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The Dark clouds that circle over this Society………….

           We the People throughout this Society and throughout all of Mankind, are the biggest problem of what this Society is turning into. All the drama and troubles that come before us at the cross roads, along our paths of this journey through life are first and for most, the fault and responsibility of each and every one of us.

” The dark clouds that loom over head, can disappear when we all acknowledge our faults and take responsibility of our actions”

We all dream and want that perfect wedding, we want this so bad that we enter a chapter into our lives, without really knowing of the one we enter it with? This is exactly why the Divorce rate is so high and the days of “til death do you part”, are gone from all our lives. We the People dream of that fairy tale wedding so much, we then become clouded by the dark clouds within our judgements. True that when we meet someone and date each other to learn of each other and as we  get involved in that person, then we think that this is the one? But do we really know the true person deep inside, or is this the fake front they perceive on the exterior? Then instead of basing our judgement of each other on becoming friends first to build a solid foundation in a Friendship, we first base it on is this person good enough in bed to satisfy my needs? A good solid foundation of a relationship, starts first with solid foundation of a friendship, a man and a Woman having a clear judgement, so they can become one with each other, not living with each other so they can look good to those around them, or a feeling they get when they spend the night in the bed with each other. Blake Shelton and Miranda Lambert entered this chapter of the fairy tale wedding, everybody around them thought they were meant to be? But now as we hear of their Divorce, we learn that one cheated on the other, just for that cheap and brief feeling we get from from the bed that really doesn’t last all that long. We are driven by this short lived feeling within this Society, instead of being driven by our true feelings, that will last for as long as we walk our paths along this journey through life.

This dark cloud that looms over our heads is simply the clouded judgements we make, because we don’t truly understand how do deal with all the issues we face everyday of our journey through life, life will always throw us a curve ball and we will always have these life events that try to throw us off our game, when we don’t handle these events correctly and truly understand why these events have happened? We will never hit the curve ball out of the park, so we than can be on top of our game, nor will these dark clouds of our judgements disappear from above our heads. A lot of times through the darkness of the clouds, we get caught up in the feelings of loneliness, that further our true feelings deeper inside us, then forming these fake feelings so others will think we are okay? When we get too close to others around us, or what we may think as that special person for us? We then enter into a chapter of our lives, that we end up getting out of at a later time in our lives, because we learn later that we have entered the wrong chapter at the wrong time.

We all have our issues, we all suffer through these life events that come to us even when we don’t want them to, but what we don’t do is, fix these events before the black clouds of our judgements, circle over our heads and trap us into becoming someone we truly are not. Then as we enter into a new chapter in our lives with someone who we think is right for us, or anything we may set out to do? We can make better judgements with our true feelings, instead of the fake feelings we portray so we can try to live a happy and healthy life. Marriage between a Man and a Woman is the most beautiful thing we will ever do as we walk our paths of our journey through life. when we enter into this chapter not only will we feel feelings like no other, but we will also live as one “til death do us part”,  then we all can walk our paths of our journey through life in peace and the darkness of the clouds will turn to brightness and happiness.

” The dark cloud that circles above us, will always disappear when we all fix our issues correctly and walk our journey through life being happy and true to ourselves and those around us”

” Dark clouds are not only in the sky above us, they also consume our judgements when we don’t fix our issues correctly and bury our true feelings deep within”

The Beautiful natural colors of Mother Earth, we all take for granted.

Nature Hearts           “There is so much beauty around us as we walk our paths along this journey of life, all we have to do is open our eyes, stop all the bickering, change our stubborn ways and be more open minded to everything around us”.

We the People within this Society of today, are exactly what is wrong and until we acknowledge our faults, take responsibility of our actions and stop trying to knock each other down, so we ourselves can shine over everything around us, Then this Society will forever be  troubled and we will never learn of our faults, so we all can walk our paths of our journey  of life in peace and become stronger and better than Societies of the past.

This whole Tom Brady vs the National Football League Scandal, proves just how much hatred we have for one another. Tom Brady is the biggest name in Football and he wins more than he loses, for this we have so much hatred aimed at Tom that it just makes me sick. When someone like Tom has so much success, the rest of us simply take the easy way out and hate on him just for being successful. Tom has earned all his success, wins and his fame, it all starts with the hard work Tom put in just to get to where he is today. Work is a new four letter word, that we are all so afraid to say or even do, so we all can enjoy success and fame like Tom Brady does. Instead we would rather hate on Tom or whoever that has succeeded in life, because we have given up and become too lazy to follow the steps of good old fashioned hard work. Everybody today wants to take the easy way in life, we all want to be rich with lots of money, but nobody wants to go to work, work very hard and earn this money then live a comfortable lifestyle, so we instead strip those who have worked hard of their success, by either hating on them, or robbing them of their respect and dignity, not too mention breaking into their homes and taking things that they worked hard at bringing into their lives.

I get the fact that certain life events can and will change who we are if we let them, these events will control every fiber of our being as well, when these events are in control of who we are, we then get lost in the clouds of our judgements and make bad choices within our lives, which leads to us with feelings of low self esteem and empathy of not just each other, but for ourselves as well. It takes hard work on our parts to fight these events from controlling who we are and a lot of times we give up and give in to the sorrow of ourselves, so we then frown at any kind of hard work and learn to hate on everything and everybody around us. This way of life is not the right way to live our lives as we walk our paths of our journey through life, but because we have given up we then become too lazy to apply ourselves to any kind of hard work, then hate on others cause they worked very hard to achieve great success in their lives.

Tom Brady like many other successful People as he is, worked very hard to get to where they are, he is also a Human being like all of us and because of this, we to with hard work can be as successful as he is, we just have to want it bad enough. The work may be hard at the beginning, but when the success comes, the work becomes easier, as all we need to do is sustain the work, so we to can have true success with all the glory as Tom and others like him. The time is now to end the hate, step up to the plate and throw the winning touchdown in the game of life, so we all can walk our paths within this journey of life, as successful as Tom, really enjoy the beauty that Mother Earth has for us all and be at peace with ourselves and all those around us.

” The work may be hard at the beginning, but as we achieve success, the work becomes easier as we sustain and enjoy”

” There is no excuse for this word called hate, it is only us being lazy and afraid to put in the hard work”

” Hate is a four letter word we let control who we are, another four letter word to end the hate is work, when we all work hard there is no time for any hate”

The biggest Scandel of my lifetime of any sport………..

GEDSC DIGITAL CAMERA        “The fire is burning within the entire National Football League and with the way the league is handling the situation of so called under inflated footballs, then mishandling other business that is far worse than this, this fire is quickly turning into a roaring blaze, with no way to put it out”.

Let’s get this out of the way first, Hockey is my #1 sport, with the Boston Bruins being my favorite team, football is #2 on my list, with the New England Patriots being my favorite team and yes I have suffered through all the years before Belichek/Brady even came into the picture. True the Patriots are my favorite team, but I am such a sports fanatic, that I can see past the crap and look at all angles equally, unlike all the Drama Queens within all the Sports media. Yes I may struggle and not want to believe when a favorite player does something wrong, but if all the true facts were to come out against this player, okay I may have a hard time to accept the facts, but I would accept them and move on. Now in the case of Tom Brady and the way the NFL has dealt with this, then listening to Bob Kraft speak very angrily to the media? I have no choice but to go from 100% to 120% behind Tom Brady with my support.

I get the fact that the NFL is a business, but when the business becomes bigger than the sport itself, now you have a huge problem that needs to be fixed. How can you basically convict someone when you have no concrete evidence, which is what has been done to Tom Brady, Roger Goodell says in his report that Brady destroyed his phone? Brady comes out and says he did not destroy anything, that his samsung phone broke and he replaced it with a new Iphone? Then went to his carrier to try to retrieve the texts, but could not? I believe Tom on this as his play on and off the field through his tenure with the New England Patriots has proven that he is a straight up person. Tom Brady works very hard to be the best Quarterback for himself and the team he plays for, he is always the first to practice and the one who works the hardest, so hard that he expects perfection of himself and when that perfection is not there, he gets pissed at himself first before anything else.

Now let’s talk hypothetically, if you work for a Corporation and they pay for you to have a cellphone and want to monitor your calls and texts, that is completely fair and within the rights of the Corporation. Now you have a personal cell phone and your Company wants you to hand over that phone, you are within your rights not to, even if the company responds by disciplining you in some way shape or form? But and this is a big “BUT”, you are within your rights to fight them, because the word “personal” is just that…………. Personal. This is exactly what is going on between Tom Brady and the National Football League, the way the league has handled this and all other situations within the league, to me is suspicious at best, when you have two Individuals that have been proven of physical abuse against their Spouse and have received a slap on the hand, compared to the way they are handling a so called deflated football? There is something wrong within the organization and needs to be corrected in a big way, not too mention the way the league has handled a lot of other situations brought before them in the past.

Roger Goodell would not be Commissioner if it weren’t for Robert Kraft and the way Mr. Kraft spoke this morning of the leagues actions, he is pissed and I can’t say I don’t blame him one bit. The league has handled this situation badly from the start and it is just snow balling out of control right now, like a small camp fire left unattended. Tom Brady with his four Super Bowl wins, his three Superbowl MVP’s and his two league regular season MVP’s, not to mention other records and stats he holds, has more than proven that he is the best Quarterback of this time and can be mentioned along with the greatest Quarterbacks, within the history of the National Football league.   Tom Brady does not need to cheat, cause he works his tail off whether in practice or a sanctioned game and when you work as hard as Tom does, you also can be the best at what you do. There is an old saying, “the hater’s are always going to hate”? This holds so true today and because Tom works so hard to be the best at what he does, plus the fact he has become a winner, now your going to have hater’s coming out of the wood work everywhere. What I say to all the Hater’s is, “if you want to be a Winner like Tom Brady, then step up to the plate and beat the Winner”. “Stop all the talk cause talk is cheap, it’s your actions and how you step up to the plate that matters a lot more than the cheap words”. Tom Brady is a class act and we all should step up to the plate to be like him, he has my full support through all this and when all is said and done, all the hater’s will go back under that rock they crawled out from.

” the Hater’s may always hate, but if they spent more time stepping up to the plate, then they will find there is no time to hate”

” The National Football League clearly has it’s issues, it’s time they step up to the plate and fix the issues, so the league can become better and let the great players get back to what they do best”

The Food of life is more than just opening the kitchen cupboards.

” The paths of our journey of life are all different from each other, yet they are so similar in the true place in which they bring us”.

Each of these pictures and the paths in which you see, may look very different from one another, but when you look deeply into what you see, then you can clearly see that each path holds it’s own beauty to each one of us, as we walk these paths throughout our journey of life.

Throughout this Society in which we live, when we think of food we think of sitting down at a table and eating what we have purchased at the local grocery store. What we tend to take for granted is, the alter at our church also has a table, that God invites us all to, so we can receive the food of life. This food is a lot more than what we sit down to eat and fill our stomach’s at our tables within our homes, the food of life is God’s word for us all, so we all can walk our paths of this journey through life, to be better and stronger and share with each other, so we all can be at peace, while showing our true love towards each other.

” The food of life is God’s word, that comes to us through the Scriptures and everything we do or see around us”. “Everything truly happens to us for a reason, it is we the people that need to look deeply into what happened, in order to see the why of what happened, so we can understand better the reason of what has happened”.

I understand that when things happen to us, our thoughts become clouded and we make future decisions and choices through the clouds of these thoughts, these choices and decisions don’t have to define who we are, because who we truly are is deep within our core and as the clouds of our clouded thoughts disappear, then we will truly see who we truly are, we will truly see the why’s of what has happened to us, so as the clouds disappear, we all can see the beauty within all the paths and see the food of life that God has graced us with, as we all walk our paths of this journey of life, peacefully while showing our love of one another and making all our lives care free and happy.

These paths within these pictures are paths that take us on a journey through an area that we may either know, or that we are exploring, but what we tend to over look is, these paths are very similar to the paths of our journey through life. When we look deeply into what we see on these paths, we will truly see the food of life, that God has put in place to make us all better and stronger throughout our journey’s. It is our clouded thoughts, our arrogance and our selfish ways, that keep us from looking deeply into what we see. Truly seeing the food of life that God has put forth in front of us, will help us all be better and stronger, while walking our paths of our journey of life peacefully, as we all share our love of God and each other always throughout this journey of life.

” The food we eat just fills our stomach’s to give us energy, so we can truly see the food of life that God has put forth in front of us”

” You say steak dinner, but God says come to my table and I will show you the true food of life”

An era we should never forget.

  ” The Classics of our past, which we should always remember as we move forward, better and stronger on our paths of our journey of life”.

This car in this picture for those not familiar with it is, a 1939 Citron from the Country of France. This is more than just a car, as this shows just how those of that Society, walked their paths of their journey of life. All the Societies throughout Mankind, have had their ups as well as their downs, they also created many things that not only helped themselves be better and stronger, but also helped those around them to be better and stronger. Each Society has had their problems as well their good, just as we today may struggle in ways of hardship, lack of respect, irresponsibility and not doing to our neighbor as we would want them to do to us? We do have a lot of good that we bring to our Society like, all the technology, the social media networks so we can stay in touch with those around from anywhere, but instead of the technology and the social networks working to help us, we use them in ways that do nothing but create much hatred around us.

With things like this car and all the beauty that is around us, it is sad that we over look these things and let the ugliness and hatred consume who we are today. This was not God’s vision when he created Mankind, only we the people who have created all this ugliness and hatred over time throughout our journey. Sometimes in life along our journey we have these life events that cross our paths, with these events and as we try to move forward with no pain, we then proceed to suppress all the pain and while doing this we also suppress a huge part of who we are. When we hide deep within ourselves who we really are, not even we ourselves know who we are? We then do what ever we need to do in order, to keep this pain hidden within us, but what we don’t realize at the time is, the pain doesn’t stay hidden forever and will come back to us when we least expect it.

Life along our journey doesn’t have to be sad, ugly, or full of hatred, like Jesus showed us when he came to us and walked his journey, we to can get to that path of righteousness, walk our journey’s in peace, as we all love one another. The power is deep within our core in the name of the Holy Spirit. We all have this Holy Spirit within us, we just have to acknowledge it, to unleash it’s true power. When the whoa’s of your life seems heavy and never ending, the power of prayer will always lift that heaviness right off your shoulders, as we stay true to who we are and have complete faith in Jesus Christ, cause he to feels the heaviness of the weight on our shoulders and will always forgive us no matter what, then as we trust in him and ourselves, he will always guide us towards that path of righteousness.

” 1939 Citron was and still is a beautiful car, we just have to look past the dust, like we look past the ugliness to see all the true beauty in everything we see”

Getting back in touch with Mankinds roots….

         Real primitive type camping………. a part of life we all have taken for granted. Within today’s Society of we want it all now and being pampered in everything we do, we have lost site of the times within Mankind that has led us to where we are now. Even this type of camping and the nice tents we use to sleep in, or the camp grills and stoves we use to cook our meals, is not truly roughing it as the ones who were part of the beginning of Mankind. The first of Mankind to wander this planet Earth, truly had it rough, no store to go buy any clothing or food, no homes or even a tent to seek shelter in, they had to learn to build a fire for warmth, not too mention learning to cook their meat from the hunt, so they can eat and refuel their bodies. We within this Society are so much more pampered than those of earlier Mankind as they walked their paths of their journey through life.

We throughout this Society have taken so much for granted, that those of earlier Societies are turning over in their graves and are becoming restless, for they are disappointed in the way we walk our paths of our journey through life. Those of earlier Societies may have lived a simple life, but we of today’s society live an easy life with all the technology we have today, plus we also take so much for granted that we have lost respect for everything around us. The journey of life…. yes should be easier from one Society to another, as we learn from each other, fix the mistakes so we can be better through time as we do become smarter as we evolve through time, but when we think we are smarter than each other and lose respect of each other, is when we take everything for granted, than as we lose respect for each other, we then become irresponsible, which we then don’t acknowledge our faults, so if we can’t be responsible anymore, then how can we truly be better than all other Societies of the past?

this type of primitive camping within a tent, is a dieing breed today, as it is being taken for granted of by an easier type of camping, within the walls of a camper and with all the comforts of home,  not too mention on the grounds of a campground, with all kinds of fun activities going on around you and hook ups of electricity, water and waste pumps for the toilet. I understand we want the easy life, but when it involves losing respect, being irresponsible and taking everything for granted, than this camping within the walls of a camper is forcing us to become something we truly are not. A big part of us growing within Society involves, learning from earlier Societies and fixing mistakes they made to make our Society better and stronger, not losing respect, being irresponsible and taking everything around us for granted. We all walk our paths along this journey of life, when we do it right and learn from each other, so we can fix the mistakes of the past, then we all can walk our paths of our journey in peace, as we become better and stronger than Societies of the past.

” Camping to us is not the true camping or living like the early Societies of Mankind”

” Real primitive camping helps us stay connected with Mother Earth and all that is around us”

” Respect, responsibility and taking everything for granted, is the sum of the product we live today within our Society”

The Shepard has come home

     ” Sometimes within life as we walk our paths of our journey of life, we don’t realize til it’s too late, just how much we really have touched the lives of those around us”

” Come home my Shepard, you have gathered the Herd, now it’s time to relax and relish the feeling of what hard work really is”.

Throughout our lives as we walk this journey and more so in today’s Society, we want everything now, we want people to notice who we are and what we are doing, even before we have done anything, or became anything at all, We want so bad to be noticed, that we do anything and become someone we are truly not, just so others will notice us, even if its in the wrong way.

Jesus came to us and walked his journey with us, he did so in a quiet way and like the Shepard gathering the Herd, Jesus gathered his followers one by one. Jesus wasn’t out to win any rewards like we operate today, he just very quietly spread the words of his Father, the Lord God the creator of all Mankind.

Sport’s within our Society is very much like Jesus when he came and walked his journey with us. When you play sports the right way and for the right reasons, whatever sport you play will touch your heart as well as the hearts of many, just like Jesus touched the hearts of many throughout his journey. Lasts nights induction of Brett Favre to the hall of fame within lambeau field and the way that the 70,000+ fans greeted him, shows just how special sports can be within all our lives. There wasn’t a dry eye in the place even Brett was brought to tears as the entire stadium stood as one, to show their appreciation of their Quarterback of the team the Green bay Packers. Brett played a lot of years for this team, he played hard and gave his all to the team, he even brought a Championship back to the fans, so they can celebrate Brett’s hard work with him, last night brought all that hard work back front and center, to the thousands of fans in attendance. This is what sports can truly do within our Society, just like Jesus brought us together for good, Sports can unite us as well, so we all can walk our paths along this journey through life in peace and become stronger and better from one Society to another.

Respect is never just handed to us, we have to go out and earn the respect, by doing whatever we do in the right way, when we cheat to try to get the respect and when we think respect should just be given to us, true respect will never be awarded to us.  True respect takes a lot of hard work and dedication to whatever you do, without these two respect you will never have earned. Some of the sports players think that because they are playing for a lot of money, that we all should respect them always? I got news for you, true respect does not work that way. Real sports stars like Brett Favre, Ray Bourque, Bobby Orr, Bill Russell, or Micheal Jordon to name a few, received the respect for the sport they played after they retired, cause they were to busy working their tail off and giving 100% to the teams in which they played. Sports can and will be when done in the right way, a way to unite together large quantities of people to show true respect to each other, Jesus when he came to us didn’t ask to be respected by any of us, he earned that respect with his actions and his teachings to all of us. With this feeling of respect also comes the knowing that, you have become a Shepard to many, by bringing together many for the reason of good towards all and like the Shepard at the end of the day, now you to can relax truly, knowing that your job is done. There is no better feeling we will ever feel, than earning the respect of many, as we all walk our paths along our journey of life.

” Sports when played for the right reasons, will always unite many, but when done for the wrong reasons will bring great pain and hatred to all”

” The job of the Shepard wasn’t a job where glory was around you, but you did the job anyways going unannounced to those around you, but in the end you earned much respect from all those around you”

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