The natural Grieving process…….

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We all walk a path through this journey of life, even though the paths we each take may be different, there are many things along the paths we take, that are very similar and Grieving is one of those things. Now we all may Grieve differently with some that take longer than others, but the whole natural process of Grieving, is all the same no matter of who you are.

To Grieve properly is something that is very important to each of us, as when you don’t Grieve properly, then you open yourself to a slew of issues later on down the path in which you walk.  There is no set way to Grieve, nor are there any textbooks on how to Grieve, it is all on you the Individual and what is comfortable and natural.

When we lose a loved one, we then celebrate their life, by gathering in a Funeral home to honor our loved one, we talk among others and share great memories of our loved one, we tend to find that each of us have our own stories of the same person, which is totally part of the power that the Grieving process holds to each of us. This is how we have closure that helps us heal, with our loss, so we than can move forward with strength, as our loved one would of wanted us to. Closure is an important part of the Grieving process and without it, we then do not Grieve properly, leaving us with a void within our hearts. I remember when my Papere passed away, I was living far away and couldn’t come home to join family at our time of loss, for me the closure wasn’t there, so my Grieving wasn’t of what it should of been, so when I did come home and went to visit my Mamere, I expected him to be sitting in his favorite chair, when he wasn’t there that is when the reality of his loss hit me and flooded me with great emotion. The whole Grieving process is important and vital to each of us and without it, it leaves a big void within our hearts, that we then do not heal properly moving forward.

In times of a sudden tragedy like that of the shooting in Las Vegas, now you have a Grieving process that starts unexpectedly, People now have to mourn their loved ones sooner than what they totally expected. These people are hurting deeply of which their lives have been turned upside down, to these people their journey has been stopped, cause now their void within their heart has become so big, that they need to heal it, before they can move forward along their path. The last thing these people need to hear is, our so called leaders turning this great tragedy into a political shouting match. Let these people Grieve their loss naturally so they can heal their hearts. We as a Country have to respect the Grieving process of others, as this is also part of the Grieving process, this is how we all move forward better and stronger along our paths of this journey through life.

Now as important as the Grieving process is, so is the process for the ones that are still in the Hospitals healing their wounds from the tragic shooting event. These people are hurting deeply as well and the last thing they need, are our so called leaders turning this event into a Political shouting match. The unfortunate part of this Society is, we tend to Politicize everything, there is nothing we do along our paths that isn’t spun in a Political way, this is a part of all our paths in this Society that needs to change and be fixed. The process to start fixing this Politically correct Society, starts at the top with big Government, starts at the top within the big Corporate companies, as these are the ones that pay big money to those in Government, so they can get their favors and collect their big profits. Everything starts somewhere, so when we want to change for the better, we have to start at the top, change the process of the so called leaders, then work our way down the chain, so we all can change and move forward along our paths better and stronger.

Shooter’s like this sick demented Individual in Vegas started out their path of this journey through life very much the same as all of us, but something in his life went south, something made him have these strong negative thoughts within his head, of which he buried it deeply within, instead of addressing it, fixing it, so he can move forward in a positive way. We all at one point in our lives along our paths have had something go south for us, something that has tried to take control of who we truly are, but the difference between most of us and the ones like the Vegas shooter, is we addressed what we needed to address, then fixed what we needed to fix, so we than can move forward better and stronger, as in the case of the sick and demented ones, they buried their true feelings deep within, they buried that something so deep within, that they then let the negative thoughts take control of who they are, which they then became someone for who they truly were not. We are all Humans walking a path through this journey of life, even though the journey is the same, we all take a different path in the journey, but as we address what we need to address, fix what we need to fix, then we all can walk this journey better and stronger and live within peace and happiness always.

 

” Grieving is a process we all go through in our journey and we all Grieve in our own way”

” The sudden loss of a loved one has us Grieve sooner then we expected, which leaves a void within our hearts”

” A tragedy like that of what happened in Vegas needs us all to grieve properly and respect each other as we Grieve in our own way”

” True there are some sick demented ones out there, but we are all Humans that need to adjust and change what we need to, fix what we need to, so we can move forward better and stronger”

 

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