The Field of Dreams



” The Field of dreams was a movie of the sport of Baseball, but the real field of dreams is part of who we are in this journey through life”



Dreaming isn’t bad as we are thinking within ourselves and trying to put ourselves in a better place than our current place, although some may dream because their current situation stinks, but they either fail at, or don’t know how to make the dream a reality? Some may dream about winning the Lottery and not working anymore……… Well the odds of this kind of dream being a reality are to great, so maybe we should lower our expectations to a dream that we can actually work at achieving. When we dream of a better place and we work hard to get to that place, now your talking of us becoming better and stronger moving forward, with a self Esteem so strong that nothing can stop us from any kind of work, that brings us to any place for which we dream.

Dreaming is a way for us to escape reality for a while and get into that happy place that makes us smile. Some may dream and then become depressed because they can’t make it a reality, only because they don’t do anything to achieve that dream, or maybe because they set too high of a goal to accomplish whatever they were dreaming about? A dream is only Fiction in our heads, unless we work hard to make it a fact on the outside within our lives. We may not want to admit to others we dream, but we all do and it’s more common than we may know, when we dream we are afraid to say anything to anybody, simply because we don’t want others to label us a ” dreamer” and portray us as someone with no real touch of reality.

Some within this Society will dream of their past and try to make their present better than it is, as they then use the ” if this happened” scenario, to try to change their current situation? You can never get back what happened in the past, only learn from it, so you can move forward strong and better. When we dream of things, we usually do it of things for which are way out of our reach, then our self Esteem takes a huge hit when we can’t achieve our dream? When we do dream of that better place and we want to get to that place, the best way to do it is, set small goals and when we achieve one goal, then let ourselves celebrate a small victory, then set another small goal to achieve, this will not only make our self esteem stronger, but will also help us move forward better and stronger, as we walk our paths of this journey through life, while we find peace, harmony and happiness.

It is totally okay to dream to escape our realities, but when we think our dreams should be our realities, without putting in the work to make them that, then we get caught up in expectations that will never happen and when our expectations become shattered, we then lose faith in ourselves, our self esteem becomes low or non existent, which we then never work at anything to make us better and stronger moving forward. Then as we walk our paths with no faith and a very low self esteem, we then wander instead of walk, we become negative of all that is around us and never truly become all that we could possibly be, nor do we truly become who we truly are. To dream is part of who we are and when we dream correctly, then we can walk our paths of this journey through life better with true strength moving forward, as we all find that peace and harmony within the happiness we try to reach.


” To dream is okay and is part of who we are, but we first have to dream correctly so we can have it become effective in our lives”

” We dream to find that better place, but to reach that place comes with some real work as we walk our paths of this journey through life”

” When we dream to escape our realities, should be a sign we need to work harder in order to make our realities better”

” The past is the past, we can never get that back, but if we learn from the past we can move forward better and stronger”

” To dream correctly we have to learn to set reachable goals in order to make the dream a reality”


Change is everywhere around us



” Change comes to us in many ways, it is we the people that resist the change simply because we are afraid to tackle anything different in our lives”


You see the Sunset in this picture, at first glance you say ” how beautiful”, but what we tend to forget is, with each passing Sunset there is change within each, every second of the time the sun finally comes to rest for the day and gives way to the night sky.

There is so much change going on around us that it is very easy to lose track of it all, some of the change may be difficult and is what scares the Heck out of us, but most of the change is suttle and because of the hard change, forces us to ignore because of the fear factor. Change is good for all when handled correctly, it is when we don’t understand the change and when we fear the change, that we then let the fear of the change stir us in the wrong direction.

” Change is good when we embrace it and understand it, so we can move forward better and stronger”

Change………. When it comes to a big election like the President race of 2016, you have to actually put some work in, research everything and all the Candidates, so you can make the right change for the better of ourselves and those around us. True both these Candidates scares the Hell out of us all, but there is one that scares us most and one that scares us least, that is for each of us to decide? First you have one that is a Businessman and not a Politician, that says what he wants to say and don’t care who he offends? the other is a career Politician that has come accustomed to lying and quite frankly, I think she doesn’t even realize of the lies she tells? Forget about the two Candidates and lets get to this Election, this is the biggest election of my lifetime so far with the stakes being, we the people going from United States of America, or just America? The United States of America has gone through some huge changes throughout my lifetime, but none bigger than what could happen if we the people elect the wrong Person to run this Country, which makes it even that much more important for us to show up at the voting booths and not just show up, but show up with a well informed decision of who we are voting for.

This Election is all about the the Establishments of both parties versus the blue collar, hard working American, the ones that actually run this Country with our blood, sweat and tears, but over the years the Establishments has created this big Government and bleeding us dry, for their own Personal gain. This is the greatest Country on this Planet and our Veterans of the past and present, work very hard for us to be free to do as we want, but the Establishment don’t want to recognize them and they leave them in the cold, I say ” screw the establishments”, let’s get back back to respecting the men and woman who serve and have served and fought hard, so we can be free to do as we do within this great Country. America is the greatest Country on this Planet and can certainly become great again, as we the people have a very big decision to make on November 8th. Who do we want to lead us into prosperity? A pathological liar, or a Businessman that tells it like it is? The choice is ours to make and we need to make a well informed decision, that not only will affect ourselves, but that will affect all that is around us.

Now the Liberal bias Media will do what ever they can to influence our vote and that also includes, lying to us and feeding us either half stories, or stories that are totally false and bias for their agenda. Then you have others within a campaign that will stop at nothing, to demean or make their opponent look completely of someone they are not? We the hard working blue collar worker and voter, have to be smarter and look deeply into all the crap, sift through the garbage, so we then can make a good well informed decision, on who we want to vote for, so our Candidate can lead us into prosperity and make America great once again, instead of selling our Country out right from under our feet. This is America and we all walk our own paths we choose, but the journey through life is the same for each of us, do we want the journey to be full of bumps that will bruise us, or do we want the journey to be, smooth so we all can live in peace and be happy? The decision is our to make, so lets make a well informed decision, vote for the right Candidate, so we all can walk our paths through this journey of life in peace and be happy everyday of our existence.


” The Establishments are a group of people that only have “their” interests in mind and only do whatever they need for their own Personal gain”

” America is a great country and a great place to live, which we owe our Veterans of the past and present simply by showing them respect and taking care of them for taking care of us”

” Change is along all our paths of this journey, it is up to us, to embrace it and understand it so we can be better and stronger moving forward”


Going with the flow……..


Going with the flow out on the lake on a windy day, you can see the scene stays the same and as you get closer into shore, from the waves and the wind driving you, you then get into a predicament that forces you into scrambling to keep from hitting the obstacles under the water, or becoming stranded because you went over a rock which put a whole in the bottom of the boat. Going with the flow may work for a short time, but eventually there comes a time, you need to get out of the flow and put in the work, so you can find a better flow, that helps you become better and stronger moving forward.

This theory is so true as we walk our paths through this journey of life, when we go with the flow within our Society, we then get caught up within a comfortable rut, that we dig ourselves into a hole and become stranded along our paths of this journey. When we become stranded in our comfortable rut, it then becomes very hard to dig out of the rut, some may give up as they become lazy and tired from the digging, some never give up and get out of the rut, then work even harder to find a better flow that helps them flourish moving forward, none the less as you just go with the flow, eventually you need to change the flow, so you can keep moving forward on your path of this journey, then through the change we learn we can be better and stronger as we walk our path through this journey of life.


” The theory of life can come to us in many different ways, when it does we have to be willing to change so the theory can work in our favor”

” Going with the flow on a windy day on the water, can eventually lead to a rough day on the water”

” Going with the flow in life will lead to digging into a comfortable rut, which keeps you from moving forward to become better and stronger”


We are all Victims of Judgments



” A Widow in that town used to come to him and say, ” Render a just decision for me against my adversary.”


*** LK 18:3


We throughout this Society are all Victims of these just decisions/judgments, as we pass judgments on each other and even without knowing truly of the facts of our judgments. We get so caught up within all the technology around us, that we then lose the biggest part of who we are and that is, the Personal touch of face to face interactions. In order to react to each other with our true feelings and our caring nature that is within us, we have to first come out from behind the technology, learn the true trait of face to face interaction, so we then can learn to trust each other once again and as we get our trust of each other back, we then can render a true judgment of each other, as we walk our paths through this journey of life, within the peace and happiness that this journey is suppose to be all about.

In a lot of ways technology has made our lives easier, but with this easy part of the technology, we have also become so lazy, that none of us are willing to put in the work needed, in order to walk through this journey with confidence and we also have become afraid to interact with each other face to face. When we don’t interact properly, we then put false judgments on each other, which not only hurts the ones we are judging, it also hurts ourselves and our Society as a whole.

A Judgment is not the final ruling on who we are, or who we have become as we walk through this journey, but yet we take these judgments to seriously, as we don’t know where the true judgments are anymore. We have become a culture of judging as we judge everything and anything, as we walk our paths through this journey. When we judge everything around us, we then lose the biggest part of ourselves and that is, our true Empathy that is within us all. Without this Empathy we then lose the feeling of God’s love within our hearts and find it very difficult to follow in the footsteps of his only son……. Jesus Christ.

We are so removed from the journey of Jesus Christ and so far into all the technology around us, we are all guilty of losing the biggest part of who we are, as well as losing the feeling of Empathy deep within our core. Yes this technology can help us move forward stronger and better, but we first have to understand it and use it properly, without losing the true face to face interactions, which helps us keep in touch with our true feelings of empathy and helps us trust in each other. As we then put false judgment on each other. These false judgments are doing nothing but bring this hatred and chaos to all our paths and are forcing us to move backward instead of forward. Quite simply…… Let’s get back to the journey of Jesus Christ, remember all that he taught us, while he shared the true love of God with all that is around him ( as he still lives within all of us), Then as we walk our paths through this journey of life, we can also share the same love with each other, so we all can move forward better and stronger, while we live peacefully and in happiness everyday of this journey.


” This picture of Franconia Notch in New Hampshire with the calm water, shows the beauty of true peace which keeps us all focused on truly being of who we are”

” Technology was designed to help us move forward better and stronger, not bring out the drama and the hate as we hide behind it with no face to face interaction”

” Face to face interactions keeps us in tune with each other, so we can never lose touch with our Empathy and share the love of God within our hearts, with each other”


A Society lost within the clouds of judgment


This Society for which we all walk our paths of this journey through life, is so clouded within our judgments, that none of us can simply move forward without getting in each others way. Seriously now!!! I have never in my lifetime seen a Presidential Election, as dirty as this one, with all the mud slinging and accusations. come on people!!! Lets start using that Common Sense that we all have within us, that also has become lost within the clouds.

“My Theory is, if you can’t get elected to any office on your merits, than you should not be running for that office, or any office for that matter”.

The last eight years has been nothing but broken promises, okay there might of been some good, but the bad out weighs the good, but yet our so called leaders are selling it to us as it has been great the past eight years? Now you have one Candidate that all she wants is to become the first Woman President and will do what ever it takes to achieve that. Then you have another Candidate that is not a Politician, but a very successful Business man, now the way this Country has gone over the last eight years, I am leaning toward the Business man? Simply because maybe we should treat this Country as a Business and really fix the economy, so we can reduce the deficit and bring jobs back to the American worker once again, not too mention rebuilding our depleted Military from the past eight years.

I totally understand our Country was based on Immigration, but Immigration done the right way and if the word ” Illegal” is before the word ” Immigration”, than you are doing something wrong.  I am totally for shutting the borders for a short time, fix what we need to fix, then reopen the right way, so we all can move forward stronger and better than before. When I say fix what needs to be fixed, that includes keeping companies from leaving this Country and stranding thousands or even millions without a job, all because the company wants cheaper labor in another country? Plus that Company then sells their product back here, for even more money than it is really worth, only a true Businessman who knows how too close a deal and can fix this as he knows just how to achieve this problem.

This whole Country is going to Hell in a hand basket and quicker then we care to acknowledge, if we don’t do anything Now. This country of America is a far different country from the time I was a young boy and the direction it is going is backwards instead of forward. The biggest reason for this you ask? We don’t use our Common Sense anymore, or should I say it is not very Common anymore? Greed is also a big part in the direction of this country and the ones that are suppose to be leading us, have totally forgotten about the ones who voted them into office, so they can become even more Greedier, by robbing all us working folk, of all our hard earned money.

All our Veterans from years past are turning in their graves, as the Country they fought so hard for, so we all can be free, is quickly becoming not so free anymore, unless your willing to play the same power game, that is going on right now within the capital of this country in Washington D.C. All our so called leaders are bought and paid for by the Special Interest groups, so they can call the shots, instead of us the people, that vote these leaders into office, another reason why we need a successful Businessman as President, cause he is bought and paid for by no one and can help turn this Country around and moving forward in the right direction.

You also have a very Liberal Biased Media and they will do and say anything, just to get their Candidate elected and that includes all the negative/Hate ads that we see on our television screens, but don’t get me started on this topic as this will be for another blog, because these media types won’t stop at anything and that includes printing or saying facts that are untrue, then hide behind the first amendment? What makes them mightier than the hard working Individuals that, actually run this country with their blood, sweat and tears?    Come on people………. It’s time to wake up, smell the coffee of reality and get back to the Common Sense that is within us all, as we walk our paths of this journey through life.


” A Presidential election like no other, full of hatred and mud slinging, instead of the facts to get a country back on the tracks of prosperity”

” Common Sense is just that common……. but nobody uses what is within us all anymore”

” Liberal Biased Media needs to be called out for what they are and start being equally fair right down the middle once again”

” If you can’t publish the facts then you really shouldn’t publish anything anymore”


The Mountain top experience without climbing a Mountain



” And one of them realizing he had been healed, glorifying God in a loud voice, and he fell at the feet of Jesus then thanked him, he was a Samaritan”

** LK 17:15-16


You really don’t have to hike up a mountain in order to have a mountain top experience, this experience is the rush of adrenaline you get when you reach the summit of any mountain, feeling the high of the hard work you just went through, to get to the summit, that feeling of Wow!!! I made it through the rigorous  trail to get to this point of true beauty. This journey of life is very similar in the way that, we all walk our paths through this journey of life, we all go through our highs as well as our lows, but when we do it correctly, we all can feel the Wow!!! of a journey well walked.

The Samaritan is of someone that we today within this Society, think of being low man on the totem pole, the one that really shouldn’t have a say in anything, but it is the hard work of this Samaritan that pushes this Society forward, so we all can walk our paths through this journey of life with great strength, to be better from Society to Society. The Samaritan as they work hard in their lives are the ones that make their mistakes. then learn from their mistakes and continue moving forward, while still others become someone they truly are not and then think that they themselves are more powerful than the rest. We all make mistakes, but when we let them stock pile, without fixing them as they come, that is when we become someone we are not, while moving forward and then regret later of our faults. To truly have that Mountain top experience, we first have to admit our faults, admit we are Human and have the faith in Jesus, so he can forgive us of our faults, so we can truly move forward better and stronger.

This journey of life has its moments of joy and sadness, it also will reward those who walk their journey correctly and that reward comes in the way of, The Wow factor you feel as you reach the top of the mountain, without even hiking at all. This Wow feeling  is of, a feeling you have when you have been healed of all your wrongs, so you then drop to your knees, while thanking Jesus for all he has done for you and has forgave you for all you have done. This Wow feeling and the mountain top experience, it can not happen if we don’t have complete faith in Jesus as well as ourselves, so then the hope can be the reward that, keeps us stronger and better.

We all walk a path through this journey of life, a lot of times we stray from truly walking our paths as we become fragile from all the bumps and bruises along the path. This is when we become some one we truly are not, as we move forward hiding the real pain and hurt that has come to us, through this hidden pain and hurt, keeps us from achieving that mountain top experience and then regretting it later, through our regrets we will never be Wowed from anything, let alone having that mountain top experience, that helps us all heal from truly walking our paths along this journey of life, while we truly never lose who we are and become better and stronger moving forward.


” Regret is something we all go through, but to get through the regret correctly is something we all don’t do correctly”

” The mountain top experience is a feeling we all have within, when Jesus forgives us from our wrongs, so we then can move forward better and stronger”


” The Samaritan is the worker that works hard and helps pushing everybody around them to be better, the one that fixes their wrongs quietly and moves forward with their actions speaking loudly”


Change will come to all of us along our Journey of Life…..


” This is a post that I wrote a couple years ago and I chose this pix as it used to be home of the Old Man of the Mountain in New Hampshire. With a few tweaks this post shows that through change, we all can walk our paths peacefully, while being happy along our journey of life”

” This journey through life really is too short to have it bring us great pain and sorrow, but through change and done correctly, we all can walk our paths in peace and be stronger and better moving forward”



Our Journey of life is far different, than any journey or trek we take, in a vacation sort of way, a vacation is a journey that we set up and control, so we can get away from reality for a bit and unwind to also relax, a Journey we all walk through life, is reality and a journey that we can’t control where we go, only walk the journey correctly, in order to make it a safe and happy passage.

Throughout this Journey of life, we as Humans go through many changes, these changes comes to us in many different ways, these changes can also be very ugly for us if we let them control our being, as these changes come to us, yes we will not accept them at first, that is perfectly okay, it is a natural feeling within all of us, when we are resistant to these changes, is when we become something we truly are not, if God thought these changes were bad for us, he wouldn’t allow these changes to come to us along our journey of life.

Change is good for the soul, if we handle them correctly and learn to accept, instead of not acknowledging that they happen for a reason, to help us be better and stronger moving forward on our paths of our journey of life.

The Journey of our vacations, is very different than our journey of life, the journey of life is all our realities and how we walk our paths through life, these changes come to us at the cross roads of our paths, God puts them there for us to see them, but it is up to us to truly see them and to acknowledge them, so we can accept them and make our journeys better and stronger moving forward, there is so much more to life than all the materialistic things we acquire, it is the spiritualistic things that drive us to walking our journey being safe, while moving forward with the strength to be better, not just for ourselves, but for all we meet along our journey.

When change comes to us, it happens in many ways, sometimes change is needed and sometimes it is unwanted, but what makes all change very ugly, is us as Humans not accepting it and resisting it, which makes us become bitter and become something/someone we are truly not.

Change is something we all go through along our journeys, change could be something very simple to us, like not putting sugar in your coffee, or other change can be very difficult, like a lifestyle change, which the latter is usually the one most likely to be resisted, but when we  resist this change, is the start of us moving forward being someone we are not and not truly  being ourselves, another type of change we deal with is, when a life event happens to us, these events come to us in many ways, just like change comes to us,  these events can be very emotional and painful to us as well, which is when we change ourselves in ways that truly isn’t who we are, change will happen to all of us as we walk our paths, it is part of the journey that God try’s to guide us into the right direction, it is how we deal with the change that makes us into who we are, the choice is always given to us by God, we can either accept or resist the change, but each will either make our paths along our journey of life be very emotional and much pain, or we can be in peace to be better and stronger moving forward.

” Change is a part of life, we can accept or resist, then either way we have to live with our choice, by becoming someone we truly are not”

” Change can be ugly, or change can be beautiful, the choice is ours to make as we walk our journeys of life”

” God puts this change at our crossroads of our paths, the choice is ours to accept or resist all these changes”