important topics that should be taken seriously

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We all walk a path through this journey of life, there will be many things that will come across our paths that will knock us down if we are not ready. We all will suffer many setbacks, with the many issues that come before us on our paths, these issues will control us if we don’t take the time to understand them, as well as bring us much pain and hurt, when we become hurt with the pain from the issues, we then suppress deeply our true feelings, so we than can try to move forward on our paths, like  there is nothing wrong? A lot of the times if we just communicate with someone whom we trust, about the hurt from the pain, really communicate deeply of the issues that hurt us deeply, just maybe we then can understand better of the issues, so we than can heal our pains and move forward better and stronger.

One of the biggest topics throughout Mankind that was Taboo to communicate about, was the topic of Sex Abuse. This kind of abuse not just was hard to talk about by anybody, but is especially hard for the Victim to communicate at all to anybody. As a Society on a whole, nobody wanted to hear of or communicate to this abuse, simply because as a Victim, you were shamed into burying your true feelings deep inside, only because you feared that those around you, would laugh and ridicule you behind your back. Through the shame of this kind of abuse, it would leave the Victim with the feeling of low self esteem and low self worth, thinking that just maybe, there is something wrong with me to have this happen? Then with the deep feelings from the hurt and pain, the Victim would then bury it so deep, that their true feeling would be lost within as well. Without realizing  it, the little child within would then become lost and not grow healthy within, leaving us on the outside, troubled and not growing healthy like that child within us.

Since that knucklehead in Hollywood and with all the ones coming out of who he abused, there is a hashtag that was started on twitter of #meto, now there are so many using that hashtag to come out from their abuse and trying to heal themselves from their hurt and pain, that through social media people are using it for a positive and trying to help themselves feel their true feelings, that they have buried for so long. Through all the crap that is on social media today, just maybe now it can be used for a positive, so those that have been abused, can come out, communicate truly and truly feel their real feelings deep within. We all have our issues, we all struggle with these issues, but when we don’t truly understand them, or when we don’t truly communicate them, so we than can heal the pain and hurt, then we will always be a Society that is broken, we will always be a Society with no true love or empathy and even worse, all the ugliness and the hatred will never leave us in this Society.

Sex Abuse is nothing new to us, not just within this Society, but all Societies of the past. So why then have we not been able to heal from the pain and hurt it brings? Communication is the biggest part in understanding totally of this problem and without it, then no one will ever truly understand it. Those who suffer this dreadful issue of sex abuse, don’t truly feel their real feelings, so they then bury deep within of who they truly are, then try to move forward with this fake self, so everybody around won’t think they suffer deep within. The Victim will also have zero trust of anything around them, which then will bring many more issues to their paths they walk. Through this hashtag of #meto, we can all clearly see that, there are many more than we realize, who suffer quietly within, Just walk down the street and truly feel the love and empathy within you, so you than can look deeply into all around you and see truly of who is around you, this problem of sex abuse has been around more then we want to admit to or talk about, so the amount of Victims are far greater than what we may think. The only way for us to walk our paths of this journey through life is, to communicate totally of the issues that may come across our paths, so not only we can understand for ourselves, but we can understand better for all those around us, as we truly show our true love and empathy and truly help each other heal from the true pain and hurt, then we all can walk our paths of this journey in true peace and happiness always.

 

” Sex abuse has been a huge problem throughout Mankind, just that nobody truly communicated of it and healed totally from it”

” This journey through life has many issues that will test us, it is time to start acing the test so we can be at true peace and happiness”

” Communication is the one true key throughout this journey, so we can understand better as we walk our paths”

” #meto is the one biggest and best thing that has happened in recent years, letting some truly heal from their pain and hurt”

” When social media is used correctly, it can help us all move forward and not backwards”

 

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