Creature of Habit no more

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We all walk a path through this journey of life, we all have our quirks, which makes us very unique to each other. While we walk these paths, there will be these life events that come to us, some are overwhelming, as some are minuscule and small. These events can and will rob us of our reality, with us becoming someone for who we are not. Sometimes these events come to us by our own actions and sometimes by the actions of another, no matter of how they come, they need to be dealt with the proper way, so we then can be truly of who we are and move forward better and stronger, throughout this journey of life.

We get so comfortable in our everyday lives, we then get consumed within our little ruts, not just because it is convenient  for us, but because we then feel safe in our little worlds, as we try to keep further hurt and pain from reaching us anymore. Yes we do have pain, hurt and sorrow that will come to us, but we will stay within our comfortable ruts, in order to minimize the pain that comes to us. Now when the pain and hurt becomes great, we then try to bury it deep within, simply because we try not to cry or show emotion. This society is warped because, we think that when we show emotion or cry, we are looked at as weak, which then has others preying on us, just so they can look powerful and almighty? So we then further stay within our comfort zones, so the pain and hurt can stay manageable by our actions, instead of it controlling of who we truly are.

Habits are formed by us and us only, Habits just don’t come to us, they are something we do with our actions, whether good or bad.  When we become consumed within the Habit, is when the creature from within the Habit is unleashed, it then controls us, even if we don’t want to admit to the controlling. With a good Habit we then feel good of ourselves, as with a bad Habit, we then feel less than and let Denial enter within us, which then brings a whole new dimension into the equation, which has us not even letting ourselves escape the clutches of the Habit. With any bad Habit, there then comes the craftiness of creating the perfect lie, is there really a perfect lie? Any lie whether a small white lie, or a huge life changing lie, it is never right and never needs to be looked at, or mentioned in the same sentence with the word perfect. Denial is full of lies, it becomes a series of lies, with one right after the other and the lies never end. Then when we become consumed with the lie, we then believe in the lie as if we are doing nothing wrong.

The only Creature is the one that lives within ourselves, a Habit is something we do with our actions. Any Habit good or bad can be broken, just that we have to have enough self discipline within, so we can replace a Habit, with a better one moving forward, so in the long run we ourselves can be better and stronger moving forward, as we walk our paths through this journey of life.

 

” All Habits whether good or bad can be broken, just that we let ourselves get too deep within denial and lose sight of true reality”

” Comfortable ruts are good if we can keep moving forward to be better, it’s when we become stagnant that we then need to change the rut”

” The only Creature’s are the ones within ourselves, as we let self doubt and denial control of who we are”

” Get out and enjoy Nature, to not just see the beauty, but to clear the cobwebs from the clouds of your judgments”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Small Town Americana…………

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The Heart beat beat of true America, this is how America started, before all the big cities were built up. Everybody knew their neighbors and all those around them, unlike today where you walk down the street where you live and not know a soul who is nearest to you. America back in the day was a special place, where everybody helped each other without stepping on the others shine, Some may tend to think that, all Immigrants are welcome here even without the proper status? Now very true that America’s foundation was built by Immigrants, but Immigration done the correct way, which makes it very fair for all. You want to come to America and have a better life than where ever you are from, then go through the proper channels and work hard to not just improve your lifestyle, but the lifestyle of all Americans, who live in this great country of opportunity.

This is Wells River in the state of Vermont, far enough away from any big city, but yet it survives just as good as any city. The towns people pull together as one, to keep the town going strong, unlike those within any city, where they can’t even give one another the time of day. What is sad of today is, some can not survive within small town America, as they are too lazy to work hard in so the town can do as the town does best and that is to survive, within this dog eat dog world of today.

Now very true that the small town is a whole lot quieter, than any city of today, but don’t let the quietness fool you, the small town is just as busy, with all the hard daily work, by all within the small town. The beauty of the small town is a close second to the beauty of Mother Nature, with the both of them being greatly unique in their own way.

Small town America so rural, so out of the way from the true action of the cities, that the ones that don’t live within them, forget that they even exist? Once upon a time, within a time that we of this society have no idea of, a time of no automobiles and where horse back riding was a thing of the norm. a time where hard work was the thing, so we all could move forward better and stronger. A time we all looked out for one another against any kind of enemy, definitely a time that even through the hard work, we still not only found time to enjoy all that is around us, we found time to flourish with each other, as we moved forward in happiness, becoming stronger, as we walked our paths through this journey of life.

Just imagine within this picture a time with no automobiles within it, a time that had these hitching posts that you tied the reigns of your horse to, as you went inside the local general store to pick up supplies, or into the local watering hole as we once knew the bar as, plus while inside you chatted with the store owner, as this was considered your night out, unlike those of us today,  getting out to the closest disco, for dancing and drinks? Yes back in the day of old school Americana, they enjoyed their time, but they also worked very hard, so they could enjoy their time even more so.

 

” Small town Americana wasn’t just a place, it was where we all learned Respect and dignity moving forward”

” The roads may be paved now, but back then they were dirt and you learned how too stay clean as you traveled upon them”

” The heart beat of America beats strongly within the small towns within this great country”

” As the big cities grew bringing America into the future, the small towns stayed the same, keeping America with a great and strong foundation”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Explore the true beauty of Mother Nature

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We within this society are so consumed with all the drama and the crap we see around us today, that we totally have forgotten that, there is so much more to this journey through life, just that we have to really get out and explore all that is around us and not, what we think this journey has surrounded us with.

With what the so called left media puts forth in front of us, is not truly of what this journey is all about, if only these so called journalists of these drama ridden publications, would get away from their whacked out agendas and truly get back to being a true journalist, like writing from the heart, instead of writing for an agenda, then just maybe we all can get back to truly walking our paths through this journey, in the peace and happiness it is supposed to be, then we can explore all the true beauty around us, without being bombarded with their drama full agendas.

Since the beginning of man, we were all born to explore, get out and truly see all that is around us, but with the way this society has been bombarded with what the left bias media brings to us within their agendas, has us all staying within our comfort zones, instead of getting out and exploring all that is around us. The media wants to try to control us with their fake words, so they can seem more powerful then all that is around them, they twist around the spoken word, so we then fear all who is around us, they also want to try to control how we think, so we than can not think for ourselves. The left bias media wants to control everything within this society, so then the top Executives of these publications, can have all the money they want, to live their plush lifestyles, while the rest of us to them, are just the pawns of the chess board of life.

Then there are these Corporate companies for whom we all work for, that for them to make the big dollars, they totally control each of us and have us make just enough to survive, while all the top Execs make the big money and live their exotic lifestyles, with the fancy vehicles. A lot of the times we work beyond the 9 to 5, which then has us too tired to get out and explore, which then has us stay within all the drama and crap of this society, without getting out within Mother Nature and truly, exploring all her true beauty, then escaping the drama and ugliness, for the peace and serenity of Mother Nature. True Mother Nature can unleash her fury from time to time, but for the most part, her true beauty, can and will totally relax and help us clear the cob webs from our mind, body and souls, so we all can truly walk our paths of this journey through life, to be better and stronger moving forward, instead of staying within our comfort zones and not exploring all the true beauty around us.

Some of getting out within Mother Nature takes work, the hiking, the canoeing, or the Kayaking, or even just a simple nature walk, but this kind of work within mother nature, will have us within the peace and serenity, instead of within the drama and ugliness of our society, this is how we truly relax, clear the cob webs within our minds, so we then can totally relax our souls and bodies, with all the daily stress simply melting away completely, as we can feel the stress leaving our bodies. Sometimes we have these life events that come to us and totally control of who we truly are, this is when we need to get out and away totally from the ugliness of this society, so we can truly heal, from the pain and hurt that these events may bring. There are some that totally lash out toward others around them, as they hide deeply within the pain and hurt of the events that have scarred them so, they hide their true selves deep within as they don’t want others to see their pain, so they then lash out, to try to deflect their pain, onto to all those around them, which then has the rest of us fearing getting out and truly exploring, the true peace and serenity that is around us.

 

” The fury of Mother nature can be great, but Mother nature also has much more beauty for us all to explore”

” The peace and serenity of mother nature  is all around us, we just have to get out and explore her true beauty”

” A true Journalist does not write for an agenda, that is the publication they write for that has them do that”

” To get out of your comfort zone, is to truly get out and be truly of who you are, while you explore the true beauty around you”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bright colors with the shorten days

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The brisk days of Autumn so welcome from the summers heat,

As the days get colder the light of day becomes shorter,

The morning dew eventually gives way to the morning frost,

as the colors of the leaves get so vibrantly bright upon the tree’s,

The red’s the yellow’s mixed so beautifully with the evergreens,

Let’s not forget the the white of the Birch tree’s,

Autumn is definitely the most picturesque of the seasons,

With Autumn comes the exhaling of the tree’s,

to get ready for the long cold of the winter months,

As the tree’s exhale the air gets chilly with us in sweater’s,

Plus with the exhaling the leaves get crisp…………..which,

Eventually has the leaves leave the comfort and warmth of the tree,

Only to fall to the ground as the tree then goes into hibernation,

A tree with no leaves may look very bare,

as the tree still has some life deep within that woody exterior,

To some they may call Autumn fall? There really is no difference,

It is the same time of year within the same season and,

right before winter then right after summer.

Autumn may follow summer  but is the pre-curser to winter,

The cool brisk days of Autumn gets us ready for the cold of the winter,

As we ourselves get consumed with cabin fever,

From the staying within the walls of our homes,

Instead of stepping outside surrounded by Mother Nature,

Which then gets us excited for the season of Spring.

 

” The four seasons of the calendar, will have us always survive through one to get to all the others”

” Cooler days brings bright vibrant leaves within the crisp air that exhales”

” With the tree’s being bare, leads to Mother Nature covering them with the white winter blanket”

 

 

 

 

 

 

The water is churning up right in front of us………

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” The notion of innocent before guilty is gone, now we are all guilty of everything before we are innocent of whatever we are guilty of”

 

Let’s just start with this #meto movement, This is a movement that had nothing but the best of intentions moving forward, but like everything else we the people have taken the good right out of it and replaced it with nothing but drama and a way to exploit whatever we want to exploit. With all these accusations and may I add……… They are allegations, has us doing nothing but judge everyone around us, without actually getting to the truth first, so we can be 100% honest, not just with ourselves, but with all those around us as well.

The Democrats and the left Bias Media would rather, prosecute and totally ruin another’s life over an allegation, simply because it is not in their agenda, to actually act totally as the U. S. Constitution says and wants them to act. They are so afraid that others will actually make them look bad, that they will stop at nothing, to ruin the lives of anyone that does not see as they see. The Democrats and the left Bias Media have an agenda and they really do not care, what they do to another, just to keep that agenda alive.

This #meto movement when it first came out was great, as it was a way for those truly who were sexually abused to actually heal themselves of all their deep pain and hurt, even still there are a lot that because of the shame and the denial part of being abused, are still very afraid to come out, for the fear that others will still make fun of and ridicule them, making them feel even worse, than the actual action of the abuse. We as Humans can be so good to each other, but yet we also can be so mean and not care for each other as well, we walk our paths of this journey not to attack one another, but to be there and help one another regardless of who you are, but instead we would rather make fun of, or hurt each other so bad emotionally, that for some, they become scarred for life. Jesus didn’t teach us to be mean or show hatred of each other, instead we the people over the years since Jesus are responsible for that, which Jesus is not too happy with us and one day we all will totally find out of just how unhappy he is.

Anybody that has been sexually abused, know that it is nothing to be made fun of or exploited for an agenda, it is a very serious topic, as for most it is a topic that til now was very Taboo to talk about. Those that have been abused in this way, have totally felt what the true feeling of shame is like, as shame can and will, control everything within your being. While the shame controls you, there is also the denial that comes and will totally have you not see clearly through the clouds of your judgments and because you can’t see clearly, now you can’t move forward properly throughout this journey of life.  With that said……………. It is highly unlikely that anybody that has suffered through this kind of abuse, has come out in a very public way, especially with a letter to any form of media and really especially to the left Bias Media. Most would rather keep this kind of abuse to themselves, as they have suffered enough pain and hurt, without taking the chance of being ridiculed further, by those around them, who really do not totally understand of the abuse they have suffered.

Everybody of this society think they are a know it all of everything, the Democrats and the left Bias media say they have our best interests at heart, but what they will never admit to is, the only thing they have close to their hearts is, their agendas and their own interests within their hearts. They could give two shits about you and I, as they give themselves the world right before our very own eyes. Until we the people wake up and stand up to these inhuman Democrats and left Bias Media, they will continue to control us, they will continue to push their agendas onto us, as they continue moving forward with hurting us so deeply, that we then become so shamed with much denial and try to move forward, being of someone we truly are not.

 

” It is one thing to come out truly and heal from such a trauma of sexual abuse, but it is something else to come out and accuse without concrete evidence”

 

” We can be so good to each other, but yet we can be so mean to each other as well”

 

” #meto can be very good for all, without us all only using it for an agenda only”

 

” As the water churns, so does the tide of our paths through this journey of life”

 

 

 

 

 

 

The dark of the light, with the light of the dark

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Seriously think about this!!! We of this Society have wandered away from any kind of thinking about anything, we say we think about things whatever those things are? But because of the no more thinking part, we have lost all sense of any of the true common sense that is within all of us. We have become like puppets to an almighty puppeteer, when the master speaks we listen and when the master pulls our strings, we go in the direction of the pull, without any kind of a resistance. Nobody wants to lead, as all we want to do is follow, no matter of the direction we may go. We need more trail Blazer’s like those societies of the past, without them then all our futures look bleek and boring, with no excitement on the horizon.

In order to truly see the light, there is darkness to pass through, just as the light will never be constant,    for there is always a darkness that passes by, so we can come to appreciate all things, without focusing too much on one thing, which will help us become more well rounded as we walk our paths, through this ever changing journey through life. Through the light there will always be darkness, as change will never leave us, which makes it that much more important to, being able to adapt to everything equally and without giving up, so we never become a puppet and just follow, so instead we than become the trail blazer, like Jesus did when he came and walked his journey here with us.

It takes darkness so we can truly see the light, so we than can truly appreciate all that we do with every step of this journey. Even like within this picture, you have a dead tree trunk, with a flower growing out of it? There is beauty all around us, you just have to truly look deeply in everything, without simply glancing or skimming over the top and becoming superficial of everything around you. Our leader’s today within the walls of Washington DC and while they get so wrapped up within the ” Washington Power Game”, have totally lost sight of true reality and have become a puppet to their own cause, without thinking of the bigger picture, or even becoming a trailblazer, to truly lead as they should be doing, when they signed up, for the office they hold.

True these flowers may not be the most fragrant, or the most picturesque?  But these flowers in their environment and where they are, makes everything around them shine in the light, brighter then anything, this is the sign of a true leader, someone who gets the job done, someone who never looks for recognition, someone who shines no matter of how dark the light may be, someone no matter of the change, adapts to the change and moves forward better and stronger, so they can keep the brightness of the light, no matter of how dark the darkness may become. These leader’s are out there, just that within today’s society and all the darkness with all the ugliness, makes for it very hard to truly see anything, which shows of how important it is, to let the light shine as bright as it can, so the darkness doesn’t seem as dark as it truly is. The light of the dark is always there, so to truly see the light, you need to look past the dark and not focus on the dark, as to helping the darkness never look as dark as it truly is.

 

” Where there is darkness there will be light, just like with faith there will always be hope”

” Cut the strings of the puppet, to truly become the person that you truly are”

” there is always true beauty all around us, we just have to see past the dark to truly see the light”

” Everything we may see has a beauty of it’s own, just as with the darkness, there will always be the light”

 

 

 

 

 

A little Empathy of each other goes a long way………

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” Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one”

*** Colossians 4:6 ***

 

 

Okay time for my little buddy to make another appearance once again. For those who don’t know, this is little eight year old Martin Richards, he was taken from this Earth by two deranged Individuals, that decided to bring tragedy to the Boston marathon, as they placed two bombs, with one at the finish line, right beside this innocent young boy. This sign he holds are his words and shows just how special this young man was, with what could of been a great life cut short.

Within this society we all walk our journey’s, there is way too much ugliness, drama and hatred of each other. A lot of it simply comes from the way we not only treat each other, but the way we speak to each other, just drive down the road and you will hear a whole different vocabulary than what you care to listen to. Some will be nice to your face when you are around, then when you turn your back, forget the niceness and out comes the slander.  people of today want nothing more than to see others fail, make mistakes, or even fall and become hurt………… as they totally forget that they themselves have gone through the same, just that they don’t want to admit to their flaws at all.

Look no further than our so called leaders within the walls of Washington DC. They not only back stab each other, but they back stab the ones who put them into office as well. Now that we actually have a President that is working for the people that put him there, those on the left will do and say anything, to denounce everything he does, the people that the President tries to put around himself, so he can do an even better job than what he is doing now, have been scrutinized, ridiculed and have had lies put in their mouths, by those on the left, who will stop at nothing, to bring down a seated President. Those on the left won’t even call our President a President, simply because they are so far in denial. that they have lost all sense of what true reality is. We can’t even get a Supreme Court Justice confirmed, without those on the left, doing anything they can, to stall and delay, the conformation, only to better suit themselves, instead of the good of this great country of America. In Washington DC it is all about playing the game of power, instead of actually doing the job, for which they were voted in to do. It is time for each of us Americans, at the mid term elections, to really send a message to those on the left and anyone else, that is so far in denial, of what true reality is, as they are now on the outside looking in.

We of this society need to do a better job at showing true empathy and love of each other, before it becomes lost forever? Or even worse, more of us Humans become victims of a senseless tragedy, as did Martin Richards, on such an ugly day. It is just sad that we rally together when we truly need to heal and become better along this journey, but yet 95% of the time, we don’t even acknowledge each other, let alone show any kind of love or empathy, which happens to be feelings, deep within each of us. It all starts at the top, with our so called Leaders, these are the ones that need to not only work together, but coincide in their environment, so as to not only make this country better and stronger, but make the lives of all Americans better and stronger as well. Plus all those that are looked at as role models within the sporting world, they need to simply shut up and play the sport, that they get big dollars to play, instead of opening their mouths and spewing their hateful opinions, of an elected official, for whom they don’t care for and even further, when you use the sport you play and receive big dollars playing, for a platform to protest, I challenge you to take some of your big dollars to the community you live and put your money where your mouth, so you can make a difference, instead of being nothing but a pain in the Ass, with your uncalled for protests, taking away from the sport you play.

 

” No more hurting people……………peace”

*** Martin Richards***

” The easiest thing we do but we make it the hardest, is quite simply the way we chat with one another”

” Instead of looking at one another with hateful eyes, let’s try looking and seeing the good within all those around us”

” Good will always win over evil, just that we as a society are too consumed with all the evil around us, that we can’t see clearly through the clouds of our judgments”