Our lives along our paths of our Journey of life, will never be perfect nor will we as Humans as well, we all suffer some kind of life event and we all have been bullied at some point in our lives also, being bullied doesn’t only mean to be physically attacked,, as the worst kind of bullying happens mentally, with the scars lasting the rest of our journey of our lives.
Bullying is more common than we want to believe, only because the ones that have been the victim, hide deep within themselves in order to minimize the pain and harm that has come to them, as the victim hides their true feelings and emotions, they become isolated from everything around them, they lose their feeling of self worth and their self esteem seems like it was never there, they don’t want to admit to anybody of their weakness, so they than live a fantasy world and become something that they truly are not, being a victim is the saddest thing we as Humans will ever have to entail, but the scary thing is, there are a lot more victims than Bullies out there, just that the victim stays within themselves with no signs of reaching out to anybody for help.
Reaching out to anybody for help is easier said than done, cause in this Society where weakness is ridiculed and frowned upon, plus the victim of the abuse or Bullying are suffering from low self esteem and self worth, their trust in everything around them has been taken from them, when your trust is taken from you, it is very hard to get it back, yes it can come back, but you need trust in yourself to truly love yourself, so you then can be truly happy with who you are, the Human body and the Human spirit are so complex, only we don’t take the time to understand them and we take action, before we think of the ramifications of our actions.
The Bully always takes action without thinking of the ramifications of his/her actions, they have no feelings of remorse or empathy, or otherwise they wouldn’t try to control whatever they are trying to control, all they think about is the power they try to achieve, by Bullying their victim, the Bully thinks that the more victims they have, the more powerful they are? A Bully can only operate when the victim shows fear for the Bully, fear is another powerful feeling within us all, but the Bully uses this fear to his/her advantage, fear can only be used effectively when you have no feeling of remorse or empathy, a good percentage of the Bullies out there, have been bullied themselves, this is their way of trying to make sense of their own victimization.
For the Victim, being bullied is never easy, for the Bully it is about inflicting fear to achieve power, either way it shows nothing but, we as a Society need to better understand the Human body and the Human spirit, so we all can walk our paths along our Journey of life in peace while we all love ourselves deeply, so we can truly love one another and all this hate in our Society will disappear once and for all, true love of ourselves and of each other, is what God wanted for us when he created us and to show him we appreciate his creation, we all need to work together to achieve this true love, so we all can walk our Journey’s of life in peace.
” A Bully is nothing more than someone who is hurting deeply inside and even more than the Victim that he/she has victimized”
” Being a victim of a Bully is never easy, so we need to stand up to the Bully, so the fear factor will never come into play”
” To truly love yourself, means you totally love who you are and all that is around you”