What truly is a Father? A Father is courage, strength, wisdom, knowledge, perseverance, never quit attitude, someone who when told he can’t do that he then proves them wrong with his actions, a Father is all these attributes and many more.
A Father instills in his Children the importance of hard work and teaches them a good work ethnic, as he himself shows them with his actions. He teaches his Children how to strive for excellence…. not perfection, but excellence, because no one is perfect, so he teaches what excellence is and that perfection is setting yourself up for a let down. A Father will tell us to set goals using the rungs of the ladder as a guide one step at a time, it is okay to reach for the stars, but you can’t start off on rung one and go to the last step of the ladder and walk onto the roof easily, then with each rung being successfully met, now you can go to rung two, never get ahead of yourself as when you do, now you feel the weight of the World on your shoulders and the pressures of life become so over whelming, sometimes these pressures become so great, that we forget to relax and simply be ourselves, that is when we become lost within the clouds of our judgments, we lose sight of our goals, we forget all the teachings from our Father’s only because we are so lost, this don’t mean our Father’s work was for nothing, because when we truly get back to who we are, it is like riding a bike, you never forget and get right back on the ride of this journey.
We all need a Mother and a Father, as each one brings their own special qualities to each one of us, so we can shape ourselves and be truly who we are. Whenever their is one missing, no matter how you think that you can replace either one or their qualities, you will always feel incomplete as a Human Being. When God created Mankind he did so for these reasons, so we could all learn from one another, coexist with each other, as we all walk our paths through this journey of life.
With all the crap within this Society and all the ugliness of Terror groups trying to control each one of us and the high divorce rate of marriages, only proves further that you need a loving Mother and a Father, so you can feel complete deep inside the core of your being.
A Father is kind of like that old cliche of, ” jack of all trades” simply because his wisdom and hard work as he grew up, is now being taught to us as we grow up. this is known as the cycle of life, there are many other cycles within the life cycle and each one is just as important as the other, but when a link of any of the cycles is broken, now you are open and vulnerable, to which makes it important to repair the link, before you truly lose sight of who you truly are. We all walk a path through this journey of life and as we walk our path and learn from our Father’s, as well as learn from our Mother;s, now you can grow into Society stronger and better than each generation that has come before you.
” A Father is many things to us as we grow up in life and when the relationship is at its strongest, helps us all walk our paths as strong as the bond of a Father and his children”
” A Mother and a Father each have their qualities that help us grow within our lives, without each of their qualities we then feel incomplete within our lives”
” a Fathers bond is deeper than just a father and his child, he then becomes the best friend that you will never find no matter how hard you try”