Empathy for the Victims

 

Throughout this journey of life, we have all been like this Duck, swimming around with no one around, lost within this journey as we try to move forward away from what troubles us. Some may chose this kind of solitude, as others are forced into this solitude, by what ever life events may cross their paths? There is nothing wrong with solitude, if it is in a healthy manor, but to be lonely with no where to turn, from whatever troubles you, now this is what forces us to suppress deeply our true feelings and emotions, so we can try to move forward as if we have no real pain or hurt to feel, which then has us become someone for who we truly are not, just so we can try to function as normal as we think normal is.

With all this chatter throughout the media today of all the sex scandals out there, the one common denominator that we all forget to even mention or even show empathy towards are, the Victims. The Victims of this abuse are hurting real pain deep within from the actions of the ones who are being accused, not just the media being the problem with all the publicity of these sick actions, but the ones being accused coming out and making it all about them and then pointing the finger somewhere else, just to deflect  any blame away from their actions. Take Senator Franken for one, coming out to resign his post, but never once saying he is sorry and pointing the finger, instead of accepting responsibility for his actions? Looks to me like someone who is rationalizing  away his actions, while being deeply in denial of what he has done. Sex abuse is all about power, gaining power over another, just so you can get a quick feel? Just like with all Politicians, they get elected so they can become powerful (in their own minds), then they get a feeling of this power and now they get addicted to the feeling, which then has them taking action on the power, without thoroughly thinking through their actions.

With all the accusations going on now of the sex scandals, only shows one thing, which should scare the hell out of all of us and that is, we have all lost the true feeling of empathy that is within us all. True empathy will have you put yourself in the shoes of another, right now their is no one in the shoes of the Victims of  this kind of abuse…………Why? cause we are all afraid of this and we are all afraid to look towards others as we are being weak,  it don’t make you weak to show empathy towards others no matter of the reason, it only shows of just how strong you truly are. We in this society would rather make fun of, talk about, or alienate others behind their backs, but as soon as they face you, then you say all good things to them? This is who we have become, simply because of Political Correction. This Political Correction has made us all weak, it has turned us into someone we truly are not and even worse………. It has the true feeling of Empathy within become lost deep within us.

There is nobody that sought out to be a Victim, a victim is created by an Individual who only  thinks of themselves and rationalizes away their actions, so they don’t have to take responsibility for their actions. All these big high profile cases coming out from this kind of abuse, the media is eating up because it fits into their agenda of creating more drama, but seriously!!! What about the Victim who feels real pain and hurt deep within from this kind of abuse? We the people are also responsible because we buy into the drama the media sells us, the time is now for each of us to, get back in touch with our true empathy, so we all can walk our paths through this journey in the peace and happiness, we all so deserve.

 

” A victim is created by another Individual so they can seem powerful within their own minds”

” A victim is alone in their solitude because they hurt real pain deep within”

” Solitude is good to unwind from the daily grind, but not to try to escape from the real pain and hurt”

‘ the media is all about drama and has no empathy for anything/anyone in the way of that drama”

 

 

 

 

 

The competition will always take a back seat to true friendships

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”  Throughout the clouds and no matter of how rough the waters, when we pull together, we come together in unity showing our love of one another always”

*** BowlingChef ***

 

The darkness from the darkest clouds will never last and they will only last as long as we ourselves let them last. We all walk our own paths through this journey of life, but that don’t mean that we can not walk together in harmony and unity, so we than can be better and stronger with every step. We all have our quirks as well as we all become set in our ways, but when we put all that a side, find common ground among each other, the sky is the limit as to how far each of us can not only go, but grow along this journey of life.

We all have our things we not only like to do, but what we enjoy doing as well, it is when we get away from these things that makes us feel incomplete. With the feelings of incomplete, we then become lost within the darkest of the clouds and the waters then churn up and become rough, as travel along the water will then become difficult to navigate. With the rough waters and the dark clouds, this journey of life will seem very difficult, but with clear skies and smooth waters, then this journey becomes as smooth as silk, as we then glide along our paths with no worries or troubles. We all have our troubles and deal with them in our own way, then as we realize that when we find common ground and come together in unity, then there are no troubles or worries great enough, to bring us down and stop us from walking our paths through this journey of life.

Some may look at a sporting event as great competition in which you have to beat another to move on? Okay part of that is true, but what we tend to over look and never look deeply into what we see is, that you can still compete against one another and still be great friends with each other. Competition will only bring out the worst in us, when we don’t look deeply into what we see, as when you can compete against someone and whether win, lose or draw, you are still the best of friends, now you can no matter what and no matter of how hard you compete, still find that common ground of togetherness and unity, in which to thrive always.

We in this Society are so lost within the dark clouds of the storm, that the rough water has swamped us all. we can not compete in a healthy  way against each other anymore, as all we want to do is pretty much hurt each other badly, or we don’t feel like we are competing? True competition will have us wish each other well before we compete and when we are finished, we then shake hands and congratulate for a game well played. True competition isn’t just competing against each other, it is the coming together in unity, for a game well played, as we then walk our paths through this journey of life in the peace and happiness we all so well deserve and as God wanted us to do from the very beginning.

 

” True competition has no pain as it brings us together in unity and helps us all become successful along this journey”

” The darkest of clouds from the storm are only temporary, the rough waters will never last, as our true spirit of competition will bring us together in unity always”

” Through the dark clouds and the rough waters there is common ground for which to stand, just that we have to look deeply into what we see”

” A Society with no competition is a dull society, but competition done correctly and on common ground with each other”

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Power of Prayer….. With the crown of Jesus Christ

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” Walk through the shadow of light, as we pass through the darkness, the light is right around the corner”

*** Bowlingchef***

 

 

 

We all walk a path through this journey of life, there will be things that will cross our paths that will try to derail us, there will be health issues that we go through that will try to knock us down, but when we have complete faith in ourselves, as well as in Jesus Christ our Savior and with the power of Prayer to chat silently with Jesus, we can overcome anything, plus when we are in touch with our true empathy that is deep within us all, we than can help others with the same prayers, as we all move forward along this journey, to be better and stronger and walk our paths in the peace and happiness, we all so deserve.

Within this Society we are so far removed from the time of Jesus walking his path with us that for some, it becomes very difficult to truly believe………. I get that, but when you don’t truly believe in the higher power of us all, that is when you lose complete faith in not only yourself, but in Jesus Christ as well. Whenever you lose the faith, then there is never any hope for anything, we then become clouded within the clouds of our judgments and when we are in the clouds, that is when we let doubt enter into the picture and when doubt comes around, now your path throughout this journey, will become very bumpy and with the bumps, we will be derailed from the train tracks of life, which then will have us stop moving forward, become stagnant with no purpose and everything will pass us by, til we get back up, brush ourselves off, regain the faith in ourselves and Jesus, believe once again in the power of prayer, so the faith will come back and then the hope will be right behind. then we can get right back on the tracks, to continue moving forward through this journey of life.

We take tests in school as we grow up, in life as we walk our paths we get tested daily, but the difference is, in school we can prepare ourselves by doing the homework, in life there are no classes, there are no books and life keeps revolving, if we don’t adapt, have complete faith in ourselves and Jesus Christ, then life will pass us by, as there will be no hope, leaving us to struggle with not finding our true purpose and without that, we then will become someone for who we truly are not. With faith and hope, this journey through life is really not that hard, it becomes hard when we lose the faith and hope, which then has us doubt ourselves, which then makes this journey seem harder than it really is, the problem is we the people making it harder than it really needs to be, With the power of prayer, may we all have true faith, so there will always be hope and then we can walk our paths of this journey, in the peace and happiness we all so deserve.

 

” The power of prayer is strong and it works, all we have to do is have complete faith and there will always be hope”

” You can’t have hope if there is no faith, they go together like peanut butter and jelly”

” Life will test us everyday, there are no books as we have to adapt and change to keep moving forward”

” Jesus Christ is real and he does listen to our prayers, you just have to truly see the signs that he gives us throughout the paths we walk”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Words of Wisdom through all the real pain and hurt

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My little Buddy needs to make another appearance with his words of wisdom, so we can get away from all the ugliness, hatred, real pain and hurt. The time is now to show the empathy that is within us all, share it with each other, so we all can walk our paths of this journey in the peace and happiness we all so deserve. Martin Richards had a heart of Gold, an innocent young eight year old boy, that was tragically taken from this Society, by two sick Individuals who were in need of some major psychological help. During the Boston Marathon bombings……… #bostonstrong  one of the bombs were placed right at the feet of where he was standing, he had no chance to avoid what was about to happen.

 

” We all have felt some real pain and hurt at sometime, but we have never let ourselves truly heal fully from the pain and hurt”

 

Since this #meto has been on twitter then with the way and the speed it has gone viral, clearly shows there are more than we ever imagined, that feel this real pain and hurt deep within. We have all been a Victim of something along our paths, whether from sex abuse, a Bully, or maybe been robbed and your personal belongings taken from where we live? Whatever the case may be, we have all suffered being a Victim of something, but instead of understanding our situation and fixing whatever we need to be better and stronger, we have gone totally in the other direction and deeply suppressed our true feelings and emotions to the point of, we not only lost our true empathy, we have lost what it feels like to truly feel the love of God, deep within our hearts and souls, so now we can’t share with each other.

Because of all this pain and hurt, there is also no trust of one another anywhere. It used to so that you knew your neighbor next door, now not only do we not know who our neighbors are, but we do not know of who anybody is anywhere, from where ever we may go. We have gone from walking our paths peacefully, to walking with chaos and crap all around us.

With all these Celebrities being outed for all their deranged actions, shows that the rest of us have no clue, of just how many Victims that has been created? Plus the ones who created the Victims has no clue of, just how much damage their actions have done. Denial may just look like a word, but it is a strong word, that has us rationalize away our actions, so we can make light of any heavy situations. Shame also may be just a word, but it is a very strong word, that will control every fiber of our being, if we really let it. Through the Denial we simply do not take responsibility for our actions and then rationalize them away and deflect them from ourselves, through the shame we then bury very deeply our true feelings and emotions, as to try to keep the real pain and hurt from affecting us anymore, we do this all within our subconscious, so we then can try to move forward in the reality of our Society, to show on the outside that we are as normal as normal can be, so others around us will think we are normal. We all walk a path through this journey of life, nobody is perfect along this journey, but when we respect and trust one another, then this journey will always bring us the peace and happiness we all so deserve.

 

”  Denial is a way to rationalize away any actions so we don’t have to take responsibility for the action”

” Shame is very powerful and forces us to deeply suppress our true feelings and emotions, to try to deflect the pain and hurt”

” Victims need the time and space to truly heal from the wounds, so they can move forward better and stronger”

” Before you take action to the action, first you have to think through the action in order to not bring the pain, hurt and shame, to those around you”

 

 

 

 

 

 The slippery slopes of life

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The beautiful ski mountain in the summer months, full of green grass and green evergreen tree’s. Once winter comes and these slopes disappear and gives way to the white of the snow, now these slopes become slippery, as you swish your way down with the ski’s beneath your feet.

Within this Society and now that the #meto has gone viral throughout, there are a lot of people hurting deep within. Now with most of the ones coming out, all we hear are the ones that are rich and famous, what we don’t hear are the regular types that are still dealing with their pain and hurt, simply because the shame that they feel is so powerful, it makes it very difficult to talk openly from this kind of abuse. Plus the fact that we are within a Society that can’t truly feel the empathy that is deep within us all, that we don’t truly feel anything for who is around us.

Most of this #meto backlash we are experiencing right now is Media driven and the problem with that is, the media cares nothing for the Victim of the abuse, all they care about is making a story, keeping their agendas and putting money in their pockets, as they go forward with the  take down of the rich and famous. This problem of the Sex abuse we are seeing is, it has affected way more than we think we know, just that the Bias Media will only follow up on the ones that suit them and their agendas.

Now really what business does the Media have in getting into such a hot topic today? Really they should stay out of this topic, as the real Victim needs to heal from all the pain and hurt they have been hiding for way too long. The media has this problem of sticking their noses in places where they really should not, because to truly heal from the real pain and hurt, you don’t need Reporters and camera’ s in your face everyday. Just as when the shooting in Vegas took place, the media was their interviewing ones that just lost a loved one and they didn’t even give these people a chance to truly grieve, so they can heal from the pain of losing their loved one so tragically., all just so they can keep their agendas and keep putting money in their pockets. This all comes down to Human ethics and the media has no clue on what this truly is.

To truly heal from such abuse like sex abuse, just don’t happen overnight and through the media, it takes time to truly heal from this, as it comes from a sick Individual that has groomed and gained the trust of their Victims for so long, that the Victim then buries their true feelings deep within themselves, so they can try to keep moving forward like they as normal as normal can be. Then as the media makes a story out of it just to keep their agenda, now you have a Victim even further burying their true feelings, instead of getting the proper help they so deserve. Most of…..if not all of the Abuser’s were once Victims themselves, as they have buried their true feelings so deep, that they really don’t feel anything for anyone/anything  anymore, so they then repeat the process that has happened to them subconsciously. This whole Society is a Society full of pain and hurt, whether we have become a Victim of sex abuse, or a Victim of a Bully, or whatever you have been a Victim of, none the less we are a Society full of pain and hurt, in which we all need to heal without the media making a spectacle of us, just so they can make a profit from the story. We all walk a path through this journey of life, there will be things that cross our paths that will bring us pain and hurt, we need to be better at understanding of these things, better at fixing ourselves, so we can move forward to be better and stronger, instead of suppressing our true feelings, then losing a big piece of who we truly are, so we than can walk in the peace and happiness that we all so deserve.

 

” You can walk down a slippery slope without falling and getting hurt, you just have to better understand of where you are and put one foot in front of the other”

” This Society of pain and hurt is affecting us all, time we find the empathy within us and help each other to be relieved from the pain and hurt”

” Sex abuse has been happening for generations upon generations, time we repair the link in the chain of the cycle, so we all can be at true peace”

” The main stream media is at the root of all the pain and hurt we all feel today, time we take back the control that they have over all of us”

” Sex abuse is never talked about because the shame controls us so much, time to reach out so we can better understand and take back the control from the shame”

 

 

 

 

 

Look deeply into the true beauty of life

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” The beauty is there all around us, just look deeply into what you see, instead of glancing superficially at what you think you see”

 

Melania Trump is one of the classiest First Ladies of our time, I don’t know if you seen what she has done to the White House, as far as the Christmas decorating, but she has turned the interior of 1600 Pennsylvania avenue into a grand Christmas spectacle. The choice of attire she wore as she opened up the viewing for all to see, well…………. let’s just say she looked liked an angel from God. The inside of the White House looks amazing and very festive in Christmas spirit. Yes it is true our First Lady is an immigrant, that has come here the correct way and became a United States Citizen, we all are a product of an immigrant that has come here the right way, for a better lifestyle, there is nothing wrong with that, but when you sneak into this country and rob the hard working Citizen of what they work hard for, or even sneak into this country and bring chaos to, or kill us Americans, now there is a huge problem that needs to be addressed and fixed, so the rest of us hard working Americans, can be at peace and happiness, to enjoy the fruits of our hard work.

The beauty within the walls of 1600 Pennsylvania avenue, from the work of our First lady and her staff of the true meaning of Christmas, is a must see to all who truly sees Christmas as a Holiday of love and beauty. Christmas is the celebration of and the birth of, our Savior Jesus Christ. Who came to us and walked his journey to teach us and show us with his actions, of how to truly feel the love of his father that is within us and share this love with each other. The true Christmas spirit is about not just love of family, but the love of each other and not just for one time a year, but for everyday of the years to come, which is something in this Society full of ugliness and hatred, that we have totally taken for granted, simply because we have all let the clouds of our judgments take control of who we truly are.

The true Christmas spirit will fill our hearts and souls, with the warm feeling of love. The same love that God our father and his son Jesus Christ has for each of us and that we share with each other always. It is very easy to truly feel the warmth of this love, what we get so confused with is, all the ugliness and hatred around us is much harder to share, or even to keep going as we see, some may think the opposite, but in reality, it is much easier to feel the warmth of this love and then share it with each other.

True Christmas spirit is the giving of oneself and the love within your heart and soul, it is not about what others can give you, as with all the commercialization of this Holiday will have you think? The true Christmas spirit is not about going to the store and giving the biggest and best gift, it is all about giving the biggest and best gift of yourself and with the warmth of the love within you. When we do this and without thinking of what we are doing, just letting the love flow naturally, this is what heats our hearts and souls with the warmth, then as the love spreads all around us, will the ugliness and hatred disappear, with no room at the Inn of life. The true spirit of Christmas and feeling the warmth of God’s love within us, will we then walk our paths through this journey of life, in the peace and happiness we all so deserve.

 

”   The true spirit of Christmas is within us all, the only thing we have to do is, truly feel the warmth in our hearts and souls, then share it with each other”

” May the ugliness and hatred give way to the true spirit of Christmas, so we all can be at peace and happiness always”

” The power of the Holy Spirit is within us all and helps us unleash the power of the true spirit of Christmas, so we can share our love with each other”

” The true spirit of Christmas is the giving of one self and our love toward one another”

 

 

 

 

 

The Family foundation will never steer you wrong, it may become cracked, but the love will always keep it strong

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” Then the King will say to those on his right, come….. You are blessed by my father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the World”

*** Mt 25:34***

 

With every foundation it needs to be layered properly and with care, so it than can protect and be sturdy enough to last the test of time. A good sturdy foundation needs to handled with care, so it’s true strength can be felt later on down the road, of all our paths of this journey through life. A Family foundation is the most important foundation we will ever lay, this foundation will never be laid over night, it will take time to lay this foundation properly, but when we do it right, it will become the strongest of all the foundations, for which we will ever build.

Love is the one key ingredient in laying our family foundation, with love each brick in the foundation, will be strengthened by each other and when laid correctly, will not only make our family foundation strong, but will make the family bond be so strong, that nothing will ever break it.

Throughout the history of Mankind, there have been so much that tries to come between a families bond and it’s foundation, true there may be a wedge driven between the cracks of the foundation to divide us, but when we stay true to the love of the bond, stay true to ourselves always, keep total faith in the foundation, all the cracks formed from the wedge, will disappear making our foundation stronger than ever. There is nothing ever that will crumble our family foundation, when we stay true to who we are, stay true to the love of God within us, then as a family we will work together in repairing the cracks from the wedge.

There is no wedge big enough to crumble a families bond, let alone the family foundation. True these wedges will try to control us individually and take away our love of family, if we let them. The love never leaves us, only we bury the love so deep within, that we move forward like it was never there? We then become part of the wedge as it goes deeper into the foundation, there will be other factors to sway on the side of the wedge, which will bring much pain and hurt to us, but instead of truly understanding of the why’s, we then in order to try to get rid of the pain and hurt, bury it deep within and become someone we truly are not and in some cases, without realizing we have become someone else. With all the crap and the ugliness within this Society, it all starts with our Family foundation and bond, when there is a lack of these two, we then bring it to the rest of the Society and a lot of times without truly realizing of what we are doing. A Society is formed around each of us and what we bring to it, when the family foundation is cracked and the family bond is broken, this is how the Society around us becomes broken as well.

The true light of God is always within us, his love never leaves us, only we as people are the ones who make the choice of truly feeling God’s love deep within  our hearts and souls. When we grow within our families and when things get a bit bumpy in the building of the foundation and the bond, this is when we need to be at our strongest and not walk away, without truly laying the bricks of love on the foundation, when we walk away then we don’t give the bond a chance to form and be the strongest that it can be. When we begin our path through this journey of life, we are tiny and frail, we need guidance and have to be fed, without these then we are left alone, then we bring this to a Society of many. When we are alone it becomes very hard to have faith in anything, let alone ourselves, we lose the warm feeling within us that is the love of God. The family foundation and the family bond is so critical to each of us, as we walk our paths of this journey, that without it, we then become lost and just wander along our paths, with no set purpose in life, then we take this to a Society, which then becomes broken as we are. God’s love is always within us as we walk this journey, all we need to do is, have complete faith in ourselves and in him, so we can truly feel the warmth of his love deep within our hearts and souls, then all the foundations can be repaired by each of us, one brick at a time.

 

” A good foundation isn’t just laid on top of each other, you place the bricks together with the love of God one by one with each other”

” A family foundation and a family bond will never be broken, when built with true love and with all being true to themselves”

” The light of God is that warm feeling within your hearts and souls, that is God’s love within us all for each of us to share with each other”

” Love is the one key ingredient in the building of a strong foundation, so we all can walk in peace and be happy at every turn”