Post Colorado tradgedy, knowing the human mind.

            Prayers go out to all involved in the Colorado tradgedy, a situation in which was planned by the shooter, but was not known to those who thought they were going to enjoy a new Batman movie. Each and every one of us as Human beings on this planet have our own minds, of which there is no way of knowing what others have in their minds, or do we know what they are thinking of, except for that individual himself. This is what makes each of us unique in our own way, its unfortunate that some think of hurting others, while others never think of such gruesomeness. All Scientists will tell you that the Human brain is the most complex to examine and still today they have no answers of which how it operates. A Human body has most of its features that are equal, but when it comes to the human brain or mind, these are very different and most complex, which is why we as Humans are so unique of all creatures on this planet. As some of us try to figure out why? we will never know the why? but we may try to figure out the why, but unless you can read minds (which nobody can), you will never know the why of which makes some of us do what we do.

            There may be some factors or signs in which to look for, in trying to avoid these situations in the future and that may be humans who suddenly distent themselves from society, which leads to a sort of depression, but what are they thinking as this happens? We will never truely know that question, like the loss of a loved one, we as humans grieve in different ways, some don’t show emotion, some pull back from others, some put up a front in which puts them in depression in private, still others go on with life like nothing happened, this is what makes us the most unique creature on this planet.

             Yes we are Human Beings and a Human Being is a creature of this planet, much like lions, tigers and bears etc… The best way to figure out the question of why? is not to figure out the answer, but to understand the how. The how anybody could do such a tradgedy to their fellow Human. When dealing with the Human mind, we may never fully know how it ticks, but if we look at other things like being in denial, we may be able to understand the why much better. Denial is a beast that we all have inside us, some of us unleash the beast more so then others, Denial forces us to supress our feelings deep down inside, instead of dealing with those feelings, as you supress them you are sub conciously telling yourself all is fine, when actually they are not. Then later in life certain actions in life, bring that beast out once again, which causes you to do things in which you normally wouldn’t do, Denial is the Beast within all of us, that needs to be tamed so we can understand the human mind much better. It don’t matter who you are in this society, when you are in denial, you are unleashing that beast from deep inside ourselves. It is that beast that causes you the human to do things in which you would never do, the best way to deal with that beast is stay out of denial and deal with all personal/life problems head on and nip them in the bud, instead of supressing them. What you are actually doing is putting them of til later, then that later becomes so much greater then dealing head on. It’s like a procrastinator putting things off til another time, then when that time comes, the problem is much bigger then it should be. Denial is a beast within us all, its how we deal with denial on how the beast is released.

Dealing with Terrorists/Bullies

                  My feeling is, we need to change the way we are fighting terrorists, instead of going to war. We should look at a Terrorist much like a high school Bully. What is a high school Bully? It is a person or person’s, in which is a coward, that strives on inflicting fear on their victims. A Bully will terrorize you, to get something out of you by, beating you, threatening you or even stalking you, to put the fear in God in you. Which they usally pick on the weak, like when an animal hunts for his pray for his dinner. The result is, you are afraid to go out of your house, when you do you take a different route all the time to avoid that person, you end up getting depressed and start second geussing yourself, thinking why me? in the end the Bully keeps doing it more cause it makes him/her feel powerful. A Bully and a Terrorist are very much alike, as they go about inflicting fear in all of us.

                  Combating Terrorism is very much the same way as combating a Bully and that is, you stand up to that person/person’s, look them in the eye and put the fear of God back into them. When you do this, you will see them cower away like the coward they are. They may try new ways, but if you stick to your ways, they will see they can’t inflict fear in you anymore, in which they will slither away, like a snake in the grass.

                   The way we dealt with Bullies growing up, along with our father’s and their father’s, will be the aid we need in combating the most fearsome of all Bullies and that are the Terrorists.

Good luck my fellow Americans

Today’s world full of hatred/love

                  I am writing this from the heart. In today’s world there is too much hatred and not enough love. We all need to love more, even our enemies. When we love our enemies they will go away, cause they will learn that can not hurt us anymore. We are trained to hate, through the media, our everyday lives and it is up to us as individuals, to do with it as we see, for we are all humans. We bleed red blood, eat from our mouths, smell from our noses, hear from our ears, think and make decisions from our brains and we let the hatred control us. We all need to learn to love the right way, like being kind to our neighbors, being courteous, being truthful and honest to one another and simply being ourselves, for who we are and not being something or someone in which we are not. It all starts from within ourselves, digging down deep and releasing that higher power in which we all have inside us and bring out the love, replace it with the hate, keep the good hate handy, for it will help us get better and stronger as individuals. This will take some effort on our part and some people today won’t put the effort in, as they want the easy way in everything, but in the long run, it will be very much worth it, not just to the world, but to us as individuals, it will also make all of feel 100% better inside and out.

               We can do this, it will take some time, but it can be done. When it happens then you can see results like, crime going down, less drug use(alot of people use to escape reality), people working with each other more, no more fighting and why might you ask? We will have higher self esteems and feel much better about ourselves and those around us. Then once the good comes out, you will see the likes of Terrorism slither away, like the snakes they are.

              Instead of looking for the bad in your fellow man, in order to make yourself look good. Look for the good and then we all can prosper in this new and greater world in which we live.

Good luck my fellow Humans, on this planet

Service Industry Society

This has become a service industry society, in which a company provides a service to its customers for a fee. No matter what industry you are in, you need excellant customer service to succeed. This is an area of which all companies need help in. I don’t know about you, have you ever been in a Dunkin Donuts lately, or a Macdonalds, or even a car dealership. The Customer service on a scale of 1 to 10 is a 2 at best. It all starts with the Company itself, with the way they train, or lack of depending on Company. I don’t mean you have to kiss fannies to get what you want, just treat the customer as a person with respect. You will find that the word, R-E-S-P-E-C-T, goes a long way in life. It all starts with the Parents and the way they bring their children up in society. When taught at a young age to respect their fellow man, then later in life, good customer service comes natural, when there is a broken home, like a single parent, or a parent who just don’t care, then there is no teaching going on, of which as that child grows into society, then society becomes broken as well.

When you take a job at a Company that is Customer driven, it is up to that Company to provide you with excellant Customer Service Training, thats when a Company reiterates what your parents should already of taught you. when at a job where you interact with customers all the time, when you show up to work  check your baggage at the door, now your on company time and you should act accordingly.

Just remember one major rule in Customer Service, Treat the Customer as you would want to be treated, as a person and not just a number, if you follow this rule, you will be amazed on how life in general treats you back.

Service Industry Society

This has become a service industry society, in which a company provides a service to its customers for a fee. No matter what industry you are in, you need excellant customer service to succeed. This is an area of which all companies need help in. I don’t know about you, have you ever been in a Dunkin Donuts lately, or a Macdonalds, or even a car dealership. The Customer service on a scale of 1 to 10 is a 2 at best. It all starts with the Company itself, with the way they train, or lack of depending on Company. I don’t mean you have to kiss fannies to get what you want, just treat the customer as a person with respect. You will find that the word, R-E-S-P-E-C-T, goes a long way in life. It all starts with the Parents and the way they bring their children up in society. When taught at a young age to respect their fellow man, then later in life, good customer service comes natural, when there is a broken home, like a single parent, or a parent who just don’t care, then there is no teaching going on, of which as that child grows into society, then society becomes broken as well.

When you take a job at a Company that is Customer driven, it is up to that Company to provide you with excellant Customer Service Training, thats when a Company reiterates what your parents should already of taught you. when at a job where you interact with customers all the time, when you show up to work  check your baggage at the door, now your on company time and you should act accordingly.

Just remember one major rule in Customer Service, Treat the Customer as you would want to be treated, as a person and not just a number, if you follow this rule, you will be amazed on how life in general treats you back.