Creature of Habit no more

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We all walk a path through this journey of life, we all have our quirks, which makes us very unique to each other. While we walk these paths, there will be these life events that come to us, some are overwhelming, as some are minuscule and small. These events can and will rob us of our reality, with us becoming someone for who we are not. Sometimes these events come to us by our own actions and sometimes by the actions of another, no matter of how they come, they need to be dealt with the proper way, so we then can be truly of who we are and move forward better and stronger, throughout this journey of life.

We get so comfortable in our everyday lives, we then get consumed within our little ruts, not just because it is convenient  for us, but because we then feel safe in our little worlds, as we try to keep further hurt and pain from reaching us anymore. Yes we do have pain, hurt and sorrow that will come to us, but we will stay within our comfortable ruts, in order to minimize the pain that comes to us. Now when the pain and hurt becomes great, we then try to bury it deep within, simply because we try not to cry or show emotion. This society is warped because, we think that when we show emotion or cry, we are looked at as weak, which then has others preying on us, just so they can look powerful and almighty? So we then further stay within our comfort zones, so the pain and hurt can stay manageable by our actions, instead of it controlling of who we truly are.

Habits are formed by us and us only, Habits just don’t come to us, they are something we do with our actions, whether good or bad.  When we become consumed within the Habit, is when the creature from within the Habit is unleashed, it then controls us, even if we don’t want to admit to the controlling. With a good Habit we then feel good of ourselves, as with a bad Habit, we then feel less than and let Denial enter within us, which then brings a whole new dimension into the equation, which has us not even letting ourselves escape the clutches of the Habit. With any bad Habit, there then comes the craftiness of creating the perfect lie, is there really a perfect lie? Any lie whether a small white lie, or a huge life changing lie, it is never right and never needs to be looked at, or mentioned in the same sentence with the word perfect. Denial is full of lies, it becomes a series of lies, with one right after the other and the lies never end. Then when we become consumed with the lie, we then believe in the lie as if we are doing nothing wrong.

The only Creature is the one that lives within ourselves, a Habit is something we do with our actions. Any Habit good or bad can be broken, just that we have to have enough self discipline within, so we can replace a Habit, with a better one moving forward, so in the long run we ourselves can be better and stronger moving forward, as we walk our paths through this journey of life.

 

” All Habits whether good or bad can be broken, just that we let ourselves get too deep within denial and lose sight of true reality”

” Comfortable ruts are good if we can keep moving forward to be better, it’s when we become stagnant that we then need to change the rut”

” The only Creature’s are the ones within ourselves, as we let self doubt and denial control of who we are”

” Get out and enjoy Nature, to not just see the beauty, but to clear the cobwebs from the clouds of your judgments”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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