all the hatred and ugliness is on we the people of this Society, who walk a path through this journey of life. The hatred we have learned over time and with our actions of each other and should in no way, define who we truly are. Who we truly are is, a Human with the love and empathy of God deep within our hearts and souls, who shows true compassion of each other, while we walk our paths through this journey of life, so we all can be at true peace, with the smile of happiness on all of our faces, no matter of who you are.

” The Holocaust was a horrible time with much pain and hurt, to truly heal we first need to look back so we can not repeat such a horrible time”

” The pain and hurt of hatred may scar our souls, but the scars should never dictate for who we truly are”

” Hatred is learned, the ugliness may consume us, but the love is deep within us and the most powerful of the three”

” We the people with our actions have created times like the Holocaust, we the people with our actions can spread the love within us all for true peace and happiness”

Let there be Peace on Earth………

Posted on December 24, 2017January 8, 2018 by bowlingchef

” Glory to God in the highest and on Earth Peace among those with whom he is pleased”

Luke 2:14

The search for Peace on Earth begins with each one of us, we all have that inner Peace deep within ourselves, just that through all the chaos and ugliness within this Society, we have lost that inner Peace deep within.

God has sent us the signs for us all to see, he has even sent his one and only son………….. Jesus Christ, to show us the way to the path of righteousness, to show us of how to truly feel the warmth of God’s love that is deep within, to also show us when we think all is lost, just how to forgive not only those around us, but to forgive ourselves, so we than can keep moving forward better and stronger.

There are many facets to this journey of life, but none are as important than the way we treat each other along this journey. We ourselves are what is wrong with the way the chaos and ugliness have taken us over. I get the fact that we all will suffer through these life events, I get the fact that the paths will be bumpy at times, but when we don’t truly understand the why’s of why they happen, then they will control of everything we truly are, which will then leave us with someone we truly do not recognize. They say ” everything happens for a reason”, I must say I agree as without these things that happen to us, then life would be boring and we could not move forward better and stronger.

Peace on Earth does not just mean that the Earth is Peaceful? Peace on Earth is that inner Peace within us all, then sharing that Peace with each other. True there are places on Earth we can go, when we need to unwind and destress, these places are magical and full of true beauty, these places have also been created by God and put in place for us all to seek, so we than can have a place to go, to get back in touch with who we truly are. This inner Peace is what paves our paths smooth, from the bumps that may bring us harm and pain, it will also help us truly feel the love of God deep within our hearts and souls, so we than can share this love with all those around us and only then will the chaos and ugliness cease to exist within our Society.

Peace on Earth isn’t just for each of us to lay silent all at once, it is for each of us to truly get in touch with it deep within our being. The problem with this Society and all the ugliness around us is, not only have we lost this inner Peace, but we have let the chaos and ugliness consume us, to which we have all lost of truly who we are, we ourselves and our actions within this Society are where the blame should lie within this Society, so in order to fix what we need to fix, then we first should start within ourselves and the actions we take within this Society of many. Now within this Society of Arrogance, we will always point the finger to where we think the blame should be, but we will never look deep within ourselves to where the blame lies, this is the part we are doing wrong in the eyes of God, this is where we need to change the most and except more responsibility instead of pointing the finger of blame. As we then take more responsibility of our actions, just maybe we all can look deeper within ourselves and find that inner peace, find the true warmth of God’s love within us, then just maybe our paths will smooth en out, so we all can walk in peace with happiness throughout this journey of life.

” May there be peace on Earth so we all can find the true happiness we all so deserve and as God had envisioned for us”

” This planet Earth has much beauty and peace, but the beauty of our inner peace is the most beautiful thing we will ever know”

” When we lose touch with our inner peace, is when we need to dig deep and work even harder, to release the power of our inner peace within us”

” The beauty of Christmas is within our inner peace, so as we release the power of our inner peace, then the beauty of Christmas will be with us throughout the year

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