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Decisions are a choice we all make…..

Most people when they think of making a decision, they totally think of themselves and how this decision will help them moving forward? A decision is the similar as making a choice, which we all make many choices everyday, throughout our journey we walk here on Earth.

Every decision we make no matter big or small, not only affects ourselves, but it will affect all those around us. When you think of all those around us and times it by the amount of people within our Society, now your talking about decisions or choices that affect a large amount of people. If we make a decision to not smoke cigarettes anymore, yes this will be better for ourselves, but lets not forget how good this will be for all those around us and just as good for our Society as well.

“Our decisions we make are up to us to make, but the choice to make that decision, will not only affect ourselves, but will affect all those around us”.

We all within this great country of the United States of America have a huge decision to make next year in 2016, do we want to stay the course we are in, or do we want real change to come to us, as we get ready to vote for the next President of the United States. With all the hype of Hillary Clinton, do we really want somebody that totally thinks she is above all of us and the rules only pertain to us not her? Do we want another Busch in office, when we already had his Brother and Father in office already? Maybe it’s time for some new blood sort of speak, somebody that will fix America first, before they give our hard earned tax dollars to a third World country.

We in this country of the United States have some major issues that need addressing, before we address the issues of another country. It is kind of like us as Humans, to be able to help each other, we first have to fix ourselves, in order to be able to share our love of ourselves, we first have to feel this love within our hearts and souls.

” You first need to fix yourself and your issues, before you can help fix others with their issues”

Those people in the Middle East have been fighting since before Jesus came to us and walked his journey with us. You think if Hussein was still in charge of Iraq, there would be a problem with a group called ISIS now? These are all questions we need the truthful answer to, before we waste more of the tax payer’s money, when we make a choice on the decision to help others before we help ourselves. I understand how true empathy works and how we put ourselves in the shoes of another, but at what cost do we have to leave those fellow Americans alone and go help others that don’t really care for the United States of America at all.

We here in the United States have some huge choices and decisions in the days ahead of us, we can make the right decisions when we make ourselves well informed, but we need to focus on fixing ourselves first, so we can be better and stronger, then we can help others around the World, as we will be strong enough to handle anything that may cross our paths. We all walk our paths along our journey of life, so we can be better and stronger moving forward, to do this we all need to make better decisions of our choices, so real and positive change comes to us all.

” Before we can change for the better, our decisions of our choices needs to be better and well informed”

The Choices and changes throughout our journey of life.

The Choices and the Changes throughout our journey of life, to some they may be over whelming and get lost along their journey, they may also lose sight of who they truly are? Yet others may seem as if they have no issues with the choices and the changes? We all throughout the history of Mankind, have had to make many choices to which we then had to change, sometimes these changes don’t really show who we really are.

Since the beginning of Mankind, we have always had these choices and changes come to us, we all throughout Mankind have walked paths and it’s these paths that sometimes we find are not the right path? When we start out on our first path that we have been guided towards, we don’t realize that this is not the only path and we have to understand that it is our choice to either, walk our first path, or find other paths that may be better suited for who really are. When we come to the many cross roads along the path of our journey’s, we look to try to continue along the path we are on? what we don’t realize is, the cross roads is the chance for us to change direction, follow a different path, that truly allows us to be who we truly are.

Jesus Christ came to us and walked his path of his journey of life, he showed us that there are many paths to get to the path of righteousness, just that we have to chose the right path, that will help us be true to who we are and not only believe in ourselves, but believe in Jesus and the Lord God. Life isn’t about separating ourselves from each other, it is about coming together as one, so we all can walk our paths of our journey’s, in peace while we share the love of God, Jesus and ourselves with each other.

When we make bad choices along our paths (yes we all do it), we then hide who we really are, so we can try to continue on our path, looking as normal as we possibly can towards others. When you have all throughout Mankind not understanding of the choices, now you have a Society trying to move forward by hiding within itself, now you have Individuals separating themselves from each other, trying to move forward as if they are normal and all others are different? Jesus didn’t come to us to show us how to separate from each other, he came to us to show Unity and that when we come together, we all can be better and stronger as we walk our chosen path along our journey of life.

Choices and Changes will come to all of us throughout Mankind, Jesus showed us that we don’t have to let these choices and changes define us, but if we better understand our choices, than the changes we make will always help us be better, so we all can be at peace, while we share our love of each other and we all can be stronger to handle anything that may come across our paths along our journey of life.

Jesus may have chosen his twelve disciples to help him spread his message from his Father the Lord God, but this message isn’t just spread from these twelve Individuals, the message is spread from each one of us, throughout the history, the present and the future of Mankind. Right now in the present we have wandered away from the message of Jesus, we have wandered away from each other and now we are wandering solely by ourselves, which is making us show our weaknesses, instead of being strong and who we truly are. To understand the choices we make in our lives, is not really that hard, we are the ones that make it harder than it has to be,  when we understand better the choices, then the changes we make will be better informed and help us be stronger, plus the changes will help us stay true to who we are, without hiding from ourselves or each other. We all walk our paths along our journey of life, when we stay true to ourselves and Jesus Christ, we will see that there are many paths to chose from and that we can change from path to path, which will help us all become one in unity, instead of drifting apart from one another, so we all can be at peace with one another, while we share our love with each along our journey through life.

” when we better understand the choices within our lives, the changes will become natural and make us stronger throughout our lives”

” Unity of one another will help us all be better and stronger, while we all make better choices to change what we need and walk our paths of our journey in peace and love”

Is it a scandal, or maybe just jealousy….

This whole thing between the New England Patriots, Tom Brady and the National Football League, really has no legs to stand on after seeing the Wells report. You can clearly see there is no solid evidence proving that Brady did, or knew of the deflation to the game day footballs, nor if the deflation really happened. It could quite possibly be that pure science, the warmer temp from the inside and then the colder temp of the outside, could be the reason for the deflation, if it all happened in the first place?

This could be just the NFL trying to save face, after the way they handled one case of child abuse charges and another case of one player ( on video) beating his wife unconscious? Not to mention the fact that, there are other players within the NFL that, simply don’t put their best foot forward representing the NFL in the best way.

When you have a team like the Patriots, that win more than they lose, you are going to have the hater’s hating on the team. Now with these gross implications by the NFL, you have the hater’s speaking loudly now more than before, This so called Wells report has no clear cut evidence to back up the findings and when Brady breaks his silence through his Lawyers, we will all see that Tom did not cheat in a game he loves so much, not to mention a game that clearly no one is as competitive as Tom is of football.

We all need practice to compete in at a high level on game day, Tom during team practices will practice harder than his teammates and he is always first to show up at the practice, this is known fact and this is why he has become a winner, in the sport he knows, loves and enjoys to play. My statement to all the hater’s is, if you want to be like Tom, then step up to the plate, put in the hard work like Tom and become a winner from the hard work you achieve, you will never be a winner from always taking the easy road and hating on a true winner, winning is never easy and when you think you practiced enough, think again? keep practicing so you then can become great at what you do, with this greatness is how you become a winner and a champion.

Quarterbacks like Tom Brady don’t come around all that often and when you hate on him for winning, you just can’t come to like him, nor can you just simply watch and enjoy his play, while he is still playing the game he loves and enjoys to play.

The game of football is first about strategy and second about having the talent to compete and play at a high level, you can’t excel and be great without first practicing and putting the time in to practice, to be better in the sport you love to play. the strategy comes from the playbook that the coaches put together and the players practice the plays, so they can execute each play with perfection, when the players and coaches are on the same page and when the strategy is executed to a “T” and is the best strategy on the field during game day, this is what helps you win the game and ultimately winning the championship you set out to win, on the first game of the season.

” winning and being a champion is about the hard work put in during the practices, so you can execute and have the best strategy”

” to be able to be a winner and a champion, you need to step up to the plate, put in the hard work in practice and stop taking the easy way, or hating on those that do actually win or are a true champion”

” Professional” Sports today…..

“Professional sports today has changed greatly, from what sports used to be like of yesterday”.

In the World of sports today, no matter what sport you look at, Greed has taken control of everything about that sport. You can start with the Owner’s and work your way down from there, An Owner is not going to invest in a sports team, just because he/she loves that sport, they spend big dollars to buy a team, so they then can turn a profit and make the return of investment (ROI), even greater than what they originally paid.

You then have the sponsors who pay these Owners to advertise their products/product inside their stadiums, so they to can make even more money back (ROI). Inside these stadiums the fans want something to eat or drink while they watch that sport they came to see, now you have the food service companies that hold a contract with the stadium, to sell the food and drink to the public and they to want to make money back on their investment, so they charge big money even for a candy bar you may purchase.

You then have to have media there to cover the games whether via radio or television, so the teams can further their brand throughout the sports world, these media companies also want to turn a profit, so they can further create drama instead of calling a game. With all this greed going on within the stadium, I still haven’t mentioned the product on the field, which happens to be the Player’s that play that sport.

These Players of today and because of greed, don’t play the sport anymore just because they love the game? they now want the big money contracts so they can live their plush lifestyles and make others jealous of their new fortune. With this new fortune by the player’s, it will also go straight to their head, which they then play for the money and not the love of the game. Okay true their are some that will play because they love what they do and will excel for the fan, that pays big money to watch them, but these type of players are far and few between, as today sports are played to make everybody wealthy and the fan reaching deeper into their pockets.

The biggest problem with sports today is, now the players and their competitive juices, will do whatever it takes to get the upper hand on their opponent, even if that something is in the form of cheating, just to gain the upper hand. Now I am not saying that all sports players cheat? But they will do whatever it takes to win that game, extend their careers so they can make the big money, for a longer period of time, just so they don’t have to work hard in a 9-5 type of job.

Now as the player learns to gain the system so they can make the bigger money within their sport, you now have players that shouldn’t be playing, simply because they lost the love of the game in which they play, not to mention the love of ourselves, that we all lost towards each other as we walk our paths along this journey through life. When we show this love for each other, than not only will the sports players play the game, for the love of the game, we also throughout life, will walk our journey through life being better and stronger and with a confidence, so we can over come any hurdle that may try to derail us from our path, these hurdles will become smaller as we work hard to achieve them and not try to live a false reality through our sports, or try to gain the upper hand on each other.

” Sports when played the right way and for the love of the game, will always make each on of us watch that game with enjoyment and fun”

” sports today is too much about greed and not enough about the love of the game”

NCIS… a TV show or reality?

NCIS may be a tv show, but it is a show that it’s story lines are as close to reality as you can get. The networks say this is the number one show and for someone who has watched this show, for the twelve seasons it has been on, I can say they are spot on and the best show of my lifetime.

I am someone that is trying to break into the world of freelance writing and these writer’s of this TV show….. Well let’s just say, I would love to be a fly on the wall, in the room where they create the words, for each script week to week.

These Writer’s of this TV show NCIS, have found their niche in the way they write and captivate their audience, not just week to week, but from season to season. Each episode of each season just gets better and better all the time, then you add in the cast of Actor’s that bring each character to life for our viewing eyes, now you can see why this is the best TV show on television today.

The season twelve ending this year and the story line the writer’s chose to end with, is just the proof you need on how close to reality this show really is, the last three weeks of this season. led into the last show of the season, plus the way they ended it will keep you in suspense the whole summer.

The story line was of how the Terrorists use and brain wash children, to do their dirty work, which further proves just how much of a coward a Terrorist really is. They hide behind these children so they themselves don’t get hurt, or have to feel any kind of feeling, like the normal people of this Society. True we all throughout Mankind have empathy, just that these Terrorists have had some major kind of life event happen to them, that they chose not to acknowledge the empathy that is inside them.

NCIS may be a TV show, but t is a show that not only keeps you in suspense with it’s story lines, but a show that is as close to reality as a TV show can get, the Writer’s may be behind the cameras, but these Individuals don’t get enough credit, for the great work and creative ideas, they bring to us the viewers week to week and from season to season. As an inspiring Writer myself, I am inspired by these Writer’s and do hope this show never ends? We all throughout Mankind have this creativity inside us, just that we don’t let this creativity flow freely within our lives as we walk our paths along our journey, a good Writer has this special kind of creativity that flows within them and when they unleash this creativity, they write words that captivate their audience and keeps them coming back for more, these writer’s of NCIS have definitely unleashed their creativity of words, as they know how to captivate us the viewer and keep us coming back week to week and season to season.

” NCIS may be a TV show, but it is a show that is as close to reality as you can get in a show”

” Terrorists are cowards with deeper problems of their own in which they have buried deep within themselves”

” Terrorists brain wash our children in the music they listen to, the games on the computer they play and recruit them within all the social media’s that is around us all”

God’s love for us, comes through our Mother’s

“God’s love we may not see and to some it doesn’t exist, as for a Mother’s love…. it is very precious and will never leave us, even when they cut the cord as we exit from the warmth of our Mother’s body”.

God’s love when we chose to acknowledge it, is deep within the soul and the core of our existence as we walk our paths along this journey of life. When we truly feel a warmth within our hearts, that is the love of God warming our bodies and souls, so we then can go out along our paths and share this love with all those that come across our path of our journey. When you don’t acknowledge the love of God, you will never feel any warmth within your heart, which then your body and soul become cold, when we are cold we then have no true feelings or emotions that help heel us in the proper way when we need to, sometimes things happen to us along our paths of our journey, this is when we need these true feelings and emotions, so we can feel God’s love deep within our hearts and souls, so we then can fix ourselves, to be better and stronger as we walk further on our journey, than share this love to others around us, so we all can walk our paths along our journey in peace and love.

A Mother’s love even when the cord is cut at the time of our birth never leaves us or our Mothers, this love we share with our Mothers further proves that God’s love does exist within us. We can be thousands of miles away from our Mothers and when something happens to us, our Mothers will know it as she will suddenly become happy or sad for whatever has happened to us, “this is how the love of God works, he doesn’t have to be in front of us, all we need to do is acknowledge, then feel the warmth through our hearts”. A Mother’s love is the most precious thing for all of us as we walk our paths here on Earth, her love never ends no matter what may happen to us along our journey, even when we think we have failed along our paths, or not lived as our Mom’s would of wanted us to, her love never fails us to which this love becomes stronger, so we can dig deep within our souls, to acknowledge God’s love, become true to ourselves and feel our true feelings and emotions, so we than can continue on our paths of our journey. A Mother’s love is the strongest bond we will ever feel, as we walk this journey, it will never fail no matter the distance it travels to reach us, or whatever along the journey that may happen to us, this same love helps us to feel God’s love deep within our hearts and souls, so we can be true to ourselves, be in touch with our true feelings and emotions, truly feel the warmth of God’s love in our hearts warming our bodies, so we then can over come anything that may cross our paths and as we feel this love, we then share it with all others along our paths, so we can all throughout Mankind, walk our paths along this journey in peace and harmony with each other.

” A Mothers love never ends, it will always be with us through the good and the bad, just like the love of God helps us be better and stronger along our journey’s”

” When Mary gave birth to Jesus, her love never failed him on his journey, this is the true love of all of us with our Mother’s as we walk our journeys through our lives”

The Hater’s will always be hateful of everything.

All this talk of Tom Brady and the New England Patriots with “deflate gate”, has been so over blown that nobody can talk about any sport, without bringing up Tom Brady in a negative way.

” The Hater’s are going to always hate”, simply because they are too lazy, to even try to be like the ones with great success. When ever you hate on something, or even chat negatively about something/someone, only shows one thing and that is you yourself has a very low self esteem, that maybe if you worked hard at increasing the esteem, than maybe you as well can have great success, like those you chose to hate on.

We all within this Society have our favorite teams throughout all the pro sports, some of these teams have a very low budget and can’t get the big name stars of that particular sport, simply because in the sports world and the Athlete endorsements, some of these player’s demand the ultimate highest dollar that they can get, there is nothing wrong with that except, it ruins the fun part of sports for all of us to enjoy.

Lets look back in time, when the New York Yankees were always winning games and championships, or the Montreal Canadians were winning games and championships, the Yankees nickname became the ” evil empire” and the Canadians were known as the ” dreaded Habs”. Everybody hated on them so much, simply because they were always winning and the Hater’s team couldn’t beat them, I say to the Hater’s, ” if you want to be a champion and win, then step up to the plate, put in the hard work so you can have great success, like those you hate”.

The New England Patriots today, are very much like the Yankees and Canadians of the past, because they always win and the other players and fans instead of stepping up to the plate, take the easy way out and simply hate on them. Tom Brady is the Quarterback of this team the Patriots, he has become the face of the Patriots, for his longevity and tenure with the team, but what is not talked enough about Tom is, the fact that he is always the first one to practice before any of his teammates, it is this practice that makes him so good and if we all practice in life like Tom in football, than just maybe all our lives will be 100% better, as we all become stronger in all we do. The other thing of Tom that is never chatted about is, the fact he restructured his contracted twice for less money, so the Patriots can put a better team around him, true that Tom still makes good money and his endorsements more than make up for the restructuring, but Tom Brady plays the game of football cause he loves the game that much and enjoys what he does.

When we all as Human beings, walk our paths along this journey of life, practice everything to the point we get great at it, then yes we to can have great success like Tom Brady, the New England Patriots, Yankees, or the Canadians and just maybe all this hate that has consumed us all, will disappear from all our lives.   That old cliche of ” practice makes perfect”, okay maybe we won’t be perfect, as there is no one that is perfect, but we can come pretty close as the practice will make us so much better and stronger as we walk our paths along this journey of life.

” I believe in and will always stay true to Tom Brady, as he should be a true role model for all of us to follow and strive to be like him”

” Practice may not make you be perfect, but it will make you better and stronger at what ever you want to do”

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