“The struggle is real, the climb is tough, but through the pain and the hurt, reaching the top will help you be stronger and better than ever”
I saw a post that Gold medal winner Aly Raisman put onto her social media and it sounds as if, some have taken offense to her coming out and speaking of her pain? Basically she was commenting on some comments to her post of some saying the woman/girls deserve what they get for the way they dress? Excuse me!!! this is nothing more than a rationalization by the Individuals commenting to her. Nobody asked to be treated the way a Victim of sexual abuse has been treated, they were groomed by an Individual who not only with his/her actions, speaks loudly to they need help, but it is also an excuse to rationalize their behavior and objectify others.
Objectification is something we all do without knowing it, instead of looking at someone to make ill comments of how they look, try looking at them as a person, someone that is a Human being as you and I, someone that is someones son, daughter, wife, husband etc…… We are all a human being that walks a path through this journey of life. It is very easy to look at each other as a person, it is even harder to objectify each other, but yet some will objectify, to rationalize away their actions, of grooming another, for their sick pleasure.
Aly Raisman is a very strong woman to come out and talk of the actions of another toward her, coming out for anybody within this screwed up society is very difficult, especially those that have been sexually abused, but when you do come out a very large weight has then been lifted from their shoulders, as now the difficult part has been done and the rest of the work to move forward in the healing process begins. The most difficult part of any healing process is the coming out to speak openly and candid of the situation, We in this screwed up society are too afraid to speak openly of any situation that may have others look at us differently, we fear that others may ridicule and make fun of us so much, we then bury deep within our real pain and hurt, which does nothing but have us become someone we truly are not.
This journey through life really isn’t that hard, only we as people walking our paths through this journey, make it very hard with our actions or inaction’s from doing nothing. if we only showed more empathy of each other, then we wouldn’t be objectifying each other, if only we truly felt the warmth of God’s love deep within our hearts and souls and then shared this love with each other, just maybe all this crap and ugliness within this society would disappear? We are all Human beings walking a path through this journey, we are all very similar to each other, as well as being very unique to each other, God put us here to use this uniqueness to be better and stronger moving forward, not to attack one another with our stupidity and our sick actions. The time is now for each of us to come out and heal together, so we all can walk our paths of this journey in peace and happiness always, everyday with every step.
” Rationalization is simply a cop out excuse to excepting your actions and escaping any responsibility from your actions”
” To objectify is to make light of any action that you may enter into”
” It takes a sick Individual to groom another for their sick actions, instead of starting their own healing process moving forward”